Wen | Jingma
Every Spring Festival, single men and women of the right age in the circle of friends begin to be irritable, because their parents are fancy to get married! I myself have gone through such a stage, and it is really uncomfortable.
Jingma's circle of friends also has friends in the north, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, but found that there is now a new type of parents, these new types of parents are very advanced, they have their own lives, but also allow children to live the life they want to live.
Whether the child wants to marry or not is the child's own will, and even the parents feel that marriage is originally a kind of system of wide entry and strict exit, marriage is very easy, but now divorce will set various thresholds, "divorce cooling-off period" is a big threshold, and one of them will be very troublesome if they do not agree.
They will even advise children to think clearly before getting married, and if they want to get married, it is best to live a good life.
Bingbing is a classmate of Jingma's previous nutrition studies, and we got along very well when we went to school, but she is much older than me, and her children have graduated from college this year, and they have talked about having a boyfriend, and the boyfriend has also brought home.
Bingbing is still relatively satisfied with her daughter's vision, and Bingbing herself works in the hospital, and has a deeper understanding of the matter of getting married and having children, and she also went to study psychology.
After her daughter fell in love, Bing Bing consciously took her daughter to three places.
The family has a daughter, and after the child is in love, the parents have to take the child to three places
The first place: the Civil Affairs Bureau
The first two days were 20220222 a good day, and there was a long queue at the marriage registration office of the Civil Affairs Bureau, but the divorce office was not a doorwifew, it was still lively.
There was a little girl sitting in the corridor of the Civil Affairs Bureau, and it turned out that the little girl's father and mother had come to divorce and brought her to the Civil Affairs Bureau together.
The little girl sat on a stool and watched the people coming and going, very dazed, and her parents' divorce made her feel helpless, so she kept cutting her fingers, which made people feel very distressed!
There is a high praise in the comment area, how many people in China are not divorced because of their children, at least one hundred million! I'm one of them.
That is to say, this little girl is only the tip of the iceberg, and there are many people behind the iceberg who want to divorce, but they are bent on perfection for the sake of their children.
So when you want to get married, calm down, then there will be fewer divorced people.
The second place: the hospital
Most of the places in the hospital are full of people with pain, numbness and sorrow, and only at the entrance of the hospital's obstetrics department are faces of joy and anticipation.
Because the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital is the place where newborns are born, the birth of these newborns will bring new hope to the family, but also bring warmth and smiles.
There is a saying that goes well, you marry a man or a ghost, and you will know it when you have a child.
For example, giving birth to a child hurts badly, and wants to hit it painlessly, but the husband is unwilling to sign it, afraid that hitting painless anesthesia will hurt the child, or feel that it will cost money.
Jing Jing was my high school classmate, she fell out with her husband and family on the day she gave birth, and when she gave birth, because the fetal head was too large, she couldn't give birth for a day and a night because of the pain.
The doctor suggested that she have a caesarean section, but the husband and mother-in-law did not sign it after discussing it, and they swore that the caesarean section was not good for her health.
But turning his head quietly, he heard the nurse secretly discussing, it turned out that the mother-in-law went to tell the doctor, my daughter-in-law is going to give birth to two in three years, and now the caesarean section will have to wait for two more years to have another one.
It turned out that the reason they didn't sign was to use her as a fertility tool, and JingJing's whole person collapsed in an instant.
Later, she also had a caesarean section, but after the confinement, Jing Jing moved back to her own home, and when the child was 5 months old, she resolutely filed for divorce with her husband.
For example, there are some fathers who prefer sons to daughters, the mother gives birth to a daughter in the first child, and the second child is still a daughter, maybe the mother has not come out, he turned away.
Or that after the child was born, he held the child with joy on his face and loved it, but his wife was still suturing in the delivery room but had forgotten.
The third place: the inpatient department
The inpatient department of the hospital is more inhabited by some elderly people, because the elderly will have various diseases, take the daughter to the inpatient department can see, after the old age is generally the old lady to take care of the grandfather, or the grandfather to take care of the old lady more.
And when the old lady takes care of the old lady, what kind of attitude and what kind of method is it, and how does the old lady take care of the old lady?
Generally speaking, women live longer than men, and the body will be healthier in old age, so most of the time it is the old lady who takes care of the grandfather, because the old lady often does housework, the hands and feet are more numb, and the attitude will be better when taking care of it.
Marriage is a sacred thing, but also a thing that will change the fate of women, and it is better to be cautious.
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