That was probably 20 years ago.
My cousin was much older than me, so when I was in elementary school, my cousin was old enough to get married.
The cousin is short, honest, and poor, and such a person is probably difficult to marry a wife in the present.
Even 20 years ago, it wasn't easy.
But my cousin has a strength, that is, he can endure hardships and save money. It's not so much about saving money as it is about being miserly.
Farming, he is not afraid of hardship, can pick, can carry, can work for a long time. In the field, no matter how big the sun is, it does not wear a kasa.
Some people say he's made of iron, and we think he might be made of iron.
Later, when he could make money doing muddy water work, he went to do muddy water work. It is not technical work that is done, but work that contributes to strength.
Because he can bear hardships and people are miserly, people know that he has money, but he is reluctant to spend.
At that time, my aunt was worried about her cousin's marriage, and I don't know how many people had interceded, given gifts, and run relationships.
I have gone on a few blind dates, but none of them have come to fruition.
Later, a matchmaker asked her aunt, "Do you have a daughter?" ”
My aunt did have a daughter, my cousin.
To be honest, my cousin didn't have much of an idea and didn't have an opinion on anything.
The aunt said, "Yes." ”
The matchmaker said, "Then you marry your daughter to Zhang San, Zhang San has a sister, and I asked them to arrange for Zhang San's sister to marry your son!" ”
The aunt thought that with the appearance of her son, she could probably only marry a wife in this form, otherwise she would be daydreaming. So he agreed with the matchmaker's statement.
The matchmaker took my cousin to Zhang San's house and went on a blind date with Zhang San.
Who knew that when Zhang San saw my cousin, he thought she was stupid and stupid, and he didn't look at her, so he refused.
The matchmaker also persuaded Zhang San: "As long as the parts are complete, you can have children, what do you pick, what to pick!" ”
Zhang San said, "Otherwise, you will introduce her to Li Si and ask Li Si's sister to marry me, and I will let my sister marry him (my cousin)!" ”
At that time, the matchmaker was a sincere matchmaker, and she thought this proposal was very good, so she told my aunt about this plan.
The aunt said, "Isn't this a triangle?" ”
The matchmaker said: "What does the triangle have to do with it, in fact, there are people playing in the four corners and five corners!" It doesn't matter, it's a big deal that your son can marry a wife. ”
The aunt said, "Of course." So be it. ”
The matchmaker then brought her cousin to Li Si's house.
Li Siyi looked at my cousin, did not say anything, probably acceptable, agreed.
Thus, this triangular affair became.
My cousin's sister- my cousin, married Ton Si, Li Si's sister married Zhang San, and Zhang San's sister married my cousin.
This Sister of Zhang San naturally became my cousin.
The cousin is actually quite beautiful, and people are not stupid.
Do the cousin and cousin have any real feelings? Maybe not.
One night shortly after they got married, we were also at my aunt's house.
That night, there was a tea picking drama in the village. We wanted to ask my cousin to go to the tea picking drama together.
But my cousin wouldn't let her out and stuck her in the room.
There were small cracks in the windows of that old house, and we peeked in through the cracks.
I saw my cousin stopping my cousin and not letting her come out.
My cousin laughed, and I thought she was deliberately teasing her cousin, constantly dodging and struggling, trying to break through the defense line and go out to watch the show.
The cousin, with a serious look, stood in a "big" character, and the copper wall was generally guarded.
The cousin couldn't come out at all.
But then I obviously felt that my cousin didn't want to go to the tea picking drama, and she was deliberately teasing my cousin, right?
Later we saw that the lights in their room were dark. So early on the dark lights, we felt inexplicable.
According to my opinion, my cousin was willing to marry my cousin because of her love for her brother (that is, Zhang San).
She took great care of her brother and sent anything delicious back to him.
What is the benefit, the first thing that comes to mind is the brother.
The cousin couldn't do anything about it, and it was not easy to say anything. If you ask him for money, you can't.
After all, he was a miser.
Until later, when her cousin's brother gave birth to a child, she also brought the child over to help her brother with the child.
Of course, the cousin herself had a child, and she took her brother's child with her.
Others cannot understand the cousin's behavior of caring for and caring for the mother's family.
My cousin gave birth to two children in a row, a son and a daughter, and then went to Guangdong to work.
It is the beginning of the year to the end of the year, and there is no going home in the middle.
My cousin also went to Guangdong to work, and also worked as a mud and water worker. They're not in one place, though.
If my cousin went to see her, she wouldn't see her either. But they also don't divorce.
Because I haven't seen them arguing about getting a divorce.
Now, more than 20 years later. My cousin is still working, and my cousin is back at home, still working as a slurry worker.
Both of them saved up a sum of money, built a house at home, and bought a house for their son in the county town.
Their lives are okay, just couples for decades, they get together less and more, as if after having children, they have not really lived together.
And my cousin, it was tragic. After she married Li Si, she also had two children.
After that, he was abducted and his whereabouts are still unknown.
After Zhang San and Li Si's sister gave birth to a son, they divorced.
Zhang San and his son depended on each other for their lives.
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