The survey found that the occupancy rate of some confinement centers in first- and second-tier cities reached about 90%.
After the opening of the second child and the third child, the business of the confinement center has become more and more popular, some people feel that no matter how much money is spent, some people think that this is paying IQ tax.
Sugar mom often sees that celebrities can spend millions of yuan in the confinement center. But for them, perhaps, this money is just "pocket money", fully within the acceptable range.
But ordinary families, want to spend tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands of yuan in the confinement center, may be a burden.
The county town Yuezi Center is hot, and the husband and wife are willing to spend half a year's salary to live in it
Yuezi Center is no longer the exclusive property of large cities, and in recent years, it has gradually spread to third-tier cities and small county towns, and the price is not low but cannot stop the yearning of young couples.
A confinement center in Xiangyang is very hot, and if you want to have a room to live, you need to book a long time in advance. One of the confinement centers charges a minimum price of 28 days at 21,800 yuan.
It seems to be far from the star's "million months", but it may have cost many people half a year's salary.
In the small county town of Xiangyang, the per capita salary is less than 5,000, even if you do not eat or drink and save 5,000 yuan per month, it will take more than 4 months to save the lowest grade of 21,800 yuan.
However, many couples said that even if they spend half a year's salary at a time, they still have to go to the confinement center to confinement.
Maybe doing so will be said by others to be pretentious and will not live a life, but after knowing their reasons, you can feel empathy.
Why are you willing to spend half a year's salary to go to the confinement center? The reason is real
Once upon a time, couples with bad conditions went to the confinement center and were complained that they were vain or brainless. In fact, most of the people who go to the confinement center have needs.
Confinement is very important for women, on the one hand, they hope that they and their babies will receive more professional and thoughtful care, on the other hand, they are also to "escape" and be able to hide quietly in the confinement center.
Especially the mother of the second child and the third child, after experiencing a bad confinement, would rather spend more money and want a comfortable confinement.
Most families are taken care of by mother-in-law or mother-in-law, and the two generations have large differences in parenting concepts and personalities, which are easy to contradict during the month. If you have a feud, it will be detrimental to everyone.
From a certain point of view, women who insist on choosing to go to the confinement center have some relationship with the people around them.
After seeing the confinement meal that Zhang Xiaocheng made for Wu Minxia, I think it is better than the confinement center
Around the sugar mother, many women choose to go to the confinement center, because they are interested in the delicious confinement meal, and do not want to drink millet porridge and various soups at home for a month. In fact, the confinement meal in the confinement center is not necessarily the most delicious.
"6 meals a day, 20 dishes, a month of non-repetitive confinement meals" may also come from the hands of those around you.
Wu Minxia gave birth to her second child, and her husband Zhang Xiaocheng was on the hot search for cooking. Zhang Xiaocheng not only accompanied Wu Minxia to confinement throughout the whole process, but also cooked every day and made confinement meals in different patterns.
Recently, Wu Minxia decided to participate in the variety show "Daddy Is Home", and Zhang Xiaocheng posted all his "works".
Each dish is very attentive, not only full of color and flavor, but also pay attention to the balance of nutrition, just look at the photos to make people have a good appetite.
After many people saw it, they sighed: "The dishes made by Zhang Xiaocheng are more hearty than the meals in the Center of the Moon." If there was a person around me who could make me a confinement meal like this, what kind of confinement center would I go to?"
Sugar Mom does have the same feeling after seeing it, in fact, whether she is happy in the confinement or not has little to do with going to the confinement center. What the husband and family around them do has a greater impact on women's mood.
Spending half a year's salary to go to the confinement center is not worth it, and it has some relationship with the people around you
The consumption of confinement centers is not a small amount for some families, but the money is worthless, and there is no clear standard.
If, like Wu Minxia, there is someone to take care of and accompany, and you can also eat a delicious confinement meal, the experience at the confinement center may not be more comfortable than at home.
If the home environment is relatively poor, or the elderly cannot help take care of the confinement due to physical reasons, then going to the confinement center can solve many problems.
As long as adults and babies can be well taken care of, and the experience of a month is very good, you can also avoid the contradiction of confinement, and it is worth spending some money on confinement.
But then again, the cost of having children will become more, and going to the confinement center should still consider the real economic strength problem.
If you have this intention, you will start saving money in a planned way during the pregnancy preparation at the latest, and choose a price point that matches the economic conditions. This has little impact on ordinary life, and there are more options.
Saving money for half a year is at least not borrowing money, and it is impossible to comment on right and wrong. But if you can't save money, or even borrow money, to spend tens of thousands of confinements, it is not worth it.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Women have the freedom to choose where to confinement, and if her family cannot give her better confinement conditions, they may wish to support and understand her choice. Even if you don't help financially, you don't have to be sarcastic.
【Today's topic】Do you think it is necessary to go to the confinement center to sit in the confinement center?