"Men should marry when women marry", children reach marriageable age, parents are more anxious than anyone, afraid of being left behind if they are not careful. In addition to family reunions, for unmarried men and women, the more important thing is blind dates.
Now men and women in the city go on dating sites, and men and women in rural areas are face to face. Relatively speaking, rural blind dates are more reliable than marriage websites, generally introduced by acquaintances, know the roots, and run to get married.
However, the proportion of men and women in rural areas is out of balance, there are hundreds of female families in a family, girls have become fragrant, and the probability of boys being caught in the picture is very low, and they often take advantage of the fun and return home. The parents of the boys were even more anxious, and they were simply sad.
On February 5, in Guigang, Guangxi, a video of a mother urging marriage aroused the attention of netizens. This mother begged her daughter-in-law earnestly, hoping that her son would be successful in kissing immediately, and then get married and have children, and she would even forget her wish.
According to the boy's sister, the boy was arranged by the family to go on a blind date that morning. When I got there, I looked at the girl, but I didn't even see it clearly, so I just said a few words, and then I was called out by the matchmaker and arranged for another young man to go in for a blind date.
The boy came home and didn't say anything, and he didn't feel anything about such a blind date. Two strangers meet in a hurry, where is the spark of love that may be rubbed? So, he also went with the flow and didn't think much about it.
However, the emperor was not in a hurry, and the boy's mother saw that her son did not say anything, so she asked her son: "Is it appropriate for that girl to go on a blind date in the morning?" If it is appropriate, I will book it tomorrow. ”
The boy looked confused, he had just gone on a blind date in the morning, and when he got home for a while, he hadn't yet taken a breath, and his mother asked if it was appropriate or not, and when it was appropriate, he would be engaged immediately. Listening to my mother's tone, I would like to be engaged tomorrow, get married the day after tomorrow, and hold my grandson the day after tomorrow.
The boy ignored his mother and met him like this, what is suitable or inappropriate? Besides, the engagement also requires the consent of both parties, and it is not something that can be booked if you want to. The boy was helpless, put on his shoes, and wanted to leave the room.
The mother saw that her son was going out, pulled him aside, and wanted to continue to ask questions, but the sister stopped the mother.
Netizens are also both funny and helpless to this mother's marriage, the mother is very concerned about her son's marriage, but such an attitude is too irresponsible, marriage is not a child's play, really for the son should not be so urged to marry.
Some netizens said: This is not to love the son, this is to harm him, to get married for the sake of marriage, will not be happy.
Some netizens said: Such parents are irresponsible performances for their sons! It's understandable to be anxious, but you can't joke about your child's happiness.
Some netizens said: Sometimes parents can't impose their own wishes on their children, and they accidentally harm them for a lifetime.
Some netizens shared their blind date experience: I was also scared off by such success, just after the blind date in the morning, I walked on the front foot, and the back foot said it was suitable for engagement. I was too frightened to continue dating.
Netizens still have objections to the immediate engagement of the blind date, which is too irresponsible, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, of course, can not be sloppy. Maybe this mother's attitude is also the attitude of the current parents, for the marriage of their children, parents are also anxious to eat and sleep, especially those older young men and women have not yet married, parents feel inferior.
It is understandable that parents are impatient, but it is really inappropriate to blindly urge marriage in this way. Two people with incompatible personalities, different interests, and inconsistent views cannot live under the same roof. Instead of rushing to get married now and then getting divorced in a hurry, it is not harming the children.
In fact, as long as the child feels that the current life is happy, it is really not so important to marry or not. The parents' wish is also to let the child live happily, so they follow the child's wishes and do not interfere too much in their marriage.
Fate this matter is not urgent, the boat to the bridge is naturally straight, relax the mentality, just go with the flow.