The blind date of the elderly is also a contest of strength and charm.
If you have no money, you may meet true love, and if you don't have money, you may also meet people who are willing to be good to you.
Just like the following pair of elderly people, their blind date experience can be called a model of reality.
01. The value of the face is disliked, in the end who is more embarrassed
Aunt Zhao is 73 years old, she originally had a fairly peaceful marriage, her husband had a stable job, and her daughter was well-behaved and lovely.
When there is nothing to do, Aunt Zhao is keen to introduce people to the object, that is, to be a matchmaker, according to her, there are more than 100 pairs of lovers who have been matched by her hand, and the right red lady is a master.
She herself did not expect that one day the marriage would encounter trouble, the husband got along with a female colleague at the unit, the woman was pregnant, and found the door to ask for an explanation.
The husband has no way, plead with her, want to do a fake divorce first, wait for the other party's child to give birth and then find a reason to break up, come back to remarry with her, Aunt Zhao agreed for the child, she thinks that her husband has feelings for herself, and will definitely turn back when the problem is solved.
After going through the divorce procedures, she found that she had been deceived.
The husband formed a new family, the life was prosperous, no longer mentioned the matter of remarriage, no way, Aunt Zhao could only take her daughter to live, in order to earn money, Shengsheng forced herself to become a strong woman.
She ran to buy and sell clothes by herself, more than a hundred pounds of bags carried for a few miles, not shouting tired, life is balanced, you pay more, get more, do business for several years, Aunt Zhao's economy is stable, bought a house for herself and her daughter.
Under the introduction of friends, she set up a family, the man is very good, will do housework and know that it hurts her, but unfortunately the good times are not long, the two remarried for more than a year, the man died unexpectedly, and the friends around her are distressed by her.
I feel that Aunt Zhao's life is bitter, but she is very optimistic, and she feels that life is full of setbacks and it is good to survive.
At the retirement age, Aunt Zhao has more than a thousand pensions every month, and some savings, and her life is very good, the only regret is that she is too lonely, and I hope that someone can talk with me.
Under the introduction of the red lady, she met with a zhou uncle who loves to dance square dance, and as soon as she saw each other, she turned her head and went away, saying that she was too old, and Uncle Zhou did not know what was going on, so she was eliminated, and I had to say that no matter what age people were, they attached great importance to appearance.
In order to make Aunt Zhao satisfied, The Red Lady introduced her to the handsome man in the uncle's class, who had been favored by many aunts, but the other party had a high vision and did not negotiate, so did Aunt Zhao have a chance?
02. Take out ten thousand pieces in the bag, hinting at your own strength
Uncle Zhang is 71 years old, and he is the handsome guy in the mouth of the red bride.
He is one meter seven eight, more than 3,000 pensions per month, has his own house, his children have become a family without burden, he has been on several blind dates, without exception, he rejects each other, thinking that the other party is not good enough.
It seems that he and Aunt Zhao are people who attach importance to appearance, and since they have common preferences and are satisfied with each other's photos on the mobile phone, let's meet.
The two met in the park, worthy of being people who had seen the world, they were not cowardly after meeting, they looked at each other, and Uncle Zhang asked first: "How old are you?" ”
Aunt Zhao is burning the house and reading the script, very calm, she just does not answer, the eyes look directly at each other, meaning you guess, look at my appearance to guess in the young.
Who knows, Uncle Zhang is not a simple person, you do not answer it, he learned the genus of Aunt Zhao, he calculated back and forth, the answer is 2 years older than himself, he turned his head and left,
This time it was Aunt Zhao's turn to be embarrassed, to say that the current world newspaper was too fast, she did not change the day, she tasted the taste of being disliked.
Aunt Zhao is a person with ideas,
What she wants to get, she must get her hands on
So he drove the red lady aside, handed her another ID card, and told the red lady that her age was fake, and the real age was only 61 years old, which surprised the red lady and asked: "Auntie, age can not be a joke, you must tell the truth." ”
Aunt Zhao explained: "I deliberately changed my age to 12 years old because I needed it, and you see if I look very young." ”
Looking at Aunt Zhao's skin that can be broken, the red lady believed, quickly pulled Uncle Zhang back, a good explanation, let Uncle Zhang feel relieved, it turned out that the other party was 10 years younger than himself, his mood was instantly much better, and then look at Aunt Zhao, it was also more pleasing to the eye.
03. Love and companionship are not two choices
At the critical moment, you can see the emotional intelligence of a person to do things.
Aunt Zhao is too good, observing that Uncle Zhang's thinking has changed, she took out a silk scarf from her bag, which was a brand new ten thousand cash, with cash to go on a blind date, I really saw it for the first time.
The Red Lady quickly asked, "Auntie, why are you bringing so much money?" ”
Aunt Zhao calmly replied:
"I'm a real person, I like to entertain when I go out to eat, and I can't let others pay for it."
This sentence quickly gave himself extra points, and sure enough, Uncle Zhang immediately had a good feeling, and he said to the red lady:
"She is down-to-earth, does not talk about money, does not talk about conditions, such a person can not be sought, I am interested in her."
Aunt Zhao used ten thousand pieces to attract the happiness of her later years, no matter how they get along in the future, at least the two can have a harmonious relationship at the moment.
After watching the blind date of the two, netizens are also talking about it.
Someone said: "It's really the power of money, these two people are also too realistic, I feel that Uncle Zhang can't play with each other, sooner or later he will be kicked out." ”
Some people also said: "The reversal is also too fast, and sure enough, the money is very good, whether it is doing business or blind dates, it is very energetic." ”
But there is a saying that people who come for money will also go for money.
Aunt Zhao temporarily used money to win back a round, but the two people who have no emotional basis can really go long?
In this regard, it is normal for netizens to have doubts, in order to find the right person for themselves, it is not enough to rely on money alone, but also need two people to be like-minded, and have the shining point of each other's appreciation.
For example, you like to sing, the other party just sings well, you like good food, the other party just happens to be very good at cooking, this is the demand for the right, based on appreciation of the feelings, will be more promising.
Therefore, instead of giving each other material, it is better to understand what the other party likes, find each other's needs, and then see if they can meet each other's needs, once the two can start the topic, then the blind date is almost the same.
We must know that the elderly remarry, not only to see the appearance, but also to look at the inside, only if both people have a sense of happiness, marriage is meaningful.
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