In the eyes of others, Xiao Yun is a winner in life.
Xiao Yun, 38, has her own kitchen and bathroom store on a bustling commercial street, and her business is thriving under her care.
Her husband, Zhang Yun, takes good care of her, and her two daughters are also very sensible.
But in fact, under the bright appearance, Xiao Yun and her husband had a miserable life.
It was no one else who brought her this pain, it was Xiao Yun's biological mother.
The mother deliberately influenced her daughter's business, forcing her to divorce and remarry her ex-husband
Xiao Yun's shop has a camera that faithfully records everything that happens in the store.
In the second half of 2018, Xiao Yun's mother, Liu Zhujing, came to her daughter's shop almost every day, she did not come to help take care of her daughter's business, but to make trouble, light and noisy, heavy and smashed.
Sometimes, Liu Zhujing will smash the items under the pretext of checking whether there are fewer items in the store, and also chase away the customers in the store, in short, not to let his daughter's business run well.
Liu Zhujing did this, which not only affected her daughter's business and her mood, but also made the relationship between mother and daughter deteriorate rapidly.
The reason why she made trouble in her daughter's shop was because she wanted Xiao Yun to divorce and remarry her previous husband, and Liu Zhujing did not like her current son-in-law Zhang Yun.
Xiao Yun and Zhang Yun are both married for the second time, and the two were married in August 2017, and the relationship between the husband and wife was very good after marriage.
At first, Liu Zhujing was still quite satisfied with this son-in-law.
But for some reason, after only half a year, Liu Zhujing's attitude towards Zhang Yun suddenly changed dramatically, and a year later, the two had reached the point where water and fire were intolerable.
Xiao Yun wanted to ask her mother, what did her husband do wrong?
The daughter has a dilemma between affection and love
Because Liu Zhujing often went to the store to make trouble, Xiao Yun had been reluctant to communicate with her mother for a long time.
When she called her mother and wanted to have a good talk with her, Liu Zhujing seemed very impatient.
Under the coordination of reporters, the mother and daughter finally sat face to face.
Xiao Yun proposed: "I don't want to live this kind of quarrelsome life! ”
Liu Zhujing denied that he was noisy in his daughter's shop.
Seeing his mother's attitude, xiao Yun, who was emotional, slapped his face in one breath.
The long-term lack of communication has made the mother-daughter estrangement deep, coupled with the contradictions buried deep in the hearts of the two sides this year, the two have been together, from the first sentence, they have fallen into endless quarrels, and they cannot communicate well.
Husband Zhang Yun wanted to appease his wife, but Xiao Yun was excited again:
"This is not a man's day at all!"
Liu Zhujing on the side did not care about his daughter's emotions, but only took care of himself and said:
"I was not such a family before, never was such a family."
"It wasn't like this when my old man was there, and you didn't know I had suffered before!"
In Liu Zhujing's view, the current son-in-law Zhang Yun has changed her life and changed her daughter's attitude towards her, and she cries and clamors for her daughter to divorce.
Seeing that his wife was caught between affection and love, he told his mother-in-law:
"Let's get divorced."
Before Liu Zhujing could react, Xiao Yun's emotions completely collapsed, and she accused her mother of blocking her own way:
"My husband is the best husband in the world, you have to separate us both!"
"If you must separate us, I will have no way to live, without him, our family will not be able to survive now!" 」
"How could I have such a mother!" I can't live my life! ”
Looking at Xiao Yun, who was emotionally broken in front of him, Liu Zhujing did not have any comforting language and actions, but repeatedly emphasized:
"I wasn't from this family!"
Zhang Yun told her mother-in-law:
"You said that it was not such a family, we will return to your original family, you don't force her, you force her to die, there is no benefit!"
Zhang Yun never understood that he had not done anything wrong, why his mother-in-law just looked at himself unfavorably.
Now, he doesn't want his wife to be left in a dilemma and offers to divorce.
But as soon as she heard her husband's words, Xiao Yun broke down even more, and she knelt in front of her mother:
"Mom, this is my best husband, I beg you!"
"I'll be good to you later!"
In Xiao Yun's heart, her husband and mother are the most important people in her heart, she put her arms around her mother and begged bitterly, don't embarrass her and her husband anymore, but Liu Zhujing never agreed, she felt that when her daughter's ex-husband was there, her daughter was more concerned about herself.
But as soon as he heard the two words of his ex-husband, the anger in Xiao Yun's heart was ignited:
"As soon as you talk about it, I'm annoyed, and you're not allowed to mention it!"
Daughters cherish marriage and cherish mothers
Xiao Yun and her husband Zhang Yun are junior high school classmates, or each other's first love.
