For the phenomenon of more women and young men among young people in today's society, I believe that everyone is also very clear, after all, this matter is closely related to everyone's life. Although the concept is now open, and starting a family and having children is not the first priority of life as before, there are still many conservative young people who are eager to start their own small families.
How do I find an object? This should be a big problem for many young people, after all, two people with completely different living environments want to go to the step of marriage. For the matter of marriage, the elderly are often more anxious than the young people, and urging marriage has become a necessary link for young people to return home for the New Year. If you can't find boyfriend and girlfriend, at this time, your parents will most likely worry about you, find a matchmaker to introduce the right young people to let you two go on a blind date.
Generally speaking, a blind date is at most one a day, after all, this is respect for the other party. After meeting the other person, I probably have to go home to discuss with my parents and consider whether this person is suitable.
And just recently in Henan, a girl can be said to have set a blind date record. This girl actually went on a blind date of more than 30 boys a day, and also made the boy's information public with her girlfriend to discuss which boy's conditions can be worthy of herself, which is really a realistic version of Wu Zetian's "concubine selection".
This incident also caused a sensation in the local area, and many netizens also joked: Was Wu Zetian reborn? With the in-depth understanding, it has to be said that the facts are even more incredible. If these boys want to come to the girl's house for a blind date, they must be brought by the matchmaker, and they cannot enter the door after they come, they must wait in line at the door, and it is their turn to enter. What do you think? Did everyone think of the scene of the emperor's concubine in the first episode of "The Biography of Zhen Huan"?
Henan is now approaching minus zero, it can be said that it is very cold, these boys and matchmakers may need to wait in line from the morning until late at night, and finally meet with girls, and then accept the scrutiny of girls. In the chat between the girl and the girlfriend, it can be learned that because there are too many boys seen in one day, in the end she can't even remember the appearance and name, let alone further develop with them. So if that's the case, why not let the boy and the matchmaker who are in the back of the line go back? We don't know.
Last year, a popular term appeared on the Internet - male competition, which probably means that men compete among the same sex in order to compete for women's favorites. Isn't the act of this girl dating 30 boys a day a day a naked "male competition" among boys?
The development of this large-scale "competition" is inseparable from the phenomenon that there are more women and young men among young people in today's society, and if the proportion of young men and women is equal, the difficulty of finding a partner will naturally decrease. I believe that these boys are not willing to stand at the gate of the girl's house on the cold day of counting nine, waiting all day to call themselves, right?
What do you think about this one-woman-to-many-man blind date? In the past, there was only a rough concept of the phenomenon of more women and fewer men, but now that we have really seen the difficulty of male "courtship", do you still want to step into marriage?