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Zhou's father in "The World of Man" retired and returned home, shocked to see the Guoqing family living in his old house.
In addition to surprise, there is anger. For so many years, the old knot has taken revenge on his father, such a big happy event, no one in the family has told him that he, the old man who is the elder, has lost face and dignity in front of the juniors.
Father Zhou really couldn't wait for the children to pick her up and take her back to Bingkun's new home, so he let Guoqing send himself over, and he smoked one cigarette after another in the bedroom of the old knot, and he was angry.
Why didn't Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong tell Father Zhou about this? I think it is due to human nature, because Bingkun now earns more money than they all, so Both Bingyi and Zhou Rong feel that although they have face, they cannot give their father Kun real life support.
Bingyi lives in her mother-in-law's house, and although Zhou Rong is an associate professor, she only has one house, and even her daughter can't take her back. Therefore, they will not take the initiative to tell their father about Bingkun buying a new house.
Let's review the poking heart of Zhou Father and Bingkun's two quarrels, which confirms Zhu Ziqing's description of his father's feelings in "Back Shadow": he is touched by the eyes and sad, and naturally cannot love himself. In the middle, it is natural to be outside; family trifles often touch his anger. He treated me differently. But in the past two years, he has finally forgotten my bad, just thinking about me, thinking about my son.
This is the way father and son get along in our lives, often there are words that are reluctant to say, but when they reveal their hearts, they are often "words do not speculate more than half a sentence", which becomes the fuse of resentment and revenge between each other.
In life, many fathers and sons get along like this, opening their mouths is like quarrelling, or where it hurts, where it is weak, where the negative pokes, it seems that the other party is not their own son, but the enemy.
The Zhou family father and son quarreled at the train station for the first time
The Zhou family has not been reunited for the New Year in 9 years since 1969. It was hard for everyone to get together for the New Year, and the eldest son and daughter both became college students, and the son-in-law was rehabilitated and had a house and a job in Beijing.
Father Zhou is very happy, has face, as an ordinary person, there are two college students in the family, the parents must come out to show off with the neighbors, and there is also the daughter-in-law of a provincial governor's daughter and the son-in-law of a famous poet in Beijing.
Father Zhou's inner thoughts are the normal thinking of most ordinary people at the bottom, and if so much glory in the family is not taken out to show off, how can this year be passed?
However, Father Zhou forgot to think for the old pimple Bingkun and his wife, they are the great benefactors of Father Zhou's current situation. During Zhou's mother's illness, Bingkun alone carried all the burdens; later, when Bingkun went to prison, it was Zheng Juan who carried everything alone, and also used her own massage to save Zhou's mother.
When Zhou's father knew that Zheng Juan was pregnant, he did not take special care of her, busy making a large family's Chinese New Year's Eve meal, making dumplings, cleaning up the house, which was Zheng Juan's busy, and the two children of the Zhou family accompanied their parents.
The filial piety of son-in-law Feng Huacheng's so-called "raising the mouth" and "cultivating the mind" is just a fig leaf for their literati to deceive themselves. We people pay attention to treating each other sincerely, rather than saying nice things.
But this is how parents treat their children, and those who bear hardships and stand hard work are not as good as filial piety that can speak well. Often there is not much in the family, and the thick and honest children are the most unpopular with their parents.
Although Father Zhou didn't say that in his mouth, he told Bingkun with his own actions that his father just didn't look up to him, thinking that he was the most unproductive child in the family, and he was only worthy of taking care of people at home.
What made Bingkun most chilling was that when the train left, Zhou's father's reprimand, like a time bomb, blew Bingkun's poor self-esteem to pieces, and also completely chilled the old knotty heart, thinking that he must make some achievements, let his father see, he can also make his parents happy and have a face.
Father Zhou said: Saying that your mother who has cerebral thrombosis sequelae, with your sister's children, and raising other people's sons, is the step your father gave you! Even without these drags, on your grades, year after year, can you get into college?
Zhou's father felt that Bingkun was jealous of his brother and sister going to college, and complained that his mother was dragging him down. But is that really the case? No, but Bingkun only wants to get the approval of his parents and recognize his and Zheng Juan's efforts.
Perhaps, this is the most tragic thing in the world, it seems that the years are quiet, a warm and peaceful look of stability in this world, but someone carries the weight for you.
Bingkun's saddest thing is not the sad days of himself and Zheng Juan, but no matter how hard they try, his father only has children in the family in his eyes, and ignores their self-esteem.
The second time the father and son of the Zhou family quarreled, Bingkun said how many voices of human children
Father Zhou finally retired, suffered for several years, and did not wait for the letter of the beloved old knot, and his heart was infinitely desolate.
Back at home after a long absence, seeing that others lived in it, none of his three children wrote to tell him about this matter, as an old man, it is indeed a loss of dignity that feels humiliated and not valued by their children.