Mother's friend Aunt Wang, can now be said to be more than half a hundred years old, this year just 50 years old, the family can be said to be happy. Only in the past six months, the family has been full of sorrows. The family's originally harmonious life was also broken, everything was due to Aunt Wang blindly fighting for three children, less than half a year, and now because of this point collapsed mentality.
Their family three treasures from birth is not good, although Aunt Wang in the preparation for pregnancy, it is very attentive, a variety of nutritional products, insist on exercising every day, and strive to keep the body in the best state, but after all, the age problem is placed here.35 years old and older are all elderly mothers, and over 40 years old are already over-age mothers. Aunt Wang's age is almost at the age of menopause.
Even though Aunt Wang has always paid attention to her own maintenance, she herself looks like she is forty years old, but the internal skills of the body are indeed much worse than before, especially the uterus and ovaries. As we all know, the maximum number of ovulation in women is between 25-35 years old, and the egg quality at this age is also the best, so the baby born, both intellectually and physically, is the best.
Every time Aunt Wang went to the hospital for obstetric examination, the doctor would pay extra attention, afraid that the over-aged mother would have a mistake. After surviving the 10-month pregnancy, I finally gave birth to the baby. It's just that this baby's physical condition is naturally not good compared with the big treasure and the second treasure. During half a year, they ran the hospital several times, which made Bao Ma collapse her mentality.
Bao Mom is 50 years old, naturally there is no breastfeeding baby. In general, breastfeeding is best if your baby is in poor health and if your baby is a premature baby. Breast milk has many kinds of nutrients that formula does not have, and breast milk can strengthen your baby's immunity. The baby's absorption is also better, if the baby eats well and sleeps well during the confinement period, it can be adjusted to catch up with other babies in growth and development.
There is no breast milk situation for the mother, only to feed the baby formula, plus the baby's own body is not as good as other babies, naturally prone to illness or unsatisfactory development. The baby is often sick, the mother is older, every time she runs the hospital, a person has to take care of the baby, but also to pay. After my mother went to the hospital, she would be tired enough. With the baby itself, I am already exhausted, and my mentality is broken.
Bao Mom sometimes sees the circle of friends and is full of envy in her heart. Those friends of their own often post photos of their travels. Look at their radiant faces, take pensions, and do not have to go to work, the two couples play around and enjoy life. The child is also older, do not have to worry about themselves, such an old age life is more comfortable.
Looking at yourself, every day the whole family circles around a baby, the baby is hungry, feed him, the baby pees, and the diaper is not wet. The baby is often uncomfortable, can only express his emotions with crying, and he has not slept a full night for a long time. Now I just want my children to grow up quickly and have their own lives.
In terms of finances, before giving birth to The Triple Treasure, the other two children were older. The pension is completely enough for two couples. The arrival of the three treasures, milk powder diapers, and money to go to the hospital for medical treatment have made life stretched every month. In order to save money, the two couples have not bought new clothes for a long time. Not to mention traveling, not only financially, but also timely.
In terms of family relations, the family used to be harmonious. Between the big treasure and the second treasure, the age difference is not big, they are all in love with each other, and there is a deal at any time. Such a situation was broken after the birth of the Three Treasures. When preparing to become pregnant with Sanbao, Dabao and Erbao were originally opposed, believing that their mother was so old that she was completely unsuitable to be a mother again.
But at that time, the mother was obstinate, thinking that she was too lonely and wanted a baby. I have been busy with work before, neglecting to take care of my two babies, trying to make up for my regrets in life and participate in the growth process of my own children. What I didn't expect was that my spirit and energy couldn't keep up at all. When you are young, it is not difficult to bring two children, when the elderly in the family are still alive, often help take care of the baby, and they have no scruples about their careers. Dabao and Erbao also grew up healthy.
After the mother gave birth to the Three Treasures, Dabao and Erbao were worried that their parents would take care of their brother or sister, and when they were unable to do so, they would throw the child to themselves. At this time, they have just married, they also have a small family, and now the pressure of life itself is not small, if multiple brothers or sisters have to take care of it, Dabao and Erbao are worried that they can't cope, so they choose to slowly alienate their parents. Coupled with the fact that her mother was determined to give birth to the Three Treasures before, this act had broken her heart.
The family's relationship was also destroyed by the arrival of the Three Jewels, and it was difficult to recover to the past. At this time, Bao Mama also did not have a choice, and sometimes she felt that it was not a mistake to insist on giving birth to the Three Treasures, but there was no regret in life, only to carry the weight forward.