The 5-year-old daughter asked: Mom, do you have a husband?

Yesterday, a friend sent me a video saying that it was to let me see how sharp the post-10s are.

I clicked on the video, and it was a conversation between the twins and their mother.

Dabao asked his mother: Do you have a husband?

Mom: What do you think?

Dabao: I don't think so, I didn't even hear you call your husband.

Mom asked incredulously: Then who do you think Dad is Mommy?

Dabao: Brother

At this time, Erbao retorted: No, Dad doesn't call Mom together when he drinks.

Dabao thought about it: That's a friend.

Erbao retorted: How is it possible, every time my mother needs help, my father says no.

Dabao: That can only be a neighbor.

Hahahahaha ~ see here, I have been shocked, all say fairy tales, but sometimes the baby casually says a word, clearly to show adults, what is called "a young age to see through everything."

I have to admit that sometimes children's perception and observation are much stronger than those of us who have lived for decades.

Adults find it difficult to solve the problem, they see it clearly, about life, death, choice, mother-in-law relationship... Believe it or not, you see

How should life be lived?

@Wang Kitty Kean

One of my students, kindergarten middle class.

In class, there is a part of coloring, and everyone has finished painting him.

He looked at the others, then at himself, and said to himself:

"I don't think life should be rushed."

@ Zhang Xiaoqi

My colleague's daughter is 4 years old and once she was sick and dad was on a business trip again and her mom took her to our office.

She said to me, "Auntie, can you help me turn on the computer, I want to watch Bear Haunting."

I ran over to her to search for Bear Haunting. Unexpectedly, the internet speed was too slow, a little stuck, and I moved the mouse back and forth.

At this moment, the 4-year-old girl said slowly:

Auntie, what is the hurry, it does not come out, we will wait slowly. For what we like, we must be patient and impatient. Otherwise, even if you see it, you won't be so happy.

Mom and Dad in the eyes of children

@Pippi shrimp

When Wa was 4 years old, once her father criticized him, and Wa said sadly: If my father doesn't like me, I don't like my father.

If my mother didn't like me, I wouldn't like me anymore, because my mother didn't like me anymore.

@ A variety show host asked the little boy what he wanted to be when he grew up. He replied, "Just be an ordinary dad." Because Dad is very hard, when other things are also very hard. ”

What should I do if I am bullied?

@Silent Fish

My daughter has just started elementary school.

I asked: Are there boys in the class who are naughty and bully you?

A: There was a little boy who hit me and ran.

Q: Are you angry? How did you deal with it?

The daughter calmly replied: I am not angry, because I find that if you can't control your emotions, your emotions are controlled by others.

I walked over and slapped him at the end of class, and now his emotions are in my hands.

@ Gentle little pumpkin when my brother was 5 or 6 years old... He broke a bowl of my mother:╰_╯ (before he could open his mouth to scold) My brother: Don't stare! You broke both bowls the day before yesterday and I didn't even say you!

What if he doesn't love me?

@Mila 6-year-old Valentine's Day admirers threw chocolate at me, but they actually threw blank eyes. Those boys don't even know your name, so how can they know which brand of chocolate you like? Drive to the store and buy it for yourself. This is called self-love.

Insist on sending flowers to yourself.

If you meet a man who doesn't love you, love yourself.

@ Beautiful Girl Hero said that the child of the colleague's family said to her mother: Mom, I know that Grandma does not love you. But it doesn't matter, Grandma loves you!

We often grieve because others don't love us, and children tell us that we just need to focus on the people who love us.

About prejudice and respect

@Anon. Girl: The person who collects garbage from our house every day, why should we call him a "garbage worker"?

Mother: Because he collects garbage!

Little Girl: How do you call him a garbage worker? He removed the garbage and made the environment tidy.

He should be called a "cleaner." Those of us who throw garbage should be called "garbage workers"!

@Blank

My nephew recently felt bad about the mask: "The mask is very poor, we use it to block the virus, and we have to throw it away as garbage." ”

@Ultraman

The 2 year old daughter loves dogs. I asked my daughter if she wanted to have a dog.

The daughter solemnly replied: "I don't want to raise, I just want to see on the road." I asked why? My daughter said, "I like the cloud the most, but I don't keep it either." ”

How to face the inevitable death

@"Mom is Superman" Dunsha and her son's dialogue

Deng Sha: "Mom will get old in the future" Da Linzi: "I don't want my mother to get old"

Dunsa: "Why?"

