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An aunt of 44 years old, not long ago three children unloaded, is a son, and finally the children are complete, and the wish is granted.
From the full liberalization of the two-child policy by the state in 2016 to the release of the three-child policy by the state in 2021, there have been many elderly mothers in recent years, and some have even re-experienced the feeling of being a parent at the age when they should be grandparents.
And after the emergence of the two-child and three-child policy, young people are not enthusiastic about it, but some older couples are more active and anxious. As a result, many elderly mothers appeared, and a number of younger siblings who were about the same age as their children were born. Those couples who have two children and three children at an advanced age have no exceptions to the following endings.
Ask for children, ask women to get women, get what you want
Many women risk their advanced age to get pregnant and have children. It is nothing more than that when you are young, you can only have one child due to the fertility policy, and this one is not the gender desired in your heart, resulting in regret in your heart. So the policy has been liberalized, immediately began to adjust the body, and then spelled one.
As a result, if you ask for a child and a daughter, then even if the husband and wife get what they want, they will be very happy. Even if there are no children, there are more children in the family. For parents, it is also one more child with more hope, and inject new impetus into the family.
After the opening of the third child, several friends with two daughters around me, as well as two sons, began to give birth to the third child, all looking forward to a different gender, in fact, they all want to have both children, which is the common sentiment of people.
It troubles the boss and disrupts the pace of the family's life
One of my classmates had already talked about marriage with his girlfriend. Who knew that at this time, his mother was pregnant and insisted on giving birth to the child. The woman's parents are not happy, and the girl who just enters the door will take care of the mother-in-law to sit in confinement, and before giving birth to her own child, she will take care of the sister-in-law and uncle. If the man's mother does not want this child, she will not let her daughter marry her. In the end, the breakup of the female tip ended the pull between the two families.
Classmates have quite a complaint about their parents, obviously they are about to hold their grandchildren, but they still have to give birth, and now my marriage has also been delayed.
Many couples obviously have reached the age of marriage, and the second is not small, so they will have a second child at this time. If it is not that the conditions at home are particularly good, it is really adding to the chaos. First of all, it is difficult to bring up the boss, I finally want to be liberated, and then I have another child, and the hard work of raising a child is experienced again, and the energy and physical strength of the elderly and the young are different, and the feeling that it will be powerful and inadequate to raise it.
In addition, it adds chaos to the boss's life. Many elderly mothers talk about adding a younger sibling to the children in the family, but many are equivalent to giving birth to children for the eldest. Many parents are unable to raise their children anymore, and can only transfer the burden to the boss, which increases the burden and pressure of the boss and is more likely to cause family conflicts.
Giving birth to a child is not a trivial matter, and having a second child at an advanced age will not only cause great harm to the mother's body, but also affect the relationship between family members. Therefore, children born at an advanced age must be cautious.
【Topic Discussion: Do you have a mother who has a child at an advanced age? 】
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