Once they become older leftover women, women are very passive.
All along, our definition of an older leftover woman has not been very clear, neither a clear age boundary nor a clear standard measurement. Moreover, everyone's attitude towards the older leftover women is very tough and avoids them.
On the one hand, because the reason why a woman can be left behind, there must be something unpleasant about her in her. On the other hand, the difficulty index of older leftover women who want to turn over salted fish to change their fate will become more and more difficult.
Voice of an older leftover woman: Thirty-five years old is an age that a woman does not want to face, very realistic
A 35-year-old woman is defined as an advanced maternal age
If the eldest leftover woman meets her true destiny at the age of 35, and the two people enter the palace of marriage at once, then having children immediately after that is the first priority. After all, 35-year-old women have been defined as advanced maternal age.
Whether it is for the child or for themselves, there is a great danger and threat, in which for the child, the mother's physiological condition is not good, and the nutrition that can be provided to the child is greatly reduced. If the mother's situation is not good, how can she produce a high-quality baby?
Moreover, elderly women will have different challenges not only during childbirth, but also after childbirth, such as child deformity during pregnancy, difficulty in recovering postpartum figure and so on. It is even subject to social discussion about itself.
Companies are almost reluctant to recruit 35+ employees
Nowadays, in social recruitment, a conventional rule has been formed, and people over the age of 35 who want to change jobs are either strong or have relatives and want to start from scratch again, and no company is willing to provide them with such an opportunity.
After all, if a person over the age of 35 has achieved nothing, it can only show that the person's ability and intelligence are defective, otherwise even if he is a senior, he cannot get nothing. Moreover, society's demands on women will only become more stringent.
Among them, before recruiting female employees, enterprises must predict in advance the impact of women's marriage and children on the efficiency of enterprise work, and in the process of female pregnancy, enterprises cannot refuse and dismiss, and can only bear their own profits and losses.
Therefore, for a 35-year-old woman who has not yet married and had children, there will be great concerns about the company. Regardless of whether there are other candidates, they will not choose this unstable factor as their employees.
The older you get, the more unable you are to make yourself perfect
The reason why many women will become older leftover women is that internal and external factors coexist, and external factors, including the people they meet, have not been able to fully meet their expectations, and always let themselves end up disappointed. Instead of living with them, it is better to live proudly.
The internal cause is their own childhood encounters and original families, many women grew up in an unhappy family, parents divorced or seemingly divorced, will lead to women's view of marriage distorted, do not trust anyone, unwilling to confide in others.
In this way, as they grow older, even when they realize that they should start a family and have a home, they are always more than enough and insufficient. No matter what, I still can't compromise myself.
What should parents do to prevent their daughters from growing like this?
Create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere
Parents' mode of getting along will subtly affect the child, when parents always live in harmony, respect each other every day, harmonious and democratic, they will define happiness as parental love in their minds.
Moreover, even if parents do not say much and do not repeatedly emphasize the correct concept of marriage in their ears, they will grow to the sun, and the situation of long and crooked will plummet. Don't worry your parents much.
Immediately show concern at the sight of the signs
When parents perceive the abnormality of their daughters in life, or are not interested in love, or often change boyfriends, parents should communicate more with their daughters, understand the real situation, and prepare to deal with problems in advance.
If the daughter's condition is already very serious, parents can consider taking their daughter to seek help from a psychologist. As long as it can help their daughter find happiness, parents still have to try boldly.
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