But later, the two missed each other by mistake and each had a failed marriage.
After the divorce, the two came together again, they cherished the relationship even more, and married in August 2017.
At the beginning, Liu Zhujing was still very satisfied with Zhang Yun and got along well.
When Zhang Yun was renovating the new house, he specially prepared a bedroom for his mother-in-law, and the decoration of the house was also in accordance with the style that the elderly liked.
But as soon as the house was renovated, the contradiction between the two began, and then the problem intensified.
Considering that the relationship between the two may affect the family, Xiao Yun did not let her mother move into the new house for the time being.
Xiao Yun did not understand why her mother wanted to make such trouble, since she was a child, including her previous marriage, it was her mother who was in charge, and Xiao Yun had never rebelled against her mother.
Only the second marriage was Xiao Yun's own master, and Liu Zhujing also nodded in agreement.
Xiao Yun said bluntly that if she had known that there would be a situation today, she would rather not get married again than let her husband suffer such a big grievance with her.
Since they are now together, Xiao Yun is not willing to easily give up this marriage and abandon her husband.
But on the other hand, Xiao Yun was afraid that her mother would leave her.
Xiao Yun knew that Liu Zhujing had a strong personality, but she also knew that her mother loved her.
But now, she can't stand the "love" of her mother.
Liu Zhujing is not only aimed at her and her husband, but also at her husband's family.
This makes Xiao Yun full of guilt for her husband's family:
"They're not at all wrong, and with my mother, they're the worst people!"
"She (Liu Zhujing) doesn't know what I'm thinking, what I really want!"
Neighbor: Xiao Yun's first husband was a domestic violence man
To get a more complete picture of the family, the reporter interviewed the surrounding neighbors.
In the mouth of the neighbors, Xiao Yun is a very qualified daughter, who cares for her mother, gives her mother a lot of money every month, buys her a lot of clothes, and is willing to spend money for her mother.
Liu Zhujing is a very imposing person, a good person, but always scolds Zhang Yun and his family.
Zhang Yun couldn't stand being scolded by his mother-in-law and had the idea of leaving Xiao Yun.
But Xiao Yun did not agree, in order to keep her husband, she sided with Zhang Yun in this contradiction.
Neighbors did not understand why Liu Zhujing interfered in his daughter's marriage.
In their view, Xiao Yun's second husband Zhang Yun is very good, the two are classmates who know the roots, and they are much better than Xiao Yun's ex-husband, he treats Xiao Yun's two daughters as babies, and is more considerate of Xiao Yun.
And Liu Zhujing's former son-in-law, who is in his heart, is very unbearable in the eyes of his neighbors:
He often scolded Xiao Yun, and the two fought at every turn, and they were also very irresponsible for his two daughters.
Liu Zhujing: The current son-in-law has destroyed my family
Since the former son-in-law is far inferior to Zhang Yun, why does Liu Zhujing have to divorce his daughter and reunite with the former son-in-law?
Liu Zhujing felt that Zhang Yun and his family were a little proud of Xiao Yun's liking.
She believes that her daughter has a talent for business, and in this regard, Zhang Yun is far behind.
But Xiao Yun is somewhat simple in her feelings, and Liu Zhujing always feels that Zhang Yun is not sincere about her daughter.
Liu Zhujing mentions his former son-in-law:
"The original son-in-law was in my house, my daughter did not lose her temper with me, and then the second marriage with this son-in-law (Zhang Yun), my daughter lost her temper with me."
It turned out that after the second marriage, Xiao Yun was like a little girl in love, as long as Liu Zhujing mentioned Zhang Yun's bad, Xiao Yun would argue with her, which made Liu Zhujing very hurt.
She believes that it is Zhang Yun's appearance that robs her daughter of her love for herself and destroys her family.
When the former son-in-law was there, Xiao Yun treated them equally, and even favored her.
But now, her daughter's mind is all on Zhang Yun, which makes Liu Zhujing very disappointed, she feels that the former son-in-law is better than the current son-in-law!
Liu Zhujing is 61 years old and has two daughters, and when Xiao Yun was in junior high school, Liu Zhujing's husband ran away from home and never returned.
Since then, she has grown up alone with her two daughters, and life has been very difficult.
In 2013, the younger daughter was unable to take care of her after she fell ill, and since then, Liu Zhujing has longed for the eldest daughter to pay more attention to her.
However, since Xiao Yun started her second marriage in 2017, she has gradually neglected to pay attention to Liu Zhujing, which makes her feel very unbalanced.
She felt that when her son-in-law was there, her daughter was very kind to her, and she wanted her daughter to remarry her former son-in-law.
Liu Zhujing has a very strong personality, she is not willing to bow her head and tell her daughter about her heart, but just forced her to divorce Zhang Yun and achieve her goals.
The two sons-in-law, the contrast between good and bad is obvious
Listening to her mother's words, Xiao Yun took out her mobile phone to open the circle of friends.
Liu Zhujing's "good son-in-law", Xiao Yun's ex-husband sent a message in the circle of friends, he posted a photo of Xiao Yun, writing words slandering Xiao Yun.
Xiao Yun was very angry, and her ex-husband openly said in the circle of friends that Xiao Yun's mother and sister were "all crazy", and such a man was the "good son-in-law" that Liu Zhujing had in mind!
When she first divorced, it was because her ex-husband did not respect Xiao Yun.
A day ago, my ex-husband came to the store to smash and make noise, and alarmed the police station.
Xiao Yun couldn't understand why such a man, why did his mother just think he was good?
Although Zhang Yun does not have Xiao Yun to do business, he cares about Xiao Yun's mother and daughter trivia, helps to do some business in the store, installs electrical appliances for customers, and is Xiao Yun's right-hand man.
Xiao Yun hoped that her mother could see Zhang Yun's goodness and recognize this son-in-law.
As soon as she saw her daughter speaking for Zhang Yun, Liu Zhujing couldn't stand it anymore, she got up and left, and the second time they met, the mother and daughter broke up again.
The son-in-law hopes that the mother-in-law will open her heart
When he first got married, Zhang Yun had a good impression of his mother-in-law, and Liu Zhujing was in favor of them being together.
But later, when they chatted together, Zhang Yun found that it was not easy for the mother-in-law to communicate:
"Talking about which sentence you say is wrong or wrong, there will be more opinions in the back (Liu Zhujing)."
After that, Liu Zhujing's dissatisfaction with Zhang Yun's accumulation in his heart became more and more, which made Zhang Yun dare not talk to his mother-in-law again.
Later, in order to maintain the relationship with his mother-in-law, Zhang Yun has remained silent.
He never imagined that things would turn out to be where they are now.
In Zhang Yun's view, the mother-in-law's love for her wife is very paranoid, and everything about Xiao Yun, including her body, life, money, etc., belongs to Liu Zhujing, and she always likes to meddle in Xiao Yun's marriage and life.
Zhang Yun hopes that his mother-in-law can open her heart and tell him what places need to be changed, and he will try his best to do it.
What the elderly need is the company of their daughters
The reporter helped Xiao Yun find a psychological counselor, and with her help, Liu Zhujing said his thoughts:
First, she wants to help Xiao Yun's shop and help her daughter do business;
Second, she wants to live with Xiao Yun;
Third, sons-in-law cannot live with them.
But in the eyes of ordinary people, Liu Zhujing's requirements are very excessive, whether it is her daughter's career or life, she wants to firmly hold it in her hands and refuses to let go.
After a period of getting along, the psychological counselor told Xiao Yun that Liu Zhujing may be a paranoid personality.
The counselor advised Xiao Yun not to be too calculating with her mother:
"The more she loves you and values you, the more she tortures you."
Moreover, Liu Zhujing needs the company and care of her family, so as to open her heart knot, and Xiao Yun needs to communicate more with her mother.
After that, Xiao Yun held a family meeting, and she told her relatives about the family's problems and hoped that they would give advice.
Xiao Yun's aunt pointed out:
Xiao Yun always stood by Zhang Yun's side, worried about his emotions and worried that he would be hurt by his mother;
Xiao Yun, who is outspoken and fast-talking, always argues with his mother because of Zhang Yun, in fact, these arguments are unnecessary, because Zhang Yun knows the goodness of Xiao Yun's mother and daughter;
Xiao Yun should accompany her mother more and try not to argue because of Zhang Yun.
But Xiao Yun was worried that if this happened, her husband would leave her, and her aunt advised her:
"Is his ability to withstand a man worse than yours?" He loves you and is willing to take responsibility for you. ”
Zhang Yun also proposed that he would cooperate with Xiao Yun and let her enlighten her mother-in-law.
Listening to her husband's words, Xiao Yun finally put her mind at ease.
The little aunt's words pointed out the problem.
Xiao Yun was too afraid of losing her husband, and coupled with her outspoken heart, she always defended her husband and mother to argue.
As time went on, Liu Zhujing, who was already paranoid, became more and more lost, and he also hated and refused to accept his current son-in-law.
What the elderly need is care, Xiao Yun should communicate and care more with her mother, rather than blindly protecting her husband.
For Liu Zhujing, he should change his mentality and accept her current husband if he wants his daughter to return to his side.
The mother has a day to leave her daughter sooner or later, and she is accompanied by her husband, her lover.