After watching the recent photos of Du Jiang's son, netizens have sighed: the impact of the environment on children is really too great
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What kind of environment makes what kind of children
I believe that many viewers who have watched "Daddy is Back"
You will be attracted to the little boy inside who is milky and milky
From time to time, he would say something sweet about protecting his mother's little knight, and he was really impressed
In 15 years, Du Jiang took his son to participate in this variety show of "Daddy is Back"
What I never expected was that he actually became a hit
Therefore, it has also gained a lot of fans, and has also won the title of a big warm man
His super gentle and caring behavior has made countless people marvel at his parents' education
With the passage of time, the little boy has stopped milking
Became a little man
Some time ago, I saw Du Jiang sharing a photo of his son on Weibo
He looked up at the sky, and was simply a melancholy little prince
And Du Jiang also blindly ridiculed his son that he was really getting more and more handsome
There is even a bit of Li Xian's temperament
It seems that the name of "Xiao Li Xian" has been confirmed
Many netizens also commented below: Your son is like Li Xian, it really shouldn't be
Having said that, netizens with hearts still compare the photos of Li Xian and En Hum
Sure enough, as Du Jiang said, there was indeed some similarity between the eyebrows
Hum's parents seem to be more approachable, gentle and amiable
And he inherited all the excellent genes of his parents
The facial features are soft and look very cute
But the eyes revealed the melancholy and delicacy like a prince
It's almost too similar to Li Xian on the big screen
From this point of view, the genes of parents still have a great influence on children
But what kind of person a child will become is also closely related to the environment in which he grows up
Although Hum's parents are now big stars, they have slowly grown up from the identity of ordinary people
Their kindness is precipitated by a long period of hard work
Hum is different, he has been a melancholy prince in the minds of many people since he was one year old
As I get older, I have also received a lot of attention
His parents brought him to the big screen very early
The purpose is to let the son grow up under the expectations of many netizens
Children grow and change in such an environment
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Different environments have different effects on people
In fact, the psychological feelings brought by different environments to children are also different
Most of them accumulate to see results
Speaking of changes, in fact, there is no big change in Hum
It's just that his parents put him in this big environment
Often contact with some stars, there is a shadow in the camera
It's not that this is bad, it's just that everyone is adapting to their environment
And Hum is exactly like this, from the previous timidity, to the current fish
There are more or less obvious changes before and after
For example, Yangzi's son Andy
When he was born, he lived under the care of his grandmother
Rarely enjoy the love of parents
As a result, when he ranked his family, his parents were at the bottom
There is a variety show of "Mom is Superman", all mothers are superhuman in the minds of children
And only Yang Di's mother, it was not him who was protecting him in her arms
Mom didn't know what she liked or what hobbies she had
What kind of dreams there are, these are not understood
Perhaps in the eyes of others, he was always well-behaved, sensible, and never troublemaker
Study hard like other children and love your parents
But in his mother's eyes, he was too sensible, and he was a little distressed
How can there be a child who does not love his parents?
It's just that no matter how hard you try, the result is unsatisfactory
Over time, I was immersed in this frustration
When it is serious, it even brings a lot of psychological shadow
So in Andy's mind, are the parents really in the last place?
In fact, he just didn't dare
Because he was afraid that in his mother's heart, he was also at the bottom of the list
So I dare not express it bluntly
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What kind of person you want your child to be should create what kind of environment for him
People who have watched this variety show are more impressed by Hmmm, Da Linzi and Andy
These three children look like the big linzi is even more envied by many people
Du Jiang's way of education is to let children express their love
Therefore, whether it is a parent or a child, they will always put love on their lips
As a result, Hum has learned the essence at a very young age
The usual sweet words coaxed my mother into obedience
I vowed to be nice to my mother when I grew up
However, most of the performance is just lip service
But in real life, I don't care much about my mother
Andy is the complete opposite of Hum, and Andy has not taken much care of her mother since she was a child
Being able to express your love in the face is a difficult thing
Although he usually thinks about everything for his parents, he is also very well-behaved and sensible
In life, there is basically no need for parents to worry too much
But the mouth has never expressed love for parents
Both of these lifestyles actually have some problems
On the contrary, Deng Sha's education of Da Linzi is more scientific
She pays more attention to getting children to give action
For example, in the expression of love, she only teaches: the sense of ceremony
On her son's birthday she threw a birthday party for her son
Let the son invite a lot of important friends
At the party he said to his mother, "You've worked hard."
Seeing that Da Linzi was so sensible, Grandma shed tears of joy
This meticulous affection of the family radiates love everywhere
So love is not just an expression, but it needs to be transmitted
Not only that, but Dunsa also taught her son to care for animals
He often took his son to feed some stray animals
She wants her son to know that the words of love should be translated into action
Help some people in need, care for the weak
Under the careful teaching of her mother, Da Lin Zi can take care of her mother when she is sick
When she is vulnerable, she will give her mother a warm embrace
Therefore, for children, their nature is nurtured
This is inseparable from the careful teaching of parents
What kind of person you want your children to be, you should be what kind of parents you should be
The last thing you should bury under the wrong guidance is the talent of your child
It should be taught reasonably that the child will become sunny
Blooms with a unique glow
The growth of children is the transmission of genes and genes, and it is also imperceptibly in the environment of growth
In ancient times, there was a story of "Mengmu's three migrations"
It can be seen that the growth environment plays a great role in a person's growth
First of all, parents must set an example for their children
Children will grow better and better