Getting married and having children is a process that each of us needs to go through, and it is also a milestone on the road of our lives, if we have not experienced a life that is incomplete and will have great regrets.
Especially for us women, for us women, having children is a responsibility and obligation of ours, the greatest meaning of our existence, and having a child of our own can make life more complete.
In the past, having children seemed to be the only goal of women, and after marriage, they had to keep having children for their husbands, and they must have more boys, so that their status would be solid and there would be more labor in the family.
However, later, due to various changes in the family planning policy, women also began to restrain the speed of having children, and the focus was no longer on the other half and the family, but on their own careers.
Nowadays, women's social status has become more and more equal, and many people have begun to pursue freedom, believing that marriage is a kind of bondage to themselves, and they are not in a hurry to get married.
Therefore, there is such a situation as now, and many "older leftover women" have begun to appear in society, who are busy with their careers, busy with work, and are far away from marriage, even if their parents urge them to be tight, they do not get married.
However, according to the current social state, women are always a vulnerable group, if there is no strong backing, after the struggle, they can only get married and have children, and go through a normal life.
Moreover, the most important point is that the old people in the home are really too tight, although the current thinking has been very open, but the old people still have some old ideas.
When women are around 25 or 26 years old, the elderly begin to urge marriage, and after marriage, they begin to urge children, not that the elderly are idle and have nothing to do, but for the sake of children.
Everyone should know that both men and women have the peak of the body, and at the peak of the body, whether it is pregnancy or childbirth, it is good for women.
Experts said that the best age for women to have children is between 23-30 years old, during which women's physical function has been at its peak, whether it is the pregnancy response during pregnancy or the recovery after childbirth, it has always been at its peak.
However, once a woman is over 30 years old, the function in the body will begin to slowly decline from the peak state, and if she is pregnant or gives birth at this time, the body will have to bear different things.
Therefore, many people refer to women over 30 years old as "advanced mothers", and elderly women will have more dangerous situations whether they are pregnant or during childbirth.
First of all, during pregnancy, elderly women are prone to pregnancy hypertension, pregnancy heart disease and other diseases, and are likely to be dangerous during pregnancy, which not only threatens the life of the fetus, but also poses a great threat to the safety of maternal life.
Secondly, when elderly women give birth, the risk factor will increase seriously, and postpartum haemorrhage, difficult childbirth, etc. are easy to occur, and even the situation of natural delivery cannot be reached, and only caesarean section can be delivered.
Therefore, parents are most concerned about the safety of their daughters, and they want their daughters to get married as soon as possible and have babies as soon as possible, so as to ensure safety and parents can be more at ease.
However, according to the current situation, women's late marriage and late childbearing have become the most normal situation, and the general environment drives women to marry later and later, and to have children later and later.
There will be many people who wonder, if a woman really becomes pregnant at the stage of an advanced pregnancy, then whether to give birth or not? Why do you see that some aunts around 50-60 can have a second child?
In fact, this is all based on the mother's own physique to decide, if the mother's physique is good, coupled with the day after tomorrow's maintenance, as well as regular obstetric examinations, it is no problem at all.
Some experts pointed out that women will enter the "menopause period" at the age of 45-55, if calculated according to the latest menopause period, that is, the first decade of menopause, that is, 45 years old.
At this age, it is the age when women most want to have a second child, and the big treasure in the family goes to college at an age, leaving the old two at home, dancing square dance is small, and then the second child will appear old, very entangled.
Therefore, if the couple is ready to have a second child, it must not exceed this age, if it really becomes a super-aged mother, then the mother and the fetus will face great danger.
If the mother has a baby after the age of 45, the probability of a deformed child will increase exponentially, and even the fetus will carry some congenital diseases.
If this really happens, the threat to the mother and the family is very large, "it is better not to be born without raising", so if you want to have a child, if you want a second child, it is best to be early.
Truth:
In fact, today's women are also very entangled, want to get married and afraid that marriage can not bring happiness to themselves, or afraid that they can not become a qualified mother, which is the reason why women would rather be single than get married.
However, this is a process that we must go through, which cannot be avoided, rather than being forced to accept, it is better to choose slowly.