Many children's nightmares from an early age are nothing more than "neighbor's children", but since the two-child policy, this "neighbor's child" is likely to be in their own home. This is not, the two treasures in the family, it is inevitable that they will compare, do not know, this comparison, the heart is really inexplicably anxious.
Souvenir photo of the younger brother when he was 1 year old VS sister
When she was 11 months old, my sister would be gone
Erbao is now 1 year old, but don't say stand up, climbing is just recently met. To add, the little guy's posture of getting up is quite ugly, the head is like a jack, desperately moving forward to pupate, really seeing it is ugly.
However, when the eldest girl was old in November, it seemed that she was going to eat Chinese New Year's Eve meal that new year, and her grandmother was cleaning up in the house and preparing for the New Year. Because I had just put my eldest granddaughter to sleep, I didn't care, but I turned around and found that a small figure appeared at the door of the bedroom, carefully probing my head inside. This should be regarded as the glorious deeds of the little guy, because the mother became the first witness, and that year, Grandma and Dabao both had a good scenery.
When my sister was one year old, my grandfather gave me an Audi car
Grandpa's excitement passed, and he didn't send his brother anything
I don't know if Dad also wants to be the first to witness that the second treasure will go, and he is very persistent about the little guy learning to walk. However, the eldest granddaughter has been at home for too long recently, and the little temper is rubbing, and it is the age of the dog, and the patience of a good husband has also been worn out. After working hard for a little half a month, watching the end of the second treasure's grasping week, Grandpa looked like he opened it overnight, no longer obsessed with teaching the little guy to learn to go, and seemed to accept this fact in his heart, and the second treasure grew slower than the big treasure.
In fact, if it is the first child, the parents' mentality is still relatively peaceful. But there is a reference object around, the little idea in his heart is like a spring grass brushing out, sometimes staring at the baby wants to see through him, when does he have to keep up with his sister?
The younger brother who still stupidly wants to be held by an adult every day
Big treasure sister who can take out for a walk every day
No, today's incident completely maximized her emotions - Sister Dabao woke up her brother who was still sleeping, and the sister didn't want her brother to sleep, because she had told her before that sleep would grow.
In fact, it was not the first time that Dabao had made this move, and he thought that his sister was unintentional, so he had not paid attention to it. Today is the current of the little one who caught it with his own eyes, and there is no way for the baby to say why he did this.
Before struggling with how to correct Dabao's naïve idea, he seemed to have a feeling of empowerment, and it turned out that some of the things he had always valued were one-sided and superficial. There is time to consider the gap between the two children, why not have time to care about the psychological gap of Dabao?
So sometimes, when parents really can't think deeply, they always feel as if they can't do it anywhere.
Taking the focus of his attention away from Erbao's body, all of a sudden everything seemed to be solved again. Sure enough, many people have a lot of troubles that they add to themselves.
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