Since the opening of the two-child policy, many families have been working hard for this matter. Not only young people care about this matter, but even older people care about it. However, if you are older, then it is best to consider this matter, otherwise it will not be good for your family.
Because of the opening of the two-child policy, Mr. Li's wife also wants to continue to have a child, because only in this way can the atmosphere at home become better, and the more children in the family will also have the smell of fireworks. Not long after, Mr. Li's wife became pregnant with her second child. I thought this was a very good thing, but the next problem was very serious, that is, Mr. Li's mother was also pregnant with her second child at the same time.
Regarding this matter, Mr. Li's wife is very disgusted. Obviously, they have reached the age of being a grandmother, so why should they continue to have children? Isn't that adding to the chaos in the home? However, it is clear that the mother-in-law did not think about this, and even hoped that his son and daughter-in-law would help take care of the child.
But I didn't expect that this mother-in-law had such a thought as a daughter-in-law's words, but it made her feel pierced. Directly Mr. Li's wife said: "You said that you are all old and still thinking of having a second child, what does this look like?" After letting others know, others will definitely say bad things about you behind your back. Besides, who will raise you if you have a second child? Anyway, I don't have that ability, and you must not expect me. ”
After the mother-in-law heard it, she suddenly did not know how to express her feelings, so the whole person was completely silent.
In fact, this is a very typical status quo, although the opening of the two-child policy makes many elderly people want to pay a part. But not all families are suitable for having a second child, especially for those elderly families, the problems they need to face are also very serious.
What problems do you need to face when you have a second child at an advanced age?
If you really want to mention this matter, then you should first think of your own economic problems. One of the most likely problems brought about by having a second child at an advanced age is that if the economic conditions at home are not as good as imagined, so after the birth of the second child, the family's situation will become very passive, which is definitely not a good thing for a family.
Of course, if a person's home situation is relatively good, then there is no need to worry about this problem. We must not think that talking about money is a very tacky thing, if there is no money in life, then the situation will definitely become very passive.
Therefore, when we have children at an advanced age, we must have money as a support, otherwise once the child comes, our pressure will become very large, which is definitely not a good thing for us.
In addition, we still have to consider a problem, that is, the problem of energy, which is also very important for the elderly. When older people have given birth, one of the most likely problems is that their energy is getting worse and worse.
They simply don't have the energy to take care of their children, and if they are really in such a situation, then once the child is born, then it is definitely not a good thing for themselves. Of course, it does not mean that all families are not suitable for having children at an advanced age, if they still have some strength to take care of children, or if there are relatives in the family who can take care of children, then there will be no big problems.
If there is no one in the family who can take care of the child, plus they simply do not have the ability to support the child, then this problem needs to be well considered.
Then there is another problem that is more serious, and that is the problem of mentality. If you really choose to have children at an advanced age, then the most likely problem is that people around you may be able to gossip, if the psychological endurance is not as good as imagined, once the child is born, then you will be bruised. So when facing this problem, we also need to think about it.
If we don't care about the cold words of others, then there is not much of a problem, and if we care too much about others, then it will only make us very bad in the end.
Of course, we also need to consider Dabao's feelings, the reason why some elderly women have become discordant after giving birth to their second child is because the relationship between Dabao and Erbao is not too good. Many dabao will feel that since Erbao came to this world, then he will deprive his parents of their love for themselves.
Therefore, when facing this problem, we also need to have a good discussion with Dabao, only to solve all the problems, there will not be too many problems.
Therefore, the matter of having a second child at an advanced age still needs to be well discussed, if it is not considered so comprehensively, then the final result is certainly not so good.