10 years ago today, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because I helped his sister fight, but the deep reason is even more disturbing.
Because there were so many things, we didn't go to my ex-boyfriend's grandmother's house until the tenth grade to visit the New Year, which was the first time I went to his grandmother's house.
As soon as he entered the house, he felt dissatisfied, and his ex-boyfriend Uncle made many provocations about his parents, and everyone put up with it for the sake of grandma.
But the uncle still had nothing to do, and even provoked a thorn in the ex-boyfriend's sister.
Uncle Da first asked me, "Little Peach, how big are your shoes?" ”
I said, "Number 37."
Uncle Big nodded, "Well, it's okay. ”
Turning to his ex-boyfriend's sister, he asked, "How big are you wearing?" How can it look so big? ”
My sister said, "I'm wearing 39, two sizes older than my sister, of course I look big." ”
At that time, my sister had just turned 20 years old, was 1.69 meters tall, and was normal at number 39.
Uncle Da's eyes widened, "What? Number 39? You little girl dare to wear size 39 shoes? What does that look like? ”
My sister and I were confused: "Why can't the little girl wear the number 39 shoes?" Besides, the head is there! ”
Uncle Da said: "The little girl is so big that she doesn't know how to wear a small shoe to strangle, what does it look like?" Didn't your mother teach you? Look at your sister-in-law, wearing no. 37 shoes, it's very good-looking, you listen to me, also wear no. 37 shoes. ”
My sister said, "Why do I wear a small two?" You look good, and I still feel uncomfortable squeezing my feet! ”
Uncle Da said: "Then you walk slowly, the big girl's family does not need to run around, walk slowly, it is still good-looking, it seems gentle and delicate." ”
My sister didn't bother to pay attention to him, so she didn't make a sound, but my former friend, and his parents, kept laughing at Mimi and watching Uncle Da's nonsense.
The uncle saw that his sister was silent, and he said more and more vigorously: "Little girl, you have to have small feet to look good, you actually wear No. 39 shoes, too bad, I only wear 41, you are only two sizes smaller than me, too bad words, too bad words ..."
I really can't look at it anymore, I took off my sister's shoes and threw them to my uncle: "You said there is nothing wrong with wearing a small number two, then you wear a 39 try, you want to be able to wear, then I will give my 37 to Xiao Hui to wear, today I went out barefoot to go home!" ”
The younger sister was also happy: "Yes Uncle, you give me an example for this junior, I will wear the smaller two, and then I will carry my sister back, lol..."
The uncle saw this posture, annoyed and angry, he was embarrassed to say me, so he pointed at his sister and scolded: You are still on the face of a, aren't you...
My sister also jumped up on the table: "It's you who has your face on it, right?" Their own feet are not big, not like a man, and a woman with big feet is not like a woman? ”
The uncle was angry and raised his hand to beat his sister, and I put my arm on it, at which point his family shot out, the ex-boyfriend hugged me, his mother hugged his sister, and his father hugged the uncle.
We all shut up, and uncle was still jumping on his feet and scolding: "What women do you have in your family?" One by one, I don't know what to do..."
This wrapped me, as well as my ex-boyfriend's mother, but his mother just blindly blocked her sister from speaking, and I shouted: "Your woman knows what to do, is your daughter-in-law's foot wrapped?" Did your daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law tie their feet? In the New Year, I wish you immortality and never look away, and wrap your feet in your own hands for your granddaughters, granddaughters-in-law, and all your female offspring! ”
At this time, the grandmother was angry and drove the ex-boyfriend away from our family.
Along the way, my ex-boyfriend's parents scolded my sister all the way, and I knew they were scolding my sister on their lips and scolding me in their hearts.
The ex-boyfriend didn't say a word, just drove with a somber face, and from time to time "advised" his sister to "say two words less".
Now I can understand this family: the ex-boyfriend's father is a good person + son preference. The only promise to the uncle is that the uncle is the "long house" of filial piety to the grandmother, and gave birth to the "eldest grandson", which is the second in command of the family whose status is second only to the grandmother.
The ex-boyfriend's mother approved of her husband's concept and willingly admitted that she was a third-class member of the family and wanted to train her sister to be such a person.
As for the ex-boyfriend, the concept of family and parents has been heard from childhood and accepted in its entirety. To put it bluntly, it is the concept of clan + son preference, maybe it is still a mother treasure man, but out of feelings for me, it has not been revealed for the time being.
The younger sister is the lowest status in this family, the rotation, on gender, anyone can bully it, even the father and mother and brother will not help her, but where there is oppression, there is resistance, so she is also recognized by everyone as "disrespectful, grumpy." ”
If I marry into such a family, I will definitely work in the future, serve his family, and have to have a son.
After returning to my own house in the evening and saying all this to my parents, I immediately called and broke up.
Of course, the process of breaking up is also a variety of dog blood, not to mention, only Xiaohui sister.
Although I could not become her sister-in-law, I also contacted her for a few years, and before she graduated from college, she stole the hukou book and moved herself out.
After graduation, she changed her mobile phone number and went to work in a big city.
In the first year of work, she brought a lot of gifts back to her hometown, and her father asked her to stay in her hometown to work, marry and have children, and how everyone went from persuasion to scolding, she never let go.
The next year, she stopped coming home and broke off contact with me, and I wanted her to live happily and freely somewhere.
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