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Love is a very wonderful thing, some men and women look very compatible, all aspects of the conditions are very suitable, but they just can't rub the spark. Tie them together and they won't be happy either. On the other hand, some men and women do not seem to match at all, completely incompatible, but they are very much in love and live happily.
Therefore, love needs fate, and when fate comes, it cannot be stopped. If the fate has not yet arrived, you can't ask for it, and love is encounterable but not sought. When you encounter love, you must cherish it, and it is very fortunate and happy to meet people who really love each other.
Parents should respect their children's marriage as much as possible, as long as there is no major problem of principle, respect the child's wishes. Strong twisted melon is not sweet, tied into a couple, love must be your love and my wishes, to be happy with each other, after marriage will be happy.
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The son himself talked about a girlfriend, the girlfriend is very kind and virtuous, but because she is too short, the mother-in-law is forced to beat the mandarin duck. After the son and the girl broke up, the mother-in-law forced him to marry the blind date, but after the marriage, he was not happy, and the mother-in-law regretted it.
This is what Ding Xinyi has experienced, she is the short girl. She took the initiative to break up with her boyfriend because she didn't want to embarrass her boyfriend. After the breakup, Ding Xinyi found a new love and lived happily after marriage, but her ex-boyfriend was not happy. Let's hear their stories.
Self-narrator: Ding Xinyi
Age: 32 years old
Occupation: Clerk
City: North Hebei
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When I was working in a printing house, we had a big sister in our office who always took good care of me. I am grateful to her, I often help her to make rice and make tea, etc., and we both have a good relationship. One day, the eldest sister's nephew came to her, and she joked that she wanted me to be her nephew's girlfriend.
The eldest sister said it casually, but her nephew was on his mind, so he asked the eldest sister to match us. My nephew himself took the initiative to pursue me, and came to our office in the name of looking for my aunt for three days. Later, I was touched and officially associated with him, and I found that he was a very good person.
After most of the year, my boyfriend took me home to meet his parents, and we thought it would go well, but we didn't expect that my boyfriend's mother was very opposed. At that time, when the mother-in-law opened the door for us, her face was originally full of smiles, but when she saw me, the smile slowly disappeared.
The table at my boyfriend's house was lined with melon seeds and fruits, and the house was cleaned up, obviously to welcome me. But after the mother-in-law saw me, she completely changed, and later she didn't even leave me to eat. She said she was unwell and needed to rest, so let my boyfriend send me back!
When I left my boyfriend's house, I really thought that my mother-in-law was unwell. Later, I learned that the mother-in-law thought that I was too short and did not look at me, so she did not agree with this family affair.
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I'm really not tall, only 1.58 meters, and my boyfriend is 1.72 meters. When I first started falling in love, I talked to my boyfriend about the height problem, and my boyfriend said that I was not short at 1 meter 58, and there were even shorter people outside! And he doesn't care about that at all, he likes me like this, I'm just shorter, and he likes it.
The mother-in-law asked her boyfriend to break up with me, and the boyfriend did not agree, and the mother and son quarreled. Once, after a big fight between mother and son, the mother-in-law was so angry that she was hospitalized, and I blamed myself, thinking that it was all caused by me.
I went to the hospital to take care of my mother-in-law, firstly because I felt sorry, and secondly, to get the approval of my mother-in-law. The boyfriend and the father-in-law do not take care of the mother-in-law, and want to create opportunities for us, the mother-in-law has no choice but to take care of her by me.
But the mother-to-be did everything to make things difficult for me, and wanted me to retreat from the difficulties. I look at the face of my boyfriend, please the mother-in-law, accommodate her everywhere, and take good care of her. After the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, my boyfriend took me to his house again, let me behave well, and I helped them cook, wash and clean.
My boyfriend and I thought that sooner or later the mother-in-law would agree to our marriage, and my boyfriend's aunt had been helping us with the mother-in-law's ideological work. But later, after an old sister of the mother-in-law-to-be entrusted to help her relative's daughter introduce the object, the mother-in-law insisted that her boyfriend break up with me.
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Because the mother-in-law is interested in the girl, the girl is 1 meter 68 tall, and other conditions are better than mine, the mother-in-law wants her to be her daughter-in-law. In order to break up me and my boyfriend, the mother-to-be hanged herself by crying, making trouble, and constantly putting pressure on her boyfriend, who was miserable.
I see my boyfriend like this, I feel very sad, I don't want him to turn against his mother because of me. So in the end I offered to break up, and my boyfriend didn't agree, so I blocked him. In order to make my boyfriend die for me, I quickly went on a blind date and met my current husband.
I frankly told my husband the story of me and my ex-boyfriend, and my husband did not care at all, but felt that I was a very sincere person and actively pursued me. Later, I married him and lived happily after marriage.
When my ex-boyfriend learned that I was married, he agreed to go on a blind date with the girl she had been in love with. Later, under the arrangement of his mother, he soon married the girl, but he was not happy after marriage. The two of them did not have any emotional basis, and it was completely the parents of both sides who forced them together, so they always quarreled.
The girl was very bad for her mother-in-law, and every time she quarreled with her husband, she vented her anger on her mother-in-law, and several times she beat her mother-in-law. Because this family affair is handled by the mother-in-law, the ex-boyfriend complains about the mother, so the wife and the mother quarrel, he does not care at all.
The eldest sister in the office told me that now her sister-in-law regretted it so much that she should not have broken us up because she thought I was short. I can only sigh after listening, there is no regret medicine in the world, I feel sorry for my ex-boyfriend, but there is nothing I can do.
epilogue:
For people who really love each other, height is really not a problem, and 1 meter 58 is not too short. Besides, even if it is very short, as long as the son likes it, the mother-in-law should not be too greedy. There is no perfect thing in the world, there is no perfect person, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages.
The mother-in-law thinks that her son should marry a girl with better conditions in all aspects, but the son does not like it, so what is the use? Turnip greens have their own love, no one can force anyone,love is reluctant.
Looking for an object should put the character first, only on the basis of good character, and then consider other conditions. Everyone wants to find a partner with good conditions, but this is fate, two people without fate, even if they are married, they will not be happy.
Therefore, when facing the marriage of their children, parents should not be too demanding, but should respect the ideas of their children. Since the eyes of ancient lovers, it does not matter whether parents like it or not, what matters is that the children themselves like it. Everyone is only happy and feels good about life if they are with the people they like.
Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.