After 30 years old, I still want to pursue a marriage ideal, rather than indiscriminate, that is too naïve. Internet celebrity professor Dai Jianye said: "If, after you are 30 years old, you still want to pursue a kind of "marriage theory."

After 30 years old, I still want to pursue a marriage ideal, rather than indiscriminate, that is too naïve.

Internet celebrity professor Dai Jianye said: "If, after you are 30 years old, you still want to pursue a kind of marriage ideal, rather than indiscriminate, it is simply an authentic wishful thinking. What is called "ideal marriage", my wife and I also met through blind dates, and in the years before marriage, we quarreled every day, and even once, we also moved. The main reason for the quarrel is that my wife and I come from different life backgrounds, the taste of eating is different, I like to be light, she likes to be spicy, and often quarrels because of such small things.

There seems to be no ideal marriage in the world, and the relationship between husband and wife who raise their eyebrows and respect each other seems to only appear in novels. A man and a woman, after falling in love, enter marriage together, giving love a landing platform and carrier. From the day of marriage, it means that two people will play the symphony of pots and pans together and live the ordinary life of chai rice oil and salt together.

People from two different families, living habits taste each other, etc. all kinds of things need time to run into. Marriage, on the other hand, is about dressing, eating, and counting money to live your life. Not just two people, but also parents, relatives, children on both sides, and children.

Every day, I leave early and return late, busy, to work, to live, to take care of my children, and to take care of my parents. All kinds of messy chores are intertwined, accompanied by pots and pans playing a symphony of life. Every day living under one roof, the spoon touching the edge of the pot, either this thing or that thing, two people will quarrel. The noise was red-faced, the noise was urgent, and the fight was big.

Marriage and love are different, when in love, two people only need to be in love, two wishes, you love me, I love you, interpret what is love every day, talk about love every day, meet a face, eat a meal. Except for small expenses, it is basically less about money and worldliness.

After marriage, the ordinary days are trivial, the smell of fireworks is filled every day, and there is not much poetry and children's love. The economy is more tight, and two people no longer know how to operate and manage money, so they will be poor all day for money and trivial things. Yuan Shu said that he sincerely knows that this hatred is everyone has, and the poor and lowly couples are sad.

Ordinary couples quarrel, except for extramarital affairs, there is nothing earth-shattering, but every day they are burned by some trivial and rotten things, and their heads are dizzy. Originally thought that celebrities, do not worry about money, do not bend for five buckets of rice, marriage is not easy to ignite war.

But now it seems that in all marriages, there will always be this thing and that thing, a broken thing, a family that does not know the suffering of the family, and a family that has a difficult scripture to read.

For example, Dai Jianye, after becoming an Internet celebrity professor, his humorous and humorous interpretation of ancient Chinese poetry allowed him to harvest a large number of fans. So he went crazy about gold on the Internet. Someone sprayed him, losing the style and integrity of the literati.

Because his wife was sick and had cancer. He was determined not to be a qualified literati anymore, but only a qualified husband. He earned money to treat his wife. So he said, without a loving wife, what about losing the bones of a literati?