I am a daughter, 31, I think I look good, after all, high school and college or class flowers, the family has brothers and sisters, will make money, plus my dad himself in business, the family is good, he 32,

I am a daughter, 31, I think I look good, after all, high school and college or class flowers, the family has brothers and sisters, will make money, plus my dad himself to do business, the family is good, he 32, his family in addition to his dad is doing carpentry, his mother has no job, there is a mentally retarded little sister in the family, the eldest sister has married, nothing to say, he does management at the construction site, 12,000 a month, is all the economic resources of his family, he has a 120 square house, in the mortgage, people look OK, is my mother said honestly.

We just got married in October last year, explained in advance, although I knew him for more than a year to get married, but I just can't have feelings for him, everyone said that he was honest, suitable for life, older, and his parents have always said that it was time to get married, and they got married, I was really bad at the time to agree to get married, only because I was old, I have been said to be old for a year and not as good as a year.

I have known him for a year and a half, every time I go out, I spend a cup of milk tea money, I don't send gifts on my birthday, I go out with my sister-in-law and children, it is also the money I spend, he has never been out, the only time he received a gift was on Valentine's Day, he and his friends went out to buy things, friends wanted to give his wife gifts, friends asked him to buy a chain to send me, he only bought, but I would buy something for him to eat from time to time and his mentally retarded sister. Because in our family' educational concepts are more generous. Anyway, he was very picky, and then my mother kept telling me that he was honest and wouldn't play too many tricks, and this kind of person was more realistic.

Then his mother has been urging to get married, my family conditions are better than his family, before marriage my mother said to buy a car for me as a dowry (because I work far away, it takes a long time to drive), his mother listened and said no, he has two cars at home (both 110,000 Ford, one bought for two years. The other one was given by his uncle, because he went to help his uncle work, the uncle saw his family's general situation before sending the estimate), said his sister's car for me to drive, and then close to marriage, changed his mouth to say that his family paid 60,000 down payment to buy a car, we slowly mortgaged after marriage, Then later said 68,000 dowry, as the down payment of the car, my mother listened to the time was very angry, my family did not say not to buy a car, why a play a drama such a pendulum, if it is 6.8 the dowry is all collected as a down payment, outsiders do not know, but also think that our family is very greedy to collect all the dowry did not return a part, to collect half, and afraid that we have too much mortgage pressure after marriage, and finally my mother said that the car our family out, after what happened will not say that our family was greedy for money and the like.

Well, got married, my mother's side came out with 120,000 cars, 12,000 dowries, 40,000 gold, and 8,000 for him, and then his family gave 6.8 dowry, my mother received 4, and 60,000 gold.

Before marriage, he said that he would live by himself when he got married, and on the day of receiving his relatives, he promised to give me a family after marriage in front of his friends and my parents (emphasis). Less than half a month after getting married, his mother came to live and said that his sister's house was renovated upstairs in us and wanted to help, just live for a while. On the day of their wedding, he gave me 5,000, part of which was a casual gift from the introducer, and 2,000 was a random gift from his company, and the rest was some bits and pieces of money. Then when we returned to our mother's house, we had already wrapped more than two thousand red envelopes for the children, and there were some buyers who had things, food, and refueling, and there was not much left. I never gave me a penny again. My mom kept asking him if he had given it to the family, and I said no. Then I asked him why he hadn't given it yet, and he said why should he give it to me, and my salary was enough for me to refuel every month to buy cosmetics and clothes to spend? He said he paid 1.2, 0.5 house mortgage, 0.5 for his mother, the remaining 0.2 he spent every month, plus I had been sleeping badly, asked him to buy medicine and come back to eat he did not care a word, he did not do a housework, their family said to marry me is to let me work, anyway, that moment my emotions broke out.

During the fight, I asked him what was the point of me marrying him, eating, drinking and dressing on my own, and having to do housework, and his mother came to live with him without saying a word, (I was scared by his mother's sudden appearance when I came home from work), I was worse than a nanny. Then he said he didn't promise my parents to give me a family after they got married, and my parents were talking? And marrying me is to work, his family buys a house to decorate what does not need money??? (He had lived in the house for two years before he didn't know me), and then he opened his mouth and closed his mouth to my mother, my mother, and at that moment I found out that I was married to a mother!!!

And he can't have sex, I don't want to have children, let him wear a condom, he's done in a minute, several times, I'm not interested, and then sleep and grind my teeth and drool, and there is no premarital medical examination, I really doubt that he has any disease.

Because of the quarrel for two or three weeks, I have ignored him, he did not speak first, maybe then he couldn't help it, he called his parents to come over, to come and give me a tiger, I was locked in the room and did not go out, he called the introducer to say that he wanted to solve, was scolded by the introducer, and then his mother saw no follow-up, he left, or later I went out to talk to him to end the cold war. Then after this incident, he didn't have a family, and he didn't count, anyway, I took care of my own life, I didn't do much housework, and it wasn't my house, what did I worry about.

Because I could see that he was a mother treasure man, he was still cutting, and he didn't care about people, so I was cold to him later, and I didn't buy anything for his family, because you spent money and others didn't necessarily have a good word. It's like my mom gave me a microwave oven, a whole set of bowls, and was disgusted by my mother and said that it was not easy to use.

Suddenly one day, I found that the pots and pans at home were always gradually decreasing, and finally there were some dishes and chopsticks left, which was very unusual, and my mother said that it was difficult to understand, and the dishes and chopsticks that had been used for three or four years had to be taken back to the old home, and then from time to time, everything in the family was taken away. The introducer said that it may be because his mother did not want the mother's family to come to dinner, because when I got married, my brother and my sister-in-law came to have a meal, and he said to the introducer that he did not like the people of the mother's family to come and make the whole house smoke miasma??? My sister also bought a lot of things for us at that time, why didn't he necessarily say he didn't like it??

@He and she and him,

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