Xiaoping's mother-in-law said at home that she did not give Xiaoping a good look, and after three years of marriage without children, her mother-in-law forced Xiao Ping to divorce and let Xiaoping return the 30,000 dowry. Xiao Ping's husband Li Jun is considerate and kind, and Xiao Ping is reluctant to have the feelings of the two, but she can't live without divorce. When Xiaoping was preparing for the divorce procedures, her mother-in-law's attitude took a 180-degree turn.
Xiaoping's mother-in-law has always suspected Xiaoping's infertility, and some time ago she let their little two go to the big hospital for examination. Her husband is physically strong, and Xiaoping also suspects that infertility is her own reason, so many years, her mother-in-law said ugly words, Xiaoping never dared to return.
The inspection results were unexpected, it turned out that her husband Li Jun was ill, Xiao Ping cried loudly, and she beat Li Jun's back fiercely: "It's all your problem, so many years, how much I have suffered!" The husband wept silently and did not say a word.
Back at home, as soon as Xiao Ping entered the door, she was sneered at by her mother-in-law: "Yo, how do you cry and mourn your face, find out that you are sick?" Xiao Ping did not choose silence this time, but loudly returned to the past: "Whoever is sick, you are sick!" After saying that, he slammed the door and went into the bedroom.
Seeing that the mother-in-law was there, Li Jun said: "It was found out, it was my reason," the mother-in-law sobbed and choked, and the next day she ran to the old Chinese medicine doctor to get the infertility medicine. The bitter medicinal juice was drunk bowl by bowl, And Xiao Ping's belly was no longer bulging, and her mother-in-law finally died.
Xiao Ping once wanted to divorce, but Li Jun said, I am sick, will someone want me? Are you willing to leave me behind? So Xiaoping and her husband adopted a boy. The mother-in-law worked hard to help them with the children, and took a 180-degree turn in Xiao Ping's attitude, and every day she greeted them with warm greetings and smiling faces.
The son is very well-behaved and smart, and the family of three is happy and harmonious. For many years, Xiaoping's adopted son went to college, and her mother-in-law died. One day, Xiao Ping cleaned up the cabinet and found several yellowed checklists in an old folder, Xiao Ping looked at it, her face changed, and she took it to ask her husband.
The husband said, "Yes, I lied, and it was checked out that it was your problem. Xiao Ping was stunned and asked him why he was like this, and her husband said: "My mother knows that you are infertile, and will definitely force me to divorce you, and I am not willing to give you" "Then why don't you even tell me?" The husband said: "You raise your eyebrows in front of my mother, it is you think that the infertile person is me, if I tell you the truth, you will be bottomless", my mother is so smart, will see the flaws. When I drank the bowl of medicinal juice, I pretended that the sick person was really me.
Xiao Ping burst into tears and suddenly threw herself into her husband's arms. For so many years, the husband has used his patience, wisdom and gentleness to prop up a rainless clear sky for himself! Her husband's love lit up Xiaoping's life, turning her grievances into sweetness and pain into happiness!
Hugo said that if there is no love in the world, the sun will die. Love is not the wind and snow, but the pity in the heart. Love is not a sweet word, but a shield for you.
In marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to be an insurmountable obstacle, and the poor relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will cause a lot of trouble in life after marriage.
Many mothers-in-law believe that if they get married and do not have children, they are not filial piety, and it is better to marry a daughter-in-law without having children than to raise hens that can only lay eggs. Meeting such a mother-in-law in the story is really a headache, but fortunately Xiaoping has a husband who loves her, thinks for her, and puts her happiness and needs ahead of herself.
Female compatriots are often heard complaining that when there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband often prefers the mother-in-law, and the female compatriots can only break their teeth and swallow in the stomach. The strong intervention of the mother-in-law has also led to the demise of many otherwise happy marriages.
After marriage, the family should take the husband and wife as the core, and the mother-in-law should withdraw, not think that this is her home, and want to decide. When dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the role of the husband is very important, and many times the husband's handling can determine whether the wife is happy or not.
Edmond says that if love is loved for the sake of self-interest, this love is not true love, but a desire.
In this story, the third-class husband will pretend to be a pitiful and innocent person, push the responsibility for divorce to the mother-in-law, but play a small calculation of marrying a new wife; the second-class husband will face it with his wife and persuade the mother-in-law to treat his wife well, such a husband cannot say that he does not love his wife, but he lacks wisdom; the first-class husband is Li Jun in the story, and uses love and wisdom to support his wife with a rainless clear sky.
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