A person who does not understand the rules of the game will eventually be marginalized, a truth that I understood a long time ago and put it as a principle in the subconscious. But sometimes, I can't help but lift this lid, hit the wall and then shrink back.
Confucius said, forty is not confused. But how many things in this world can not be confused? It's hard for me to imagine that forty years without doubt? Is there really no doubt, or is there no curiosity about everything? I'm afraid it's the latter. The words of the saints are more convincing than mine.
Without curiosity, it seems that I don't like many things at once, and even many words can make me frown. For example, my name is Zhang San, and I hate all the news and examples about Zhang San (including this sentence). Teenagers love to be lively, and middle-aged people become silent, no longer like to talk like in the past, and they don't like to talk behind their backs. Occasionally I want to say a word, but also said the previous sentence, without the next sentence, the front said one thing, the back does not know where to go. In the past, I always called these words that could not grasp the point of nonsense, but I did not expect that I also fell into this pit.
The older a person is, the more mature they will be, but they know how to do subtraction. Don't take trouble, don't bother, don't do things, don't want to mess things up. I suddenly understood the meaning of forty confusion.
But that wouldn't be completely safe. The rules of the game for people to get along with each other don't allow this. They have a lot of rules of the game, and the rules are different from game to game. Small games are called circles, and large games are called classes.
I'm a person who doesn't want to play small games and can't afford to play big games. Gradually, even the mini-games were no longer played with me. Children who have no one to play are prone to autism, and adults who have no one to play will learn to binge. That may mean, but no one will admit it.
But at least to admit it, a person who doesn't understand the rules of the game will eventually be marginalized.