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Between husband and wife, the most important thing is understanding and respect.
But there are always selfish and unreasonable people who take their partner's efforts for granted.
In the end, it is not only annoying, but also makes relatives avoid it.
The heroine in the next case met a cold-blooded and ruthless husband and let her family be hurt.
As a woman who has just given birth, Cuicui is most worried about what to do next.
She had contacted her mother-in-law several times by phone more than three months earlier.
But the old lady has always said that she is not in a hurry, and she must wait for Cuicui to give birth to a child before going over and promise not to delay her daughter-in-law's confinement.
And Cuicui was now lying in the hospital, not only was she powerless, but she also didn't see her mother-in-law's figure at all.
While drinking her husband's stewed chicken soup, she asked, "Hadron, did you tell your mother that I was born?" Let her hurry up and buy a ticket to come over, otherwise I will have no one to take care of the baby with the confinement below. ”
The husband agreed, and said that he would call his mother in the afternoon.
But at night, Cuicui got the news that her mother-in-law could not come, which suddenly made her anxious.
Originally, she was emotionally unstable after giving birth, and now the news that her mother-in-law could not come made her even more angry.
Cuicui did not control it at once, and directly asked her husband loudly in the hospital what to do.
Seeing his daughter-in-law scolding him in public, her husband also looked very anxious. He immediately said impatiently that his mother was sick and therefore could not come.
But Cuicui didn't believe that there was such a coincidence, and she rushed to smash the pillow on the bed.
The husband said softly: "Cuizi, my mother is sick, I don't have the face to let her come and take care of you two, or let your mother come to help, after all, the child's grandmother." ”
Sure enough, Cuicui believed him under the appeasement of her husband, hesitated for a day or two, and finally called her mother.
Fortunately, when the mother heard that her daughter had no one to serve the confinement, she took the initiative to rush over without saying a word. He also specially bought three butter old hens to supplement her daughter's body.
Sure enough, after her mother came, Cuicui's whole person was much more relaxed.
Not only is the housework sorted out, but the responsibility of cooking and caring for the baby is also taken over by the mother.
Once the baby suddenly peed and cried, and Cuicui watched her mother take out the freshly cooked dishes from the kitchen while rushing to the bedroom with the diapers.
Looking at her mother's panicked look, Cuicui was very distressed in her heart, and said that she would come to change the baby's diaper in the future.
But the mother refused as soon as she took a bite, busy saying that you can't spend money during the confinement period, otherwise you will suffer if you fall ill and get old.
Cuicui looked at her mother's surprised look and immediately felt warm in her heart.
It's just that the mother works hard for her family, but she can't exchange her husband's gratitude.
Since his mother came, he did not take the initiative to pick up his mother-in-law. Later, the payment of the mother-in-law was also a natural look.
Several times down, Cuicui's mother inadvertently looked at her son-in-law's face, and she would also ask him about his taste when cooking.
In the face of her husband's excessive performance, Cuicui did not quarrel with her husband in private.
She just wanted to scream for her mother, why should she be tired and tired to see his face.
After a few quarrels, Cuicui's mother was a little scared.
Busy said to his daughter, "Cuizi, you don't care about your mother, I came to take care of you voluntarily." Your mother-in-law is sick, and I will help you two to reduce the pressure and be satisfied. If you argue with hadron again, I won't dare stay. ”
This made CuiCui even more distressed, but she did not want her mother to worry, so she reduced her arguments with her husband.
The days had been so peaceful for two years, and no one expected that Cuicui's mother was sick at this time.
After examination by the hospital, it is a stomach tumor caused by irregular diet and requires timely surgery.
This frightened Cuicui and cried and begged the doctor to cure her mother.
Although the cure is not a big problem, the cost of surgery is quite large. Knowing this, the husband actually asked Cuicui to pull the mother-in-law away.
