Older leftover women and "second-married women", who are men more willing to marry? The answers of the three men were very consistent
When we meet a person we like, we hope that his past emotional experience is simple, so that he can love and pursue this love without any worries.
However, in many cases, love is not under our control, and whoever wants to love can love whomever we want. Love will appear inadvertently, and it will disappear before you are aware of it.
Perhaps, the person you are in love with, her experience is something you can't accept for a while. Just like when it comes to women, men are most repulsive to divorced women and older leftover women.
In men's hearts, it is okay for a woman to talk about a few times in love, but if you have been married once, men will carefully consider it.
Then there are those older leftover women, although they have no history of marriage, but as soon as they hear that women's age is not small, men will imagine why women are so old and not married. The result that men think of is either that the woman is too demanding or that there is something wrong with the woman herself. Regardless of which kind it belongs, it is difficult for men to accept such older leftover women.
So, between the "older leftover women" and the "second-married women", who are men more willing to marry? Hear what they think.
01 Mr. Yu, 32 years old, "of course choose a married woman"
Among the friends I know, there are such older leftover women. It's not that she hasn't been in a relationship, it's just that none of them have a good outcome. Her longest relationship was a long-distance relationship, the two lasted for four years, but later the problem of long-distance can not be solved, and this relationship can only choose to end.
Later, she spent her mind on work, and by the age of thirty, her income had surpassed that of her friends around her, but her feelings were still blank. The family also introduced her to several objects, but she did not want to buy a house and had to stage, and she looked down on the boys who were lower than her salary, and there was no suitable one in the end.
While not all older leftover women are as picky as my friend, I always feel that a woman who has not yet had a stable partner after thirty is either too picky emotionally or financially picky.
Either way, I don't think I'm satisfied. So on this issue, if I had to make a choice, I would certainly choose a woman who has been married.
02 Mr. Chen, 30 years old, "I will choose a more practical woman"
I often watch some blind date shows on TV, and there are some older girls in it. In the past, I always felt that the reason why older leftover women did not get married was because others hated their age, but after reading some of these ideas of older leftover women, I understood that the reason why they were not married was not that they were picky, but that they themselves were very picky.
I remember a 32-year-old woman who said: "When I was young, I didn't want to wronged myself, and when I reached this age, I wouldn't have wronged myself, otherwise my persistence in the past few years would have been in vain." Even if I can't get married, it doesn't matter, after all, I can support myself. ”
Older leftover women, they are more independent, more confident, and more demanding for feelings and marriage. After a young girl falls in love with a man, she will marry the man because of love. But for those older leftover women, they value not only love, but also many other conditions, and they will be more cautious in getting married.
If I meet a girl, as long as I really like it, even if she is an older leftover girl, it doesn't matter. But before that happens, I'll still choose a more practical woman, and that's a second-time woman.
03 Mr. Li, 35 years old, "My wife and I are married for the second time, I think my life is very happy now"
Before falling in love with her wife, she told me that she was divorced, although at first she was a little mindful, but then I thought about it, isn't it also an extra emotional experience to be married, and what is the difference with those girls who have been in love a few times?
In fact, my wife is also in that relationship, she is married to her first love, but at that time they were still young, and the marriage was also because of impulse. Later, her ex-husband needed to travel a lot, and less than two years before they got married, his husband betrayed her, and the two eventually divorced.
Many people will feel that a woman's divorce is a very unbearable thing, and will also feel that this woman must be very bad and not worthy of love. In fact, some women are also the hurt party when they divorce, and it cannot be said that she is a bad woman, so they will be divorced.
My parents didn't agree to our marriage at first, only to find out after contact that she was such a kind woman. After getting married, my parents often reminded me that I must treat my wife well and stop letting her be wronged.
Although my wife and I are married twice, our marriage is still very happy, and her marriage history will not affect our feelings, but I will feel fortunate that the man left her, so that I can meet the happiness I am now.
The words of the three men tell us that in the face of this problem, their answer is the same, that is, they are more inclined to second-married women.
Perhaps before this, many people will think that men will choose older leftover women, after all, they are only a little older, but there is no marriage history. And those women who have been married, men will definitely mind that they have been married before.
But in fact, for men, their thinking will no longer be as rigid as before, but will think more about life after marriage. After all, if two people want to live happily, personality is still a very important condition. And the reason why those older leftover women will be left behind must be because they are too picky in some aspects, and as a result, they have delayed themselves.
Instead of marrying a picky older leftover woman, it is better to choose a second-marriage woman who gets along better and does not ask for so much.
For married women, they will be more cautious when it comes to marriage again. When they meet the right person, they also know how to cherish it and understand what they want.