Different people have different views on the matter of having children at an advanced age. But it is worth mentioning that this is definitely a stressful thing, pregnant women should pay more attention to their bodies, do not put their bodies in a passive situation, which is definitely not a good thing for themselves, and it is definitely not a good thing for the children in the belly.
If you talk about this matter, you have to mention Ms. Shen. After giving birth to her child, Ms. Shen, 42, left the hospital alone in a state of frustration, and when the medical staff found out about the incident, they quickly sought help from the police. When the police received the news, they quickly dispatched police forces, but thankfully, the police found Ms. Shen in a rental house.
However, when I found Ms. Shen, I saw that Ms. Shen's emotions were close to collapse, and she once wanted to give up. When the police found out more, the forty-two-year-old woman cried and expressed her opinion. It turned out that all this was because Ms. Shen felt that her pressure was too great, and she had to go to work the day before giving birth, and eating was a problem, claiming that she had eaten two slices of bread on the day of giving birth, and she felt that she was very difficult.
It didn't take long for the matter to ferment on the Internet. However, the comment area is one-sided, and many netizens feel that Ms. Shen really deserves it! If you feel that you are having a hard time, why do you want to continue to have children? Isn't that making your life worse? Obviously, netizens do not eat Ms. Shen's set at all. And for this matter, many netizens also expressed their views.
These netizens feel that rational fertility is a thing worth paying attention to, of course, there are a small number of people who feel that they should try to understand Ms. Shen, after all, it is not an easy thing to have children at an advanced age.
In fact, this is a very common phenomenon, the elderly birth itself is accompanied by pressure, pregnant women in the process of pregnancy is easy to have emotional collapse, which is also easy to understand. But then again, what problems do advanced mothers need to pay attention to? That's one thing we need to know.
What problems do advanced maternal mothers need to pay attention to?
If we really talk about this issue, then the state of the economy should be taken into account in the first place. Most of the elderly women are giving birth to a second or third child, of course, this is indeed a good thing, if there are more children in the family, then the atmosphere in the home can become better and better. But before that, you also need to see if your financial situation can support having multiple children.
If the economic situation is not as good as imagined, then the children born are likely to become a burden, and the burden on the whole family will become very serious, so that the pressure in the family will become very large, which is definitely not a good thing for a family.
In addition, it is a matter of energy, the pressure of advanced maternal age is actually quite large, if you really choose to have children when you are older, then you must first see if you have the energy to take care of your children. Many elderly women become very weak after giving birth, so most women do not have the energy to take care of their children.
If you say that your body is better and you can take care of your children, then there will be no big problem. Of course, if there are elderly people in the family who can take care of children, this is also possible. Otherwise, don't choose to have children at an advanced age, otherwise your situation will become very bad, and if the child cannot be taken care of by his mother, this is also unfair to the child.
Elderly mothers also need to pay attention to a problem, that is, the problem of mentality. Because the elderly mother becomes weak, she will suffer before giving birth to a child, and at this time, the woman's body is likely to collapse, and the emotions are likely to collapse, which often makes the elderly mother unable to support. In addition, it is easy to be gossiped about when having children at an advanced age, and it is easy to be pointed out.
So if you really want to have children, then you have to have better endurance and endurance. Be able to withstand the gossip of others, but also be able to withstand the pressure, so as to ensure that the child comes to the world smoothly. But if one of these two things is not done well, the final result will not be so good.
Finally, the physical condition, must be checked before pregnancy, and regular obstetric examinations after pregnancy are also needed, so as to ensure that the child in the belly does not have any problems. The biggest problem for elderly mothers is that the children in the belly are prone to certain diseases, so it is also important to prevent such things from happening.
Therefore, for advanced maternal age, there are many things that need to be paid attention to. Only by paying attention to each problem will there be no big problem in the end. But if there is no guarantee of good, the final result will not be too good.