Cuicui still remembers that night, her husband said with a somber face: "Cuizi, I told you, you will let your brother rush over tomorrow and take your mother away." It's all our responsibility to do something about it. ”
CuiCui angrily scolded her husband: "You have no conscience, my mother is not tired like this." Why bring me a child when I'm in good health, and now when I'm sick, push it to my brother!"
The husband did not react to this and said: "Your mother brought the child to help you, is this not her voluntary?" If you can't wipe your face to find your brother, I'll call. ”
Zhao Cuicui was dizzy after listening to it, and the two mouths also began to have a cold war over this matter. Later, as soon as she thought about it, Cuicui shed tears for her mother.
For the sake of her mother, she tried to calm herself down, and after two days of thinking, she had an idea in her heart.
Without consulting with anyone, Cuicui took fifty thousand yuan from the family's passbook, directly called her mother's account, and then sent her mother back to her hometown with her brother.
When she left, she still cried and said that she couldn't stand her mother, while her brother and mother were embarrassed and hurt.
As soon as she returned home, Zhao Cuicui forced her husband to call her mother-in-law, and said that in the future, the family would rely on her to cook and take the children.
The husband knew that he was wrong, and this time he picked up his mother very sharply. And Cuicui also began to put up a shelf for her mother-in-law, just like her husband did to her mother.
Less than a month later, the husband still found that there was less money in the family passbook, so he was furious to find Cuicui theory.
Holding her breath, in front of her mother-in-law, she said all about her husband's thin affection and widowhood.
The husband's face turned blue and white, and he wanted to defend himself but he was speechless. In the end, Cuicui said that the fifty thousand was what her mother deserved, and if her husband was not satisfied, she could divorce her immediately.
The mother-in-law was a little panicked when she heard about the divorce, and while pulling her son out of the door, she asked her daughter-in-law to extinguish the fire.
After this trouble, Cuicui found that her husband and mother-in-law were much more diligent at home, and they never mentioned the fifty thousand yuan thing anymore.
It wasn't until Cuicui's mother recovered from surgery that her whole body relaxed and vowed never to let her mother be wronged again...
In the end, Cuicui in the case did not choose divorce, but treated himself the way he was.
This tells us that children must not only know how to be grateful, but also understand the following two truths.
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One: Women must see clearly before marriage, do not marry the invisible giant baby boy.
Marriage can be said to be a woman's second reincarnation. In terms of its importance, it is self-evident,
Therefore, every marriageable woman should clarify the type before marriage and avoid several high-risk men.
One of the most important drawbacks, for example, is the lack of independence.
This fatal flaw is so fatal that you will wonder after marriage whether you have found a giant baby husband.
Because this kind of man is not only stubborn, but also very confused. Especially the words of the mother are firmly believed.
On the contrary, it is the closest wife and child, but it can do it without asking questions and has no responsibility.
The husband in the case is not only unsatisfactory to his mother-in-law, but also has no question about his decision.
Such strength and childishness are the root of the wife's chills.
So women have to carefully screen whether your partner is an invisible giant baby boy.
Don't wait until you and your family are hurt to regret it.
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Second: Some behaviors that look like confusion are actually manifestations of ruthlessness and injustice.
A person's cognition and choice often reveal his character and virtue.
Therefore, in the words and deeds of the other party, you can know what kind of person he is.
The husband in the case seems to be unreasonable and angry, but he is actually a ruthless and unjust man.
To know that there is an essential difference between confusion and black heart.
Therefore, we must see the essence of the actions of the people around us, and do not regard cold-blooded and ruthless as a simple confusion.
The husband in the case can do it regardless of life and death for his mother-in-law who is kind to him.
This terrible logic of thinking will also be the nightmare of those close to him.
In fact, the most basic element of finding a partner is kindness, if this is missing, everything is impossible to talk about.
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Learning to be grateful is the most basic moral quality of everyone.
Those who have lost it are nothing more than the more pathetic beings among all sentient beings.
Because cold-bloodedness is not only cruelty to others, but also an abyss created by oneself.
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