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In 2021, Yin Xiangjie publicly announced on his personal social platform that he had reached a new stage in his life - the great news of entering the marriage hall, which surprised and interesting the public.
If we go back to the grand Lantern Festival Gala in 1994, you will find that Yin Xiangjie and the then hot female singer Yu Wenhua sang the love song duet "Slender Man's Love" caused a sensational effect, and the deep friendship between the two people on the stage was perfectly displayed, so that the audience couldn't help but mistakenly think that the emotions between them have surpassed friends, but reached the level of lovers.
In fact, Yin Xiangjie's feelings for Wenhua are deep and unique. At this time, he was slightly chubby, had a simple face, wore a pair of glasses, and always had a restrained and shy smile on his face.
Standing next to Yu Wenhua, she is an elegant, beautiful and moving goddess image, and even Yin Xiangjie's family once mistakenly thought that they were a couple, and urged him many times to bring this beautiful and moving "fiancée" home as soon as possible to show formal recognition, however, what is surprising is that in fact, Yu Wenhua already has a heart, and her boyfriend is Li Fan, the creator of this song.
Yin Xiangjie's admiration for Wenhua can be traced back to the moment they first met. It turned out that when he saw Yu Wenhua for the first time, he was deeply moved by her gentleness and kindness, and since then he has endless thoughts and yearning for her.
However, it is a pity that Yu Wenhua already had a boyfriend like Li Fan at that time, and Yin Xiangjie could only hide this deep love in his heart and bear the pain alone.
In 1995, Yu Wenhua and Li Fan entered the palace of marriage hand in hand, which was undoubtedly a heavy blow to Yin Xiangjie. In order to relieve the pain in his heart, he chose to anesthetize himself with alcohol, often getting drunk, in order to temporarily forget the untouchable love.
Since then, Yin Xiangjie has regarded Yu Wenhua as an important person like his own sister, and has cared for her so much that even during Wenhua's childbirth, Li Fan, as a husband, did not accompany her, but Yin Xiangjie rushed to the hospital as soon as possible and took care of her wholeheartedly.
It can be seen that Yin Xiangjie's feelings for Wenhua are sincere and deep. Therefore, when Yu Wenhua and Li Fan ended their marriage in 1999, Yin Xiangjie seized the opportunity to confess his secret love for many years to the goddess in his heart.
However, fate always seems to like to play tricks on people. In 2015, Yoon Sang-jae was arrested by the police for dabbling in drugs again, and he admitted in court that he had been using drugs for 10 years and that he had become addicted to drugs to the point where he could not extricate himself.
From the moment Yu Wenhua and Li Fan divorced in 1999, all the stories began from this. When Yu Wenhua was immersed in deep sadness after the breakdown of that painful marriage, Yin Xiangjie mustered up the courage and passionately poured out his heart to the goddess in his heart, bravely expressing his long-hidden sincere feelings.
However, what he didn't expect was that Yu Wenhua interrupted his confession without hesitation in a firm and apologetic tone.
"I have just experienced an unhappy marriage, and I have become a little indifferent and even fearful about emotional matters. Maybe we're not fit to ...... together" Yu Wenhua's refusal was like a hammer, hitting Yin Xiangjie's heart hard.
He originally thought that his sincerity and persistence could impress the goddess he had been in love with for a long time, but the reality was so cruel, and the road to love was so tortuous and difficult.
Yu Wenhua said frankly that she has always regarded Yin Xiangjie as a brother, and never expected him to have feelings for her between men and women. She was worried that she would become a burden to Yin Xiangjie, so she chose to stay away from him.
Having lost the most important pursuit and reliance in his life, Yoon Sang-jae seemed to have lost his way forward and could only use alcohol to anesthetize his inner pain, however, a short period of relief could not fill the endless void in his heart, and he began to sink into the world of drugs, and was finally arrested and imprisoned for drug use in December 2014.
With Wenhua's unremitting efforts, Yin Xiangjie gradually cheered up. She assists him in participating in various public welfare activities and provides him with a stage to showcase his talents in her live broadcast.
In the past, Yoon Sang-jae has made remarkable achievements in the field of commercial performances and online live broadcasts, and he has also shown great sincerity in court, publicly promising to quit drug addiction and become a new person.
However, the good times are always short-lived. Just when people thought that Yin Xiangjie had finally come out of the shadows, a news in November 2015 dealt a heavy blow to Yu Wenhua again. Yoon Sang-jae was arrested again for drug use and fell into a deeper predicament.
Yu Wenhua was extremely angry, and he couldn't wait to beat him up, so that this stubborn person could come to his senses However, Yin Xiangjie failed to escape the clutches of drug addiction after all, and all the care and efforts that Yu Wenhua put in came to naught.
In 1999, Yu Wenhua and Li Fan announced the end of their marriage. At this moment, when Yu Wenhua was immersed in the deep grief of that failed love, Yin Xiangjie seized this opportunity and bravely confessed his long-standing deep love to the goddess in his heart.
In fact, Yoon Sang-jae's ardent pursuit of Wenhua can be traced back to the night they first met in 1994. At the lively Lantern Festival party, the unpretentious Yin Xiangjie and the sunny Yu Wenhua jointly performed an affectionate love song duet "Slender Man's Love", whose affectionate lyrics and beautiful melody moved countless audiences.
