Blind dates are no stranger to contemporary young people. Usually busy at work, going out to social circles is small, for most single men and women, blind dates can be said to be a good choice to solve marriage problems.
Back then, young men and women who had not entered society still had a contemptuous attitude towards "blind dates"! Believing that blind dates are a feudal idea and a feudal act, we contemporary young people naturally have to choose free love.
Who would have thought that four years after college, I am still alone. Even if I found a lover during college, I successfully got off the list. How many couples can escape, graduation season is the spell of breakup season.
After graduation, we inevitably face beatings from society. In the face of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea in life, can we not forget our original intentions? How many couples have escaped the graduation breakup season but have not escaped the test of society?
After becoming office workers, our lives seem to be frozen, and there are even fewer unmarried and age-appropriate opposite sexes that can be contacted.
Therefore, when parents say that they want to arrange blind dates for us, there are thousands of pushes and obstacles in their mouths, and they still hope that parents can find a blind date that can meet their expectations in all aspects.
Generally speaking, it is difficult for parents to arrange blind dates that meet their expectations the first time. Because, for the most part, we don't know what kind of blind date we should find. Not to mention, some blind dates are themselves parents who are embarrassed to refute the face of the introducer, and they should be blind dates!
They all say that the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds! The number of blind dates is too much, and it is inevitable to encounter some strange things, at least "outliers" in their own eyes!
This is not, some time ago, Xiaobian saw such a video on the Internet, it is a woman who shares that she has encountered a "special" blind date trip.
A woman was asked out to dinner by a blind date, because it was the first time to meet, and the girl did not go to an overpriced restaurant and chose an ordinary hot pot restaurant. What puzzled the girl was that during the whole process, the other party did not eat anything, not even the chopsticks moved, and was always watching herself eat dryly. The girl didn't know if the food was unpalatable, or if it was something? This meal made the girl quite embarrassed.
After seeing the blind date dinner experience shared by the girl, some netizens believe that the man's emotional intelligence is too low. Since it is a blind date, there must be people who know each other, even if it is out of respect for the introducer, you should also eat this meal well, leave a good impression on each other, when you are not a lover, you can't become a husband and wife, and it is also a good choice to make a friend!
However, some netizens believe that the man is estimated to have an object, but the family is not satisfied. Coming out on a blind date is just to cope with family. Some netizens also believe that perhaps the girl is too far away from the man's ideal object, and the boy does not even have the heart to do some superficial work!
If men and women love each other, their minds cannot be on eating, and they will not care about how much they eat. If you have been eating, you must look down on the other party, and if you don't eat a bite, you are purely disgusting the other party.
But then again, blind dates don't necessarily have to go to dinner. The first time a man and a woman meet, they can meet in a public place such as a park, or have an afternoon tea, coffee, and so on. In such a place, the length of time is easy to control. If both parties are interested, consider further room shows, dates, movies, meals, etc.! If you are not satisfied, you don't have to stay for a long time and avoid each other's embarrassment!
However, there are also some blind dates, before officially meeting, will choose to chat with each other for a period of time, and ask for a few photos of each other's plain faces. If you can talk, you can meet, you can't talk together, and even the time to meet is saved!
Finally, I would like to ask you two questions: 1. Have you had an interesting or impressive blind date? 2. If you are on a blind date, what kind of place will you generally choose?
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