I'm 41 years old, divorced once, and have a 15-year-old son who is being raised by my ex-husband. After the divorce, I came to this strange city alone to work in finance for a small company. Although the work is not easy, the income is stable enough for me to live a simple life in the city.
I thought I would spend the rest of my life like this, until that day, I met him, a 28-year-old young man named Xiao Li. Xiao Li is a new salesman in the company, he is sunny, handsome, energetic, and always has a spirit of not admitting defeat. Although there is a huge difference in age, we unexpectedly fell in love, chatted and ate together, and slowly became friends who talked about everything.
Xiao Li takes very good care of me, both at work and in life. He was always there to help me when I needed help and made me feel the warmth I hadn't felt in a long time. Gradually, I developed a dependence and affection for him, and he showed obvious affection for me.
However, I know that our age gap is too great, and such feelings are destined not to be recognized by the world. I tried to reject him, telling him that we couldn't be together. But Xiao Li said to me firmly: "Auntie, I love you and don't care about your age and past. I only hope you can give me a chance to take care of you for the rest of my life. ”
I was touched by his sincerity and persistence, and I finally decided to face the relationship bravely. We started a sweet love life, and Xiao Li cared for me very much, which made me feel unprecedented happiness.
However, happiness is always short-lived. When we decided to get married, we were strongly opposed by Xiao Li's family. They thought I was too old to have children, and my past would also have a bad influence on Xiao Li. Xiao Li's family even threatened to break us off and tried to break us up.
In the face of his family's opposition, Xiao Li did not flinch. He stood firmly on my side and tried to convince his family to accept me. He proved with his actions that his love for me was genuine and not impulsive. Eventually, his family was so impressed by his persistence that they reluctantly agreed to our marriage.
In order to express his love for me, Xiao Li took out all his savings, 100,000 yuan, as a bride price to marry me home. He said: "Auntie, although I can't give you a luxurious wedding and an expensive diamond ring, I will make up for it with all my love and hard work. I will make you the happiest woman in the world. ”
Listening to his affectionate words, I was moved to tears. I knew that I had found the person who was willing to spend the rest of my life with me. Although our marriage was not blessed by our families, I believe that as long as we love each other, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and live a happy life.
After we got married, we had a very sweet life. Xiao Li was obedient to me, and we went shopping, watched movies, cooked, and chatted together. We have spent many unforgettable moments together, and every memory makes me feel extremely happy.
However, the happy life did not last long. Soon after we got married, Xiao Li began to frequently mention to me about having children. He said, "Auntie, we are now married, it's time to have a baby. I want a son who will inherit our love and happiness. ”
Hearing his words, I felt a little surprised and helpless. I know I'm past my best childbearing age and the chances of getting pregnant are slim. Also, I was worried that my physical condition would not be able to handle the stress of having children.
I tried to explain my concerns and concerns to him, but Li didn't listen. He always said: "Auntie, don't worry, now that medical technology is so advanced, we will definitely be able to give birth to a healthy baby." ”
Looking at his expectant eyes, I felt both distressed and helpless. I knew he wanted a baby, but I couldn't risk it to fulfill his wishes. I began to think about how to solve this problem so that Xiao Li could be satisfied and protect my body.
After some thought, I decided to have a frank conversation with Xiao Li. I told him about my concerns and concerns, as well as my plans for the future. I said, "Xiao Li, I am grateful for your love and concern for me. However, having a baby is a real risk for me. I hope we can enjoy the world of the two of us first, and then think about having children when the time comes. ”