Today, I cleared things and found the account book for the sister-in-law to pay off the account, and before every month, I would put it fixed and turned it out, and when the account was paid off, it would not be managed.
Suddenly turned to still very emotional, at that time just married and pregnant, the landlord for three consecutive years 300 rent increases, forced to buy a house. The wedding gift deposit plus the husband's hand has seventy or eighty thousand, the mother-in-law made up fifty or sixty thousand (I don't remember the specifics), the sister-in-law borrowed more than 100,000, looking for my father to borrow 50,000, looking for his classmates to borrow 100,000, and made a down payment. Then he found a decoration company to borrow 100,000 yuan for decoration, and the home was empty.
Decoration of the wall shovel wall yard bricks is my parents brought my brother over for seven or eight days, pulling the ash and dumping the garbage is also me and the child's father a car with the downstairs garbage can to drag down. (The mother-in-law stuck in time to run out of the tour, the advantage is to avoid many people to make decisions and contradictory)
As soon as it was installed, it was rented and moved in, and the new house was afraid of formaldehyde pollution, so my children and I went back to my mother's house for half a year.
The order of repayment is the decoration company (deducted every month) synchronous classmates, the students are promised to pay off in two years, the result is not enough to get together and find a sister-in-law to borrow money. He paid back 15,000 to his classmates and 150,000 to his sister-in-law.
Then it began a long repayment road, I did not like to carry debts, forced the child's father to pay back if he had money, in the middle I had the opportunity to work, a little bit of capital to get together, thinking of paying it off quickly.
The child's father always had to keep money, as if every quarrel in those years was a quarrel for money. He was also forced to manage a monthly credit card for a month, I also did not buy clothes for several years, the children's supplies are picked up by the aunt children, the eldest to 4 years old more than the clothes, the shoes are not suitable, now they are walking in the eight plates of feet, that is, learning these years of dance has not been corrected [tears].
In order to save money, the eldest was dragged to the kindergarten at the age of four and a half, and I took the child back to my mother's house for a year and a half (less than three thousand a semester, and now my sister has nearly ten thousand a semester).
Recorded in this way, my parents, including my uncles and aunts, also gave great support and help at that time, and it was almost ten years, and I almost forgot.
How fortunate to be close to my mother's house in those years.
The money owed to my parents was also fixed after paying off my sister-in-law's money, and it was almost at the end of 20 years, ready to give to my father. Mom said to let save first, and then they will give it again when they are old, and the result is that they did not explain this clearly in front of their father. This gave us a later fallout, and Dad still hates me for burying Thunder, alas! The debt must be repaid quickly, alas 😔, this year will definitely pay off my father's fifty thousand, I am not qualified and should not fight with my parents.
I hope that parents and brothers and sisters will have a safe and smooth year this year [Prayer]
Parental kindness is like the depth of the sea, and life should not forget the grace of parents;
Brothers are born of the same root, and Mo argues over small things;
The cycle of childbearing, passed down from generation to generation;
Brotherhood is precious, and everything is remembered by flesh and blood;
Be filial to the children of man, and those who are not filial are guilty of deep sins;
Life is rare brotherly love, and working together becomes gold.
