They all say, "Marriage is the second reincarnation of a woman." ”
This is because marriage can change a person's current situation, so that a person no longer lives as before, and many aspects have undergone great changes.
What kind of family we appear in is something we can't decide, even if we are poor and our parents' feelings are poor, we have no choice, at least more than ten years have to be spent like this.
It may be very depressing and painful to live, but it has not grown up, has no ability to change, can only tolerate, wait to grow up, and then change the unsatisfactory life.
Who you choose to marry can be decided by yourself, not by others, not by marrying someone you don't love and has a problem with your character.
As an adult, you have the right to choose who to fall in love with and who to marry, and if you don't like others to interfere, you should resolutely refuse, and if it happens again, you will directly turn your face.
Who to marry is extremely critical and cannot be easily decided.
After you regard a person as a marriage partner, you must not only test how much he loves you and has a sense of responsibility, but also see what kind of person he is.
These things that you are sure of are the main points, and one is indispensable.
That is to say, he does not love you, can not choose, do not think that he will slowly fall in love with you, his three views are not correct, do not try to change.
These three kinds of men, no matter what, you can't marry, or you will ruin your life.
Men who like to hit people and throw things
Whether in life or in TV dramas, there will be such people: they have a big temper, they will raise their fists, or they will see something fall.
For example, when two people quarrel, they will push each other hard, making the other person feel injured, and will also break the other party's mobile phone, or something valuable and useful.
To be honest, getting along with this kind of person is "both expensive and costly", and it is really not worth it.
The person you look up to, or who is in love with you, is like this, then you have to keep your distance no matter what, and you can't relate to him.
People like this who are somewhat violent and have very perverted hearts cannot get close, but should be far away.
He punches you in the face, he breaks your things, it is impossible to give you happiness, and being with him is the biggest mistake and should stop the loss in time.
A man who has betrayed his feelings
There are only zero and countless derailments.
A person has once betrayed his feelings, then he is in love again, may also have an external heart, spend all his thoughts on others, and then propose to break up with the person who has established the relationship.
People who are unfaithful to their feelings, have no sense of responsibility for anyone, and no matter how much they pursue, they just want to be together for a while, and sooner or later they will leave.
When you understand that the person you are in love with has betrayed your feelings, then you should think about whether you have a future, and don't think that he will not do anything to be sorry for you.
Knowing that he is this kind of person, he still chooses to believe, which is equivalent to selling you, and you still help others count money.
You have to realize that the love words he says to you may only be for you, and his ambiguous relationship with others may be unknown to you alone.
What you hear, may not be true, what you see, may be superficial.
When you are considering getting married, you have to directly eliminate such a person, instead of giving him a chance, don't believe so easily that he will fall in love with you and will treat you wholeheartedly.
A man who has no opinion, who listens to his mother
Whether in love or in marriage, Ma Bao men are very scary, and most people are more rational and will not leave such men around.
I know in my heart what will happen to falling in love and getting married with this kind of person, so whether I want to fall in love or want to get married, I will avoid this kind of person.
But in the face of feelings, there are always some people who will not mind everything, that is, they can accept that the other party is any kind of person, and they will also take the initiative to invest in feelings.
The so-called "don't mind" is a manifestation of irresponsibility to yourself, and in the end it is your own heart that hurts, and your life is getting worse and worse.
Like the kind of listening to parents, taking the parents as the center, opening and closing your mouth are "my mother said", "I asked my mother how to do it", "my mother is right", you have to stay away immediately.
Remember: no one will give you happiness, and once you find out that what he has done is very bad for you, leave early and stop loving.
Emotional Message:
The person you love may not be right for you.
In this world, there are very few people who match you and are willing to do things for you, don't think that everyone you meet will be responsible for you.
He has violent tendencies, he has betrayed feelings, and he is a mommy man, which means he will not love you at all.
In addition, you must also understand that a person like him will not change, it is useless for you to pay more, and he cannot give you happiness.
Whoever is bad for you is the wrong person, you have to choose to leave.
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Author: Not afraid of the future, do not read the past, can afford, can put down the free girl. Freelance writers, willing to use words to warm your heart, give you companionship, give you strength.