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In the TV series "The World", what I sympathize with the most is Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun, this little couple.
Although there are brothers and sisters in the family, this family has always been able to maintain itself, relying on Zhou Bingkun's small husband and wife.
Before his mother's accident, there was no one in the family who could accept Zheng Juan's widowhood, and her feelings for Zhou Bingkun could only be terminated.
Because of the accident of her daughter Zhou Rong, Zhou Bingkun's mother suffered a stroke and was comatose, and the family suddenly fell into trouble, and Zhou Bingkun could only carry it alone, without any helpers around.
The father is far away from Sichuan work, the eldest brother Zhou Bingyi and sister-in-law, also working in the field, do not take care of anything at home, sister Zhou Rong and brother-in-law, originally working in the field, there is no way to reduce any burden on the family, but because of them, but also to the family to make it worse.
Zhou Bingkun's mother would suddenly faint because she heard the news of her daughter's son-in-law's accident.
Zhou Rong's greatest contribution to the family is that when the family is messed up into a pot of porridge, she also throws her daughter to her brother to take care of.
Zhou Bingkun has to go to work during the day, take care of his mother who is paralyzed in bed at night, and take care of a child.
It was at the most difficult time for Zhou Bingkun that Zheng Juan appeared, and she appeared at Zhou Bingkun's house with her invisible brother and her own child.
Helping him with housework, helping him take care of his niece, and helping him take care of his mother who was paralyzed in bed, insisting on giving her a massage every day became Zheng Juan's daily routine.
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It can be said that the older brother and sister were finally able to be admitted to Peking University with peace of mind, and the mother was able to wake up in a coma after two and a half years, and the biggest contributors behind this were Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun.
There is a detail in the TV, after Zhou Bingkun's mother was in a coma for half a year, Zhou Bingkun's father finally learned the news, he went home and saw Zheng Juan's hands that were handling housework.
What a pair of hands, weathered by the wind and frost, the back of the hand is rough, the palms of the hands are full of cocoons, and there is no trace of the delicacy of a woman.
Because Zheng Juan has been helping Zhou Bingkun's mother massage for many years, she has not had pressure sores in the years of paralysis, her body is clean, there is no smell, and her face is rosy, and Zheng Juan has taken good care of her.
Zhou Bingkun's father completely changed his mind about Zheng Juan, and he completely accepted the marriage of the two people, even if he knew that Zheng Juan was a widow, his child was not Zhou Bingkun's.
Zheng Juan's own happiness, but this road is too difficult to walk, and few women can bear it.
Before the two people officially married, Zheng Juan had been talked about by others in the light production, but she was grateful for Zhou Bingkun's help to herself in her most difficult time, and she was willing to repay her kindness in this way.
When her mother-in-law woke up from her coma, coupled with Alzheimer's disease, she was sometimes awake and sometimes not awake, and the person she relied on most was Zheng Juan, who took care of her for many years.
Her biological daughter is a graduate student at Peking University, her eldest son is studying in Beijing, and no one has to take on the responsibility of taking care of her mother, and Zheng Juan has carried it.
It can be said that in this TV series, how great Zheng Juan is, you can set off how selfish Zhou Rong is.
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For the so-called love, she ran to the mountains of Guizhou alone, completely ignoring the feelings of her parents, and later her mother cried and became blind because of Zhou Rong's departure.
The one who has been taking care of her mother is Zhou Bingkun, and later Zheng Juan.
When her husband had an accident, she once again chose to abandon her children, follow her husband, and throw her young children to her brother to take care of, completely without considering the lives of others.
Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan have been married for three or four years, and they have always had to run a big family, take care of their children, and take care of their mother-in-law, and they dare not want their own children at all.
My sister and brother are both studying at Peking University, and they both enjoy the envy and praise given by others, but they have never thought that they can be righteous, they can be carefree, because they have to bear everything, someone is helping them bear.
After Zheng Juan paid so much for her mother-in-law, when her mother-in-law was awake, looking at her daughter Zhou Rong, who was sleeping next to her, the old lady came out of the cabinet and turned out her beautiful and neatly woven red sweater, and it was several pieces.
The old lady said: "When my daughter was a child, she always wanted a red sweater, but at that time, the family was not rich, and her mother had no way to satisfy Zhou Rong, and now that the family is rich, her mother can finally meet her daughter's wishes." ”
Seeing the old lady's heart and gentleness towards her daughter, many netizens are unfair to Zheng Juanming, obviously in this family, the most paid is the two of them, ming daughter-in-law Zheng Juan is better than her daughter Zhou Rong, but the old lady is still worried about her daughter in the end.
The old lady's difference between her daughter and daughter-in-law reveals the truth of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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In marriage, a woman should not try to think of her mother-in-law as your own mother-in-law, because she is really not your mother,her own daughter is her own daughter.
No matter how well the daughter-in-law does, what the mother-in-law likes in her heart is still her own daughter.
Of course, this is the audience complaining for Zheng Juan, and in Zheng Juan's position, she has no such likeness to her mother-in-law.
Whether it is to Zhou Bingkun or to her mother-in-law, zheng juan is full of gratitude.
She feels that her happy life today is given by this family, and the only thing she can do is to do her duty, do her duty as a wife, do her duty as a daughter-in-law, guard the happiness of this family, and inherit the happiness of this family.
After all, in that era, widows with oil bottles were really too difficult.
Fortunately, Zheng Juan met Zhou Bingkun, who had a solid eye, and they supported them together to help the family through the most difficult period.
Sometimes, women in marriage, really have to be smarter, although many things are seen through, but there is no need to say broken, because when the truth is naked and torn apart, no one's face can hang.
Mother-in-law's own daughter, and to their own daughter-in-law, completely different mentality, this is also the common sentiment of people, after all, they are born, there is blood relations, or different.
In marriage, the most important thing for women is to learn to grasp their own man, learn to include men in your same camp, rather than pushing men to the side of your mother-in-law, and you who were originally husband and wife have become a hostile state.
The focus of a woman in marriage should still be her husband, not her mother-in-law, and it is enough to grasp the man's heart.