In the new century, most families at the new starting point have already lived a well-off life. At the same time, the state has also opened up the two-child birth policy, and even has a subsidy policy for the second child. Many families are also considering whether to have another child, but they are afraid to think of Dabao's economic pressure and the second treasure.
Having a second child is not a good enough economic foundation, and the economy can only account for a small part. With the economic foundation, the in-laws can take the handle to bring the baby, at least when the child is more than one year old and can run and jump, someone will bring it, so that the child can eat and wear warm, and not bump. At this time, you can go to work with free time, even if you can only earn two or three thousand, it is enough for yourself and your children.
Someone to help with the child is not possible to have a second child, and then see if your husband is very responsible, or he is an invincible person who can perfectly take care of two or three children at the same time. If your husband can't even take care of himself, eating and drinking Lasa wants you to help, then don't mention taking care of the children, of course, such husbands should not be many. In addition, the feelings between husband and wife must be harmonious, Dabao is already living in a disharmonious family, and will he have to regenerate Erbao to suffer the same torture?
After five levels and six generals, all the customs clearance can give birth to a second child, it is time to consider the age of themselves and their husbands. Women do not advocate having a second child after the age of 40, because their egg quality and some of the body's functions are no longer the best time period. It is best for women not to be over 35 years old, once the quality and quantity of eggs will decline after the age of 35, and the condition of the body will also decline. The fetus may be born with deformities or even dementia.
When you are ready to have a second child, you must treat Dabao as an adult with a completely independent consciousness, to respect and understand Dabao's wishes. It is necessary to let Dabao accept the second treasure, and even look forward to the arrival of his younger brothers and sisters. Also pay more attention to Dabao, such as Dabao's emotional changes and daily needs, so that Dabao knows that it is either superfluous with the second treasure itself.
Everything can not be forgotten before pregnancy examination, especially the second child, the second child mother's physical fitness is poor, often susceptible to various pathogens, need to be screened for various pathogens one by one before pregnancy. There are also many second-born mothers who have their first birth by caesarean section and need to check how well the uterus heals and whether the interval between them and the first child is sufficient.
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