Da Linzi: "Because when you get old, you will be buried in the soil"

Deng Sha: "What if My mother is buried in the soil?" ”

Da Linzi: "Then I will water you and wait until you grow up." ”

After death, people do not disappear, it remains in the hearts of many people. If your mother dies and is buried in the soil, then I will water you and wait for you to grow up.

@Lena

In the evening, he and his 7-year-old son explained that he was going to attend the funeral of his good friend's father tomorrow.

He suddenly asked me, "Mom, do you know where people go after they die?" ”

"It's not heaven or anything like that anyway, it's what people imagine based on their religious beliefs."

"Yes, I don't think it's going to be heaven either."

"Don't you want to say that it's the Side of The King of Jizo in Journey to the West..."

"No, I think after people die, they will go to the hearts of many people."

"And because everyone has a different impression of ta, this dead person will become many and live in everyone's heart."

Everyone has a choice

@One by one

One is one of the protagonists of the documentary "Post-Zero Zero", and she has a nickname in kindergarten called "Lone Ranger".

Because she always likes to eat alone, play alone, and have a lot of fun.

The program team asked her: "Why do you always play alone?" "Because I like to play like this." The program team continued to ask, "Why?" Isn't it fun to talk to them? ”

"Everyone has their own choices," she said. ”

@ 11 or 11, this child let her mother cut her hair short.

Asked her why, she said, "I think boys are good. ”

"But you cut your hair like a boy."

One by one, he said firmly, "I'm going to cut it into a boy." I have rights. ”

@Tao Xiaomi Xiu Yuanxi

My son didn't want to go for a medical exam. Me: You can't go to kindergarten without a physical examination, you can't be an astronaut without going to kindergarten, and you can't be a firefighter.

Baby: I don't want anything when I am: then what are you going to be a baby: I will be myself

We are often labeled with a lot of labels: you are a girl and you have to wear a skirt, you are a woman, you have to do housework.

If you are a mother, you must be responsible for taking care of the children. But the children say that everyone has the right to choose for themselves.

About study and assignments

@kathy

Nephew: Other students can play games on weekends, but I can't.

Me: It's okay, you work hard now, you can play games any way you want when you grow up.

Nephew: But when I grow up, I don't like to play with that.

@Anon

The child shouted out his heart in the composition: homework, homework, please don't force me.

I really don't want to be friends with you. The day I'll do it, the day I write it, we'll be good friends.

@Music Heals Everything Second Grade Cousin wrote in the book: "Growth is more important than grades. ”

Learning is not just in the classroom, play is also a kind of learning. More importantly, "growth is more important than achievement".

In fact, they know everything

@ Wang Baisha - "Why do you think adults beat you" - "Sometimes adults can't handle their emotions and have to beat me." ”

@Teenage Meme

My little cousin, who was more than three weeks old, couldn't take care of him because of cancer chemotherapy, and sent it to my house for my mother to bring.

Usually very naughty and very sensitive, the slightest dislike he will cry his nose. Today asked him who he loved, he said Mom, Dad, Sister, Aunt (my mom)... Listed many people he loved.

Then he said coldly, "I will tell myself that I am strong."

When I collected these fairy tales that shone with wisdom, I couldn't help but think that potatoes and tomatoes often said something that surprised me, and in that instant, I worshipped them in my heart.

I believe that many babies are also like this, they have intentionally or unintentionally, let us sigh: Is this baby a sperm?!

There are sparkling places in each child, and these auras are very naughty and only for the people who love them the most.

Today's article is to remind myself, but also to remind the same old mothers as me, although online classes, homework, tutoring classes... Let the parent-child relationship often face a rupture, we may often fall into doubt, in the end of the child is not biological, why does not inherit our IQ at all.

But in fact, at least on some issues, the babies are far more transparent than we are.

Occasionally try to crouch down and follow their line of sight to see the world, believing that we will all have something new to gain.

Hello, I am Li Diandian, 5-year-old daughter tomato, 9-year-old son potato ma ma, good at using comics and text to record the daily life of the second child chicken flying dog jump, sharing hard-core learning resources and reliable, in-depth parenting dry goods.