On the day of the college entrance examination, is it necessary for children to wear matching robes and parents to wear four-color cheongsam?

Ning Ma Wuyu

2024-05-24 12:30Posted in Shandong Parenting Creators

Text: Ning Ma Wuyu

The college entrance examination is approaching, and as soon as you open the social software, a lot of college entrance examination information flocks in. I see many parents in the third year of high school recording their feelings and expressing their blessings to their children, but there are two diametrically opposed practices.

A parent said: The countdown to the college entrance examination, the cheongsam has been bought, the mothers wear the cheongsam to send the exam, please the good fortune, the college entrance examination life is only once, and the sense of ritual that should be there is still to be there. College Entrance Examination = Strength + Mentality + Luck.

A parent said: Sunflowers were not planted, cheongsams were not bought, Wutai Mountain was not visited, you traveled lightly, I put my mind at ease, silently guarded, and played normally.

A parent said: I prepared a matching suit for my son, learning can not help, he can only fight on the battlefield without gunsmoke, what I can do is a small sense of ceremony, to thank such a special day, I hope that the child will be possessed by God, good luck, and extraordinary performance.

A parent said: Parents in the third year of high school did not prepare a robe for their children, nor did they prepare cheongsam, hoping that their children would travel lightly.

Clearly, there is a clear distinction between the two types of parents.

The first type of parents pay special attention to the sense of ceremony, buy matching robes for their children, and buy cheongsams for themselves, so that the day of the college entrance examination becomes unique and extraordinarily grand.

The right number of clothes means "the answer is right".

Cheongsam also has different colors:

Wear red on the first day, the flag is victorious, and the start is good.

Wear green the next day and have a green light all the way.

On the third day, wear black and kill the dark horse.

On the fourth day, he wore yellow, and the title of the gold list was inscribed.

It's really too hard.

The second type of parents do not prepare anything, and just want their children to treat the college entrance examination with a normal heart.

I'm this kind of parent, I don't know much about other people's living conditions, as far as I'm concerned, I'm usually bigger, and I don't like to buy clothes or dress up.

If you suddenly wear a cheongsam on the day of the college entrance examination, you will feel uncomfortable, as if you are surrounded by eyes, and the child will look awkward. This is a typical spotlight effect, taking yourself too seriously, overestimating other people's attention to you, and magnifying the problem infinitely, in fact, not many people gather their eyes.

If it is this state of mind, it is better to use the usual plain clothes, so that the child feels that there is no difference between the college entrance examination and the usual exam, there is no abnormal feeling, and it is treated normally.

There is no right or wrong way for the two types of parents to do different things.

Seeing someone comment that wearing a cheongsam is a show, I don't think it's necessary to go online. I don't wear a cheongsam, and I can fully understand the feelings of parents who wear cheongsam.

Parents of our age, many of them have been blessed and could not wear cheongsam. In order to be able to wear a cheongsam, it takes a long time to work hard, run, lose weight, and finally be able to wear a cheongsam. This experience of self-discipline and the attitude of loving beauty will also bring positive power to children.

Parents will look pleasing to the eye when they wear clothes that represent beautiful meanings, and their hearts will naturally feel comfortable because they are complete and down-to-earth. Psychologically speaking, good emotions will be transferred to the child, and the child will be in a good mood, have a good state, and leave no regrets in the examination room.

Of course, as for whether you can improve your performance because of this, the most important thing is to look at three years of hard work and real strength.

Everyone has a different way of expressing their blessings, but the important thing is to follow your heart and do what you think is important to do. Don't follow trends, don't be superstitious, don't put pressure on your children.

There are many parents who usually have a special sense of ceremony, wear parent-child clothes when they go out, eat different foods and take exquisite family photos during the holidays, hold a grand ceremony in a special place when their children celebrate their birthdays, arrange their homes auspiciously and smoothly when their children take exams, and write a letter full of affection when their children graduate. The ritual habits that have been cultivated for a long time will naturally not let go when encountering the college entrance examination.

However, if you don't think how important it is to wear a cheongsam, but because you see the business's propaganda or hear the remarks that the clothes have any miracles, because others wear the herd mentality that you don't wear it, and follow the trend to wear it, and even do something ridiculous, so as to let the child leap into the dragon gate, then it is an exaggeration, and there is no need.

Be the most comfortable version of yourself, keep a sober judgment, and don't be kidnapped by businesses and public opinion!

Although I don't wear cheongsam, I do send blessings to my children. After the whole exam, sunflowers will be given, which means "winning the championship in one fell swoop", and at the end, it is a surprise for the child, which means the end of the exam, and there is no pressure.

When my child was taking the high school entrance examination, I bought sunflowers and lilies, which have harmonious colors and strong fragrances, and I am very relaxed to see and smell. Once, on a snowy day, when my child went to take the last of an important exam, I found a flower shop in the ice and snow, bought a sunflower, carefully wrapped it in antifreeze protective film, and took it to pick up the child, and I felt a sense of fulfillment and fulfillment in my heart.

Therefore, no matter which way you bless, as long as you have peace of mind, it is the best way.

I respect the practice of parents wearing cheongsam, but I do not approve of preparing clothes for children with the right size, and it is still necessary to proceed from reality in order to ensure that children can go smoothly in the college entrance examination.

In fact, many schools require children to wear school uniforms, which are neat and uniform, and they don't need to buy clothes with the right number, so they don't have to waste this money.

Many provinces require that children's clothes cannot have a large area of logo and text, so the simpler the better, who dares to say that the right number of clothes is not restricted? It is still the safest school uniform.

The college entrance examination has to go through a security check, and if there is metal on the clothes, you will not be able to pass. It is impossible to bring a few pieces of clothing into the examination room for the college entrance examination, and if you wear new clothes with metal on them, you can't change them, and the school uniform is the most guaranteed.

When it comes to metals, there are a few more important points to note.

Pants should be worn with elastic bands, not with belts, to prevent the belt buckle metal, school uniform pants are elastic bands, you can wear school uniform pants directly.

Shoes should be shoe-fastened or laced, without any metal buttons.

Girls should wear underwear without underwires to avoid problems that cannot be explained and delay the exam.

Some test rooms will turn on the air conditioning, and if you feel cold by wearing only short sleeves, you can bring a school uniform jacket or sunscreen clothing without any logo, and wear it when it is cold to avoid catching a cold.

Therefore, when preparing a college entrance examination shirt for a child, you must not only consider the meaning, but also consider the ability to enter the examination room smoothly and take the exam smoothly.

Written at the end: On the day of the college entrance examination, is it necessary for children to wear matching robes and parents to wear four-color cheongsam? I don't think it's necessary to wear the right clothes, just wear a school uniform. Cheongsam is not necessary, parents can wear it if they like, don't follow the trend if they don't like it, the most important thing is to be happy and comfortable. Relative to what clothes to wear, it is most important for parents to have a good mood and send their children to the examination room happily.

I'm @Ning Ma Wuyu

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