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Previous Article We Talked About What Kind of Men Older Leftover Women Would Marry. In this article, let's talk about what kind of woman will the older leftover man eventually marry?
First of all, we need to understand that most of the situations between older leftover women and older leftover men are not the same. In fact, no matter what era, no matter how appropriate the proportion of men and women is, there are leftover men and women.
This cannot be changed.
To get this straight, let's look at the specifics of most older leftover men.
Basically the older leftover men are those men who refuse to be motivated, the economic conditions are not good, and they are poor. The other is the man whose feelings have been hurt and who have always refused to come out. Or the kind of man who doesn't want to get married and wants to be free. There are also men with bad tempers.
The above men can easily become older leftover men.
If it is divided only from economic conditions, it is divided into older leftover men with good conditions and poor conditions. In a way, older leftover men with better conditions may eventually be able to marry their wives. And those who have bad conditions may only be able to grow old alone.
So, what kind of woman will the older leftover man eventually marry?
It is nothing more than to marry divorced women, older leftover women and women with not very good conditions.
Let's analyze them one by one.
First, why do most older leftover men end up marrying divorced women?
After all, most divorced women will lower their requirements when looking for a marriage partner. And some older leftover men are still in good condition, they may choose.
For older leftover men, if their conditions are not good enough, it may be difficult to find an unmarried woman. Because such a woman basically does not look at the older leftover men. This is a very real factor.
Whether you acknowledge it or not, it's an objectively existing reality.
Then there is the second case, where most older leftover men marry an older leftover woman.
Why is that? Because each other want to get off the list early. Maybe there will be a resonance. Many people say they look down on each other.
Not necessarily. There are also some older leftover women and older leftover men who end up as a family. This is also an option. It's just that a lot of times, people misunderstand.
In the end, the older leftover man will marry a woman who is not very good in all aspects. For example, the temperament is not very good, and the economic conditions are not very good.
If you have to make a summary, the wife that the older leftover man eventually marries should be a woman whose conditions are not very good and people feel that it is bad.
But in fact, live a life as long as you feel it is appropriate.
What is your own situation, you will make a choice based on your actual situation. Other people's opinions are only someone else's. For the older leftover man himself, regardless of the specific circumstances of this woman. As long as you can live a good life for each other. This is the most important.
So, from this point of view, most of the older leftover men end up marrying this wife, not their ideal partner. But it should also be considered more suitable for him.
To put it simply, we can understand that from the perspective of the older leftover man himself, the woman he can find should be the best within his ability.
Let's talk about the older leftover men who can't end up marrying their wives.
They are actually for various reasons, and the main reason should be that they get by and get by.
I have seen some older leftover men, whose conditions are not good in themselves, and lack of love intelligence. But I am not willing to try to improve myself.
Marriage is realistic, and from a lifestyle perspective, if you don't have the ability to bring happiness to a woman yourself. Do you think people will marry you? Therefore, for older leftover men, they must understand this realistic factor.
If you are not qualified enough, try to improve yourself.
From this point of view, the key to what kind of wife you will eventually marry is to see how your own actual situation is.
Generally speaking, if all aspects of the conditions are good, you will be more selective. And those older leftover men who can only end up alone in the end are actually no way to choose.
It's not that they don't want to get married, it's that there really aren't women who want to marry them.
If that's the case, then no one else can be blamed. To blame, or perhaps only to blame yourself. But if it does come to this point, we also need to take our lives seriously.
After all, even if you live alone, you still have to live a good life.
There are also some older leftover men who have embraced the influence of single-mindedness. They will actively choose to be single for a lifetime. In fact, this is also a choice.
From our own point of view, our own life is up to us. Therefore, what kind of life you want, in fact, you have the final say.
But once you choose, you must go on without complaint or regret.
And for older leftover men, if you want to marry a wife that satisfies you. You have to rely on your own ability. If you are so easy to do, you may only be able to find a wife with bad conditions.
Topic: In your opinion, what will be the final outcome of the older leftover men?
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