Since the full opening of the two-child policy, the topic of this aspect has been hotly discussed, whether it is WeChat group chat, or the daily chat of housewives, or even modern ethical TV series, all of which are inseparable from this topic.
Some families have good conditions, and most of them choose to have a second child. However, some of them were urged by the elderly in the family to have a second child.
But I didn't expect that in the end, these old people who urged young couples to have a second child regretted it!
After reading their conversation, it was really heartfelt.
@ Grandma Xiaobei: When we were young, we all hoped to have more children, and the more children there were, the more lively we were. But later, it was okay to bring one, and two children to bring together, it was really a bit too laborious.
In fact, all the regrets of the elderly, in addition to being too tired with children, there is also a very important reason that the educational concepts of the two generations are too different, and it is easy to disagree on how to teach children.
The old people thought to themselves, I have worked hard to help you with your children, and you still feel this and that. Young people feel that raising children requires following their own principles.
Husband and wife have several children, how to teach, how to raise, should be decided by two people through consultation, others are best not to interfere.
Therefore, those who have not yet urged their sons and daughters-in-law to have a second child should stop interfering in the affairs between husband and wife, and should have their own life after retirement.
There are also young couples, no matter how many children they have, they are all your own, have the obligation to raise, and should not be busy with their own hands and throw their children to the elderly.
Since you have brought it to others, don't complain that others have brought it badly. If you're really busy at work, get a professional and reliable babysitter back.