And Yin Xiangjie was also deeply moved by Yu Wenhua's gentleness and kindness at that moment, and since then he has had endless yearning and attachment to this dazzling star goddess.
However, it is a pity that Yu Wenhua at that time already had a boyfriend Li Fan, and Yin Xiangjie could only hide this deep emotion silently and bear the pain alone. A year later, in 1995, Yu Wenhua and Li Fan walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, which was undoubtedly a heavy blow to Yin Xiangjie.
In order to alleviate the pain in his heart, he can only use alcohol to kill his sorrows, often drunk like mud, in order to temporarily forget the unattainable love.
Since then, Yin Xiangjie has regarded Wenhua as an important person like his sister and cared for her. Even when Wenhua gave birth, Li Fan, who was her husband, did not accompany her, but Yin Xiangjie rushed to the hospital as soon as possible and took care of her.
He regards Yu Wenhua's daughter as his own child and loves him very much.
Until 1999, Yu Wenhua and Li Fan ended their married life. Yoon Sang-jae can no longer suppress the surging love in his heart, and he realizes that the opportunity is fleeting, so he decides to confess his secret love for years to his sweetheart.
However, fate seems to have played a joke on him again. Yu Wenhua did not hesitate to reject Yin Xiangjie, she thought that she had just escaped the shadow of a failed marriage and was not yet able to devote herself to new emotional entanglements, so as not to cause trouble to Yin Xiangjie.
"I've been through a divorce, and I'm a little indifferent and afraid of emotional things, maybe we're not suitable." Yu Wenhua said.
Yu Wenhua's refusal was like a thunderbolt from the blue, completely destroying Yin Xiangjie's confidence. She had always regarded him as a brother, and she had never expected him to have such warm feelings for her.
Undoubtedly, this experience can be called a heavy blow in Yin Xiangjie's life! He was full of expectations that he would be able to immediately hold hands with his beloved and enter the marriage hall, but he was rejected so coldly.
In 1999, the hot marriage between Yu Wenhua and the talented Li Fan came to an end, and just when Yin Xiang's outstanding plan was ready to launch a passionate pursuit of the love of his heart again, the shocking news came, when Yu Wenhua's injured heart had just calmed down, she ushered in a new married life in 2001, but the male partner next to her was not Yin Xiangjie, but the famous world-class piano master Li Nian.
This news undoubtedly made Yin Xiangjie like a lightning strike, he could never have imagined that Yu Wenhua, who he had been silently in love with for ten years, finally chose to marry a stranger who met by chance in the online world.
It turned out that in the shadow of that painful divorce, Yu Wenhua had sought solace in the virtual space of the Internet. There, she unexpectedly met a netizen with common interests, who not only patiently listened to her troubles, but also gave warm comfort and encouragement.
As time went by, the communication between the two deepened, and it was not until 2001 that Yu Wenhua was shocked to discover that this friend turned out to be the world-renowned pianist Li Nian.
For Li Nian, he had a deep affection for Wenhua when they first met. They quickly turned from acquaintances in the online world to real-life partners. In order to express his deep friendship for his beloved, Li Nian specially composed a touching piano song "Thinking of Old Mother" for Yu Wenhua, which was dedicated to the goddess in his heart.
The relationship between the two progressed rapidly, and soon after they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand in 2001. This news undoubtedly broke Yin Xiangjie's heart, and he understood that he had lost the possibility of proposing to Yu Wenhua again forever.
Filled with loss in his heart, he could only lick his wounds alone in the dark.
At first, Yoon Sang-jae tried to use alcohol to anesthetize his inner pain. However, he soon discovered that alcohol could not fill the endless void in his heart, so he became addicted to drugs, and finally was arrested and imprisoned for drug use in December 2014.
When Yu Wenhua learned the news, she said angrily: "I really want to kick you a few times and give you a few more slaps to make you sober up." Although she was extremely disappointed by Yoon Sang-jae's behavior, she always firmly believed that Yoon Sang-jae was essentially a kind person and looked forward to him being able to usher in a new beginning.
Yoon Sang-jeong, who unexpectedly showed his honesty and remorse in court, issued a solemn statement through his agency adamantly saying that he would never make the same mistake again and vowed never to come into contact with drugs of any kind again.
This time, Yoon Sang-jae transcended the shadows of the past with firm determination and vowed to embark on a healthy life. Everyone is looking forward to this man who was once deeply trapped in the sea of poison and cannot extricate himself from it to get out of the abyss of suffering and embark on the right path.
However, the good times were still short-lived. Just as the talented singer Yu Wenhua was doing his best to help Yoon Sang-jae get him back into the public eye, a vicious news in November 2015 brought them to the brink of collapse again when Yoon Sang-jae was once again arrested by the police on suspicion of drug use.
This time, he frankly admitted that he had a history of drug abuse for 10 years, and the torture of drug addiction made it difficult for him to break free easily.
Yu Wenhua's heart was full of anger, and he even wanted to beat Yin Xiangjie a few times, but in exchange for his numb confession. All her efforts and efforts came to naught after all.
Since then, Yoon Sang-jae's career has hit rock bottom, and no one wants to hire him anymore, so he can only run around and participate in some small commercial performances to make ends meet.