Author | Inspector (total 1757 words, about 4 minutes to read)
In public places, we must abide by the rules and regulations, and we must come first to queue up to abide by the rules, which is also a truth that everyone should understand.
However, not long ago, there was a photo of "queuing on behalf of the generation" that attracted controversy among netizens.
The 5-year-old baby posted a note for testing, but the content of the note caused controversy
In a line to do nucleic acid, there was a lonely little girl who attracted everyone's attention because of a note posted on the girl's back.
It turned out that the child's family still had a little brother sleeping, the mother had to take care of him at home, because there were many people who did nucleic acid, so the mother could not take the younger brother downstairs to queue for the time being, so that the daughter took the position first and waited.
In the video, we can see a girl who looks only 4 or 5 years old, who should be cared for in the arms of her parents, but she has to be alone early, queuing up for her family in a strange crowd.
★ This scene made netizens not calm.
"At a young age, I have to hold up a heavy responsibility, and it hurts to look at her weak back." However, whoever is a little difficult, the neighbors are more considerate, the queue is also a family of four or five people, can understand, but if each family is so queued, it is indeed a little unfair. ”
"Isn't queuing up just to cut in line?" If each family queues up for various reasons, it is not a mess! We can't let the child because she is small, besides, we don't let the child, but the parents behind the rules! ”
"This girl is so sensible!" Obedient, is a filial and responsible child! Let children learn to help their parents share and do some things within their own reach early, which is also an exercise and growth for children. ”
"We have opened a green channel for students, the elderly, parents with physical disabilities and children here, and the people in the queue will not have any complaints when they see people with special circumstances in line, which is our quality and the strength of the Chinese people."
"Where did her parents go?" Mom has to take care of her brother, but what about Dad? What about grandparents? After giving birth to a son, will the daughter be forced to grow up? Such a small child, standing alone in the cold weather, parents look at it is not painful? This is also the reason why I don't want a second child, because once I have a second child, I don't have the energy to take care of Dabao, which is unfair to Dabao. ”
For children to "queue up", everyone also has their own sayings.
Some praise the child's understanding, some question the chaos of the generation queue phenomenon, and most of them criticize the parents' "big heart", regardless of the child's safety, only consider the small treasure at home, and are too irresponsible for the big treasure.
★ There is no direct link between exercising children and second children
Many parents see that this little girl has taken on the heavy responsibility of the whole family with her thin shoulders, and feel very distressed, thinking that parents should not have the second child in the case of their own lack of energy and ability, let alone prefer sons to daughters, so that the big treasure or the second treasure can bear the strength that should not be borne at a young age.
In fact, children are much stronger than we think.
Exercising children's growth and having a second child is not directly related.
Some parents do not have a second child, but from the age of 3, let them learn to cook, steam steamed buns and even play soy sauce, is this not to love children?
On the contrary, it is also a manifestation of loving children and helping children grow.
Parents always have the day to leave the child, early day and night we can not predict, so from the moment on, we must teach the child how to do everything, so that they have the ability to be independent, have a strong heart, then even if the parents are not around the child, the child can face it calmly, which is the task that parents should complete the most.
★ Let the child go out alone, safety should be put first
Every child is a treasure in the palm of a parent's hand.
No matter how "big-hearted" parents are, they will not fail to consider the safety of their young children. Because the nucleic acid testing is mainly based on the community as a unit, so if parents let the child go to the queue first, it is still more reassuring, after all, the community lives in neighbors, each testing point also has staff and volunteers to maintain order, and bad people generally dare not act without authorization.
And if it is necessary to go out to queue up for testing, then parents are no longer convenient, and then want to exercise their children, do not let the children go out alone, in case of accidents, regret is too late.
Parents also need to pay attention to the fact that it is best to queue up together, if there are special circumstances that need to tell their children in advance:
When queuing, you are not allowed to make trouble, you cannot cut in line, you cannot leave the line with strangers, and you are afraid or have something to ask the "big white" staff for help. This can also make children have a certain sense of safety, remember the advice of their parents, and be safer.
Regardless of boys and girls, as a member of the family, they should share for their parents, do what they can, children understand the hardships of their parents early, understand the difficulties of real life, for them is more of an encouragement, only when they become strong, they have the ability to face the beauty of the future.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
When queuing, especially the long queue, is also a time to test everyone's patience, and at this time, if someone cuts in line, they are indeed more anxious in their hearts, but special circumstances should be treated specially.
If students or parents with children really have urgent matters to cut in, then it is understandable that everyone should be considerate.
But if adults line up for dozens or even hundreds of people at every turn, this is a bit unspeakable, and it really needs to be condemned.
Life needs sunshine, every day is beautiful, everyone understands each other, each takes a step back, orderly, has a good mood, and can also make our lives more lucky.
What do you think about having small children "stand in line"?
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