Text/Moran
Often see the couples around them, making trouble, some are really problematic, one party is reluctant to break up.
But for feelings, if it is true that two people can't go on, separating is the best way.
Some people will ask, to what extent should they be separated? In fact, this question, ask your own heart to know.
Whether a person loves you or not, whether you can feel a person's heart or not, only you know.
With someone, you don't feel loved, but you will snub, and your heart will tell you the answer.
We choose to be with one person in order to make ourselves better, to have one more person to love ourselves, not one more person to hurt you.
Therefore, boys with this tendency should break up early.
Get used to cold violence
It may be for many people who feel that as long as there is no substantial harm to a person, there is no need to separate. But some feelings, hurt is invisible, only their own most clear.
With a person, the other party is always habitually cold and violent, then it should be taken seriously.
Maybe in the beginning, the other person will meet all your standards, you will feel that he is good at everything, and it is simply a blessing to be able to be with such a perfect person.
But no matter how good a person is, if he treats you coldly and ignores him, then his goodness has nothing to do with you.
People who are accustomed to cold violence, no matter how good you are to him, they only have themselves in their hearts, and they will not put you first at all.
Cold and violent people, when they encounter things, are more self-determined, will not consider your feelings at all, and it will be very tiring to be with such people.
Therefore, you have to choose to be with enthusiastic people, know how to care, and treat people sincerely, and you will be happy.
The three views are inconsistent
Two people living together, it is not enough to have love, but also to think at the same frequency.
Only people with the same three views can get along tacitly, and the three views are different, and the cognition and ideas of many things are different, so it is impossible to go on.
Two people with different views, hard together, is actually very painful, you can't agree with each other's ideas, you can't wronged yourself, and there will be more contradictions in the long run.
And people with the same three views, most of your views on things are the same, can understand each other, can understand each other's psychology, and will also resonate.
Thinking together determines the state of your life in the future, and two people who are similar will avoid many contradictions and be more beautiful and happy together.
Therefore, at the very beginning, you must learn to recognize whether the other party is the person you want, the three views are different, and do not force it.
No thoughts of their own
For a man, subjective thoughts are important. A man without self-thought is easily controlled by others and has no life of his own.
If a man can't move is to listen to others and listen to my mother, then this is to be in love with his mother, there is no point.
Choosing what kind of person to be with is important, and it determines what kind of life you live.
It will be very tiring to be with the kind of person who does not have his own thoughts and listens to his mother, and it will be himself who will suffer in the future, and everything will have to come according to his mother's wishes, and he will not use his own life at all.
In fact, choosing a partner is very important, which directly affects your future life, what kind of life you want to live, you have to choose what kind of person.
People who do not have their own thoughts cannot help you, they will only become your burden, they will only consume you, so give up as soon as possible when you meet, otherwise your life will be consumed.
summary:
For feelings, why the beginning is beautiful, get along for a while, some people have parted ways, in fact, more is that each other is not a world of people.
When you recognize that each other is not suitable, the other party has these tendencies, you should stop the loss in time and give up as soon as possible. Only by choosing the right person for you, the right person, will you be happy.