The really beautiful feeling is that two people can support and rely on each other together, care about each other and miss each other.
If a middle-aged man does not have any emotional ups and downs for you, whether in life or emotionally, the distance between you is getting farther and farther away, indicating that your feelings have cracked and you can never go back to the past.
The more you love your middle-aged man, the more he will grasp and cherish the time spent with each other, willing to listen to your voice silently, and be able to integrate into your world.
Once you notice that a middle-aged man begins to slowly snub and alienate you, there is no longer a tacit understanding between you, and you are gradually drifting away from each other, there is no need to have too high expectations and hopes for him.
Love is mutual redemption, mutual understanding.
When you realize that a middle-aged man is beginning to fade out of your sight and refuse to communicate and collide with you heart-to-heart, you should be soberly aware that your feelings have been deeply rifted.
The devil is in the details. Whether a relationship lasts depends on the details of your relationship. Generally speaking, if you want a middle-aged man to not be able to put you down, you need to pay attention to these small details.
1. Master the distance
The more you want a middle-aged man to remember you, the more you have to grasp the distance between two people.
On the one hand, you don't rely on him too much, putting pressure and burden on him.
On the other hand, you should not be too indifferent and alienated from him, so that he has no sense of existence and belonging in the relationship.
The right sense of distance and the right sense of proportion will make a middle-aged man unable to let go of you.
No one likes to be tied down and tied up in a relationship. No matter how much he loves you, he longs for relatively independent space and freedom.
If he completely loses his personal space because he loves you, he may lose confidence and enthusiasm for feelings.
Since you don't want to lose his heart, you want him to be unable to let go of you, then you must pay attention to master the distance, do not go far and near him, hot and cold, and do not be too close to him or too cold.
Only when you are at the right distance, get along with each other harmoniously and comfortably, and you are free and unrestrained in your relationship, can this relationship be long-lasting.
2. Understand the voice of the heart
When you want to firmly grasp the heart of a middle-aged man, you must first learn to be a listener and be able to truly understand his heart.
Middle-aged men have a lot of bitterness to say, and some things he will hide deep in his heart.
If you can understand his implications, even if he does not say anything, you can understand the real desires and appeals of his heart, he will look at you with admiration, and you will become his confidant.
If you want to understand his voice, you need to spend time with him slowly, be patient and tolerant of him, and be willing to spend energy and mind to figure out his thoughts.
More importantly, you must know how to compare your heart to your heart and try to think about things from his point of view.
If you don't know anything about his life and never take the initiative to talk to him, it will be difficult for you to impress his heart, and he will not be in love with you.
Therefore, when you want a middle-aged man to not be able to let go of you, you must pay attention to the usual communication with him, and if you have any concerns, you can talk to him.
In addition to this, you must strive to be a competent listener, talk less and listen more, with a sincere and warm attitude. Only in this way will he be willing to take the initiative to talk to you, and you and him can cultivate tacit understanding.
3, melt into the circle
The reason why a middle-aged man can't let go of you is because you can quickly integrate into his circle of life, and you can have an emotional spark between you.
If you don't want to fit into his circle at all, or if your circle of life and his circle of life have no intersection at all, and don't fit in, then your relationship won't last long.
If you want middle-aged men to really like and care about you, you should pay attention to the usual care for him a little more, and have a kind and friendly attitude, rather than being cold to him.
When you turn him away, never allow him to have emotional exchanges and collisions, and ignore each other, it is difficult for your feelings to continue.
Love is supporting and helping each other. If you notice that a middle-aged man is beginning to drift away from you, it is difficult for you to achieve heart-to-heart contact between you, even if you are very good to him, it is difficult for you to knock on his heart door, then you do not have to be deeply in love with him.
Since you love, then love sincerely and warmly, frankly and warmly, don't hide it, and don't be half-hearted.
Give each other a little more time and space, grasp the distance and proportions, blend with each other, cooperate with each other, and this relationship will mushroom like mushrooms.
In short, if you want a middle-aged man to not be able to let go of you, you need to pay attention to a variety of details.
For example, you have to take a good distance and be careful not to put too much pressure and burden on him.
For example, you should be gentle with him, usually care for and take care of him, and let him feel your sincerity and warmth.
For example, you should pay attention to the way of speaking, master the skills of communication, be more tolerant and understanding of him, and tolerate and respect each other.
If you want to touch a person's heart, you must first pay your true heart and exchange your true heart for your heart.
If the love and sincerity you give will never be rewarded accordingly, you should know how to stop the loss in time.
When a person does not love you, it is not that you are not good enough, but that he does not know how to appreciate your beauty, and you have not yet met the person who is related.
If you haven't met the right person yet, you don't have to be anxious and uneasy, even if you live alone, it's better than torturing each other with someone you don't love.
As long as you have love in your heart and light in your eyes, one day, you will reap the happiness that belongs to you.