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For many mothers, in addition to considering the economic situation of the family, there is also a very important point, that is, whether the arrival of younger brothers and sisters will have an impact on Dabao.
In this regard, many people have said that in the second child court, no matter how parents balance the relationship between the two children, the love of Dabao will be more or less divided, so after having the second treasure, parents should be better for Dabao.
In fact, in addition to this reason, there are also some bao mothers who feel and send out: after giving birth to the second child, I realized how much Dabao loved his mother, and his actions made me decide to be better for him in the future days!
After the mother gave birth to the second child, the practice of these children was very defensive
After the birth of the second child, what kind of reaction will the big treasure in the family be? Not long ago, a mother shared a video online.
The little boy in the picture is baoma's son, and when he learned that his mother had given birth to a little sister for himself, the boy went to the hospital with his family to visit.
In the ward, Grandma has been guiding the boy to see the newborn little sister, and the whole family is immersed in the joy of the baby's birth.
But unexpectedly, the boy took the lead in carrying something to his mother, and touched his mother's stomach with his small hand to ensure that his mother was unharmed before turning around to see his sister on the cot.
The son's move made the mother very moved, many netizens also said that this scene is broken, it turned out that after giving birth to the second child, I knew that Dabao really loved her mother.
In a hospital in Anji, Jiangxi, a touching scene also occurred in the ward.
The mother was lying weakly in the hospital bed after giving birth to the second child, at this time the father brought Dabao to visit, dabao saw the mother's appearance and thought she was injured, so he couldn't help but cry with tears on his face, while crying and asking his father to come and help his mother.
After learning that his mother was only in a normal condition after giving birth, Dabao was still not at ease, he held his mother's arm and sobbed with a worried face: Are you okay? Are you okay? ......
The baby's cries and the worry on his face made the parents full of emotions, and the mother wiped her tears while telling Dabao that she was no longer in pain, so that he should not worry.
In the eyes of the second-born mother, the two children are the treasures they desperately exchanged, so they will distribute this maternal love equally, but in the eyes of Dabao, the mother is their only one, so they will give all their love and care to their mothers.
Outside the door of the delivery room of a hospital in Guizhou, the second-born mother was pushed into the operating room, and outside the door, Dabao, who wore two small braids, waved a small fist and shouted "come on" to her mother, no matter how the family guided her, she just refused to leave the place.
Although the children are still young, they also understand that it is a very hurtful thing for the mother to give birth to a baby, and out of a kind of heartfelt love and heartache, the children's small actions are often moved to tears.
And these performances also let the mothers see the child's dependence on themselves, so that they are determined that after giving birth to the second child, they must not ignore the idea of Dabao.
In this regard, a second-born mother in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, has made a very good example.
After the mother was discharged from the hospital, she returned home and was greeted by her family and relatives and friends, and her mother was very touched by this, and before she could thank her relatives and friends, her mother set her eyes on the eldest daughter in the crowd.
Because Bao Ma's body has not fully recovered after giving birth, she cannot pick up her eldest daughter, at this time Bao Ma chose to kneel on the ground and embrace her daughter in her arms.
The affectionate embrace of mother and daughter has also touched many netizens, and many people have praised BaoMa's behavior, believing that she will not ignore Dabao because of the birth of Erbao in the future.
In a two-child family, why should the mother love Dabao a little more?
In fact, in multi-child families, parents' love for their children should be fair.
But it is undeniable that because Dabao is the first child of his parents, so he has enjoyed all the love of his parents and mothers, if his parents subsequently give birth to the second treasure, then the family's focus will more or less shift, at this time for Dabao is a psychological gap.
In addition, his parents consciously or unconsciously favor Xiaobao, which is not conducive to the harmony between brothers and sisters, and when Dabao believes that Xiaobao has taken away his parents' love for himself, he is easily hostile to his younger siblings.
Therefore, whether considering the child's mental health or considering the harmony between brothers and sisters, parents should love Dabao more after giving birth to their second child.
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