Mr. and Mrs. Yuan Longping went to Hong Kong to meet Xin Shiwen, a professor at the University of Chinese in Hong Kong and an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering, and his wife. When the two introduced their wives to each other, Xin Shiwen said with a gentlemanly demeanor: "This is my wife." Yuan Longping smiled and said, "This is my Xiannai help." As soon as Mrs. Xin heard this, she was particularly moved, and immediately said to Mr. Xin: "Don't call Mrs. Xin in the future, you must call Kennaisuke, Kennaisuke is better than Mrs. Kennesuke!" ”
Yuan Longping has always called his wife Deng Ze a xian nei helper, which is a kind of dependence, a kind of entrustment, this family, this family, almost all of them have been handed over to her.
Every time he went out on a long trip, his wife had to prepare food, clothing, and use for him early, and on the eve of his departure, his wife began to pack for him, and he couldn't even fold his clothes, just standing aside, rubbing his hands, but he couldn't help much. The next day, he went out with his baggage. Such a burden has been carried for many years, with the temperature of his wife, and the concern of a family, chasing the sun, and going to the end of the world again and again.
As long as Yuan Longping mentioned his own Xiannaisuke, there was something in his eyes that became deeper and deeper, that is, deep guilt and self-blame, and it seemed that there was a deeper existence. He was silent for a long time before he slowly spoke: "The greatest happiness in my life is that when no one else will marry me, Deng did not hesitate to agree to my marriage proposal." She was always with me during the most difficult times of my life. She did give too much, in the 70s, when we were very hard, because I was always doing scientific research outside, and the burden of the family was picked up by her alone..."
In 1974, Yuan Longping's father was hospitalized with advanced stomach cancer and his life was in danger. A telegram reached Anjiang, and Deng entrusted the family affairs to his mother, rushing from Anjiang to Chongqing, serving soup medicine in the hospital and serving the elderly wholeheartedly. At this time, Yuan Longping was breeding at the South Breeding Base on Hainan Island.
Not long after, the old man died, and Deng Ze did not tell Yuan Longping at the first time. In fact, even if he knew about it at the first time, it would be impossible to rush to his father's side at the first time.
After his father's death, Deng Ze took Yuan's mother to An Jiang. At that time, Yuan Longping had been transferred to Changsha to work, but Deng was still working in the library of Anjiang Agricultural School, and where his wife was, his home was.
From the time the old man came to Anjiang to his death, for fifteen years, he relied on Deng Ze, the daughter-in-law, to take care of him. The old man is old, in poor health, often sick and bedridden, she can live so old, thanks to Deng Ze.
In addition to taking care of his mother-in-law, Deng also has to take care of his mother. A middle-aged woman, not only to go to work as usual, but also to shoulder such a burden of housework, how bitter and tired, think about it, but Deng never cried a bitter tired. But such long-term fatigue has reached the limit of what a person's body can bear.
Yuan Longping rarely said words of gratitude, but in a letter to his wife, he was full of gratitude for her: "The old mother and young children in the family are all dependent on you to take care of." I often think that having a virtuous wife like you is indeed a blessing for me and my whole family. I hope you take care of your body, strengthen nutrition and step up treatment..." Deng did not know how many times he had read this letter. When the family had fallen asleep, she was trapped in that lonely long night, thinking of her husband in the distance, and the tears slipped silently onto the letter paper.
At dawn, she became a happy woman with a smile on her face, washing and cooking for the family, and in the busyness of the day and the loneliness of the night, her body, which originally had the physique of an athlete, was gradually losing weight...
In fact, long before Yuan Longping wrote her this letter, she had been seriously ill once, and she had died once. It was one day in 1982, and Deng suddenly felt a headache, accompanied by severe spasms, high fever, vomiting, and the family was frightened. With the help of her colleagues, she was rushed to the hospital, and a test turned out to be a sudden viral encephalitis! This is a fatal illness, and even if it is cured, it may leave behind sequelae.
When Yuan Longping rushed back, Deng had been in a deep coma, not opening his eyes for nearly half a month, relying on infusions to maintain his dying life. The top beam and pillar in this family was never Yuan Longping, but Deng Ze, she fell ill, the top beam pillar in this family fell, Yuan Longping's mother and mother-in-law did not have Deng Ze's care, and they were more worried about Deng Ze's condition, and they also fell ill one after another.
The three patients, lying in different wards, relied on Yuan Longping to take care of him, and he ran back and forth in three places, taking turns to take care of them, each of which was the dearest relative in his life.
Half a month later, the wife seemed to have spent a long night shrouded in darkness and opened her eyes. A month later, Deng Ze miraculously recovered, leaving no sequelae.
Yuan Longping felt deeply guilty about his family, he felt that he was not a good husband, and he owed Deng Ze a lot. Deng Ze was full of pride and happiness for having such a husband: "Marrying Mr. Yuan is my luck and blessing. ”
