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- The peasants are the most bitter
The year is approaching, and it is the climax of blind dates. At the end of each year, those who should come back also come back, and it is clear at a glance who has a daughter who has not married, who has an elderly leftover man in the village. At this time, the matchmakers are going to show their fists, what is the imbalance between men and women, what can not find a daughter-in-law, as long as you are willing to give money, a day can arrange more than ten blind dates for you, blind dates are white that is the interview, the reality is that they go to wait to be picked, and even the blind date object has to face dozens of male children's choices every day, not so much as blind dates, but rather to join in the fun! In short, all problems tend to be one-sided, resulting in rural boys becoming the most embarrassing targets.
No matter who is in a hurry, it is the parents who are the most anxious, no matter how worried or the parents are the most worried, all the blind date bureaus are basically arranged by the parents to help, most young people are still more tired of this model, but forced by the requirements of their parents, coupled with the reality that they are not married at an older age, they also have to force their scalps to join the hilarity.
I had kissed once before I got married, and I had never thought about a blind date before, and I had never had such a concept in my head. However, when you reach the age, you don't worry about someone to worry about you, at the strong request of my parents, I went to a village in the town, carrying two boxes of gifts not only to meet the girl, but also to see the old woman of the girl. After my sister took me into the courtyard, they didn't let us in, didn't talk, and were embarrassed for a few minutes before they arranged a separate room for the two of us.
First of all, regardless of the appearance, the nagging is simply not in one direction, the donkey's head is not nagging at the horse's mouth for about five minutes, the whole blind date process is about 10 minutes to end the battle, I don't know if people have a match for me, in short, I don't have any feelings. I thought about giving a QQ what to talk about online first and then offline, who had wanted to come so suddenly, and saw the family all over again. I remember my parents also admonishing me: "Feel it without touching it?" So I made up my mind to find a daughter-in-law by my own ability, and the next day I embarked on the road of north drift and never kissed again.
There are many elderly leftover men in rural areas, but they are unwilling to go on a blind date?
It is this one-sided blind date model that makes economic conditions a winning formula. If the family conditions are good, they can successfully pass the "interview", so how should these conditions be good in general?
Putting aside any good feelings and love, rural blind dates may only be to find someone with good conditions to marry, and the man is to find a low-demand marriage, in fact, this is already the minimum demand for both sides. Who ever thought that, as a man, even if it is to find a minimum daughter-in-law, he can't get rid of the hard indicators of the house and car, and the blind date is no longer a blind date, but a kiss. So much so that some young men who have repeatedly failed in blind dates have lost confidence and have become extreme in their hearts towards girls.
I have a buddy who doesn't know how many times they have kissed each other, but none of them have succeeded. His requirements are very low, pension son-in-law, second marriage and children can be accepted, this is also a goal that has not been achieved for many years, I have to sigh: how difficult it is to marry a daughter-in-law now.
So let's analyze the reasons why young people are reluctant to go on a blind date:
Who doesn't want to marry a daughter-in-law and go home quickly, who wants to die alone? However, the reality is cruel, and the main reason why young people nowadays hate blind dates more and more is:
1. Excessive urging by parents
In the new year, you see, the family and the son of the family who are not married are very busy, either to find a matchmaker to arrange a blind date, or to go to each home to tell the situation of their own family, in short, the son is not worried about the death of his parents, and even some parents can't sleep every day because the child can't find a daughter-in-law. However, as a party, the excessive urging of parents makes them tired, and when you open your eyes and close your eyes, you can imagine how you feel. This kind of thing is also urgent, but as a parent, how can you not worry about it? Over time, the urging has made the children who have not been able to find a daughter-in-law for a long time become indifferent, and even contradict their parents.
2. Repeated failures of blind dates
Friends who often go on blind dates must have the most feelings, when you face an unmarried lady who is not good-looking, has no talent, and even can't see herself, the result is to give you a sentence: "We are not suitable", you will think in your heart: "Who can these women deserve, who is suitable, why is it not always suitable for yourself"? After repeated failures, they have invisibly had a kind of inferiority in their hearts and a kind of self-abandonment! Over time, they no longer believe in blind dates, and they have developed a jealous hatred for this "interview" model, and have since ceased to believe in blind dates.
3. Psychological factors of self-conceit and pride
There are also some people who think that they are particularly good, and how they look and talent like themselves, how can they match a Snow White, how to talk about a vigorous love and then get married through their own search. However, they do not care to go on a blind date at all, they look down on this arrangement of blind date in their hometown, they believe in love more, and they believe that they can find the princess who is waiting for her, so that time passes day by day, and the thirty or so still has not reached their goal, and the blind date arranged by the family cannot be seen at all. As the village said: "High or low, don't know how much ability you have?" ”
My cousin is a regular worker, and the most worrying thing about his family in his 30s is his marriage. You said that he didn't have the ability to find it himself, and he didn't see the matchmaker who the family paid for. Every time he called his parents, he always talked about marriage, and then he simply did not answer his parents' calls and did not go back to see it in the New Year. Every time the arranged blind date is missing, despite this, the parents still spend money to ask the matchmaker, the old couple is worried at home, as for what he thinks in his heart, I don't know, in short, I can feel that he hates the blind date.
Now the fact that it is difficult to find a daughter-in-law in the countryside plagues every family, the so-called serious illness and chaos to go to the doctor, as long as there is a culmination of news about the woman, the family members will use all kinds of relationships to trust friends, find acquaintances, move relatives, find matchmakers, it can be said that the method is exhausted, but it is often difficult to achieve family affairs, the reason is that the so-called blind date in the countryside has deteriorated! Rural blind dates have undergone qualitative changes, and it is worth our consideration.
In short, now some rural guys can't marry their daughters-in-law and don't want to go on a blind date, I don't know how you think about this matter? Have you ever been on a blind date? How does it feel?
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