The liberalization of the two-child policy is a good thing for many families, because in a family, it is inevitable that they want to have the arrival of a second child and add some joy to the family.
At this time, many parents have ignored the relationship between the first and second babies, at this time, they may not have much desire to express, but in fact, they have too much intention for this matter, see will bring a huge impact on the subsequent family relations, there is a very alarming thing, that is, a 14-year-old boy, actually hurt his sister who is only more than one year old.
What is even more shocking is that after this incident, he did not have any remorse.
In the face of the trial, he always claimed that he did not regret it, he had always disliked this sister very much, and he hated him very much, and after covering his sister's head, he took a kitchen knife and hurt the child.
His grandmother returned to this room to find out about this kind of thing, but it did not save the life of this one-year-old child, why did this 14-year-old boy's mind change?
According to his statement, he himself is more introverted, does not like to express to the family, after giving birth to the second child, the family's thoughts seem to be transferred to their own sister, so she is dissatisfied with the child. At this time, in fact, the family relationship has already undergone major changes, and the family can communicate with the child, telling him that the love and care between the family is the same, and there is no need to worry about the phenomenon of favoritism.
In the handling of some relationships between the two children, it is also worth the vigilance of parents.
In a show. One child cried bitterly and complained that his parents did not want to see her, because after giving birth to the second child, the parents' thoughts fell on her, and in the process of getting along, there would inevitably be some contradictions, and the parents also stood unconditionally in the second child's baby, and the eldest child also cried and complained that his father could not try to believe him once? It's really desperate.
Many parents are to the child is still small as the reason, no matter what the situation, is as far as possible to love the relatively small child, do not know, regardless of the age, the need to get the love is the same, parents in the face of this situation, should be treated equally, do not let the two children feel treated badly, at this time, it is easy to stimulate the contradiction between the two, in the long run, two relatives who are related by blood, may also be able to have some malice.
This situation is a microcosm of too many families, although it is common enough, but it does not prove him correct, the existence of Kong Rong let the pear situation is good, if not, do not blame the child, because the child is only a simple person, there is no need to force them to be so sage.
What parents need to do is to give them equal treatment as much as possible, if the child has a very generous mentality at this time, then it is commendable to do kong rong to let the pear, and it is not morally kidnapped by the parents and forced to make them compromise.
Such a situation is a kind of harm for the older child, and it is not a good thing for the second child, because in the process, it may fuel their arrogance, and from an early age they know that no matter what they do, they can be forgiven and can be compromised.
Therefore, even if you go to society, you may not be able to restrain yourself, and in the process, you may run into walls everywhere. Every child is born with a blank piece of paper, without any color, and the parents are the ones who bring them the first color, and they must pay special attention to the way of education.
It is not easy for a family to maintain harmony.
Especially now after the release of the two-child policy, the age difference between the eldest child and the second child in many families is actually relatively large, at this time, when the child has an independent concept and is not willing to compromise for the so-called family relationship, the second child may become the object of the child's dislike.
The fourteen-year-old boy, it is precisely because of the unfair treatment, will derive this psychology, resulting in such a tragedy, I believe that in this process, the most hurt should be his parents.
But to be precise, is this pair of parents really irresponsible? Not really.
This child has very little communication with his parents, and only has a better relationship with his grandmother, is it not worth pondering?
I hope that every parent should think carefully about why they should have a second child before giving birth to a second child, is it not to add some joy to the family and make the family more loving?
If this situation occurs, then what is the meaning of having a second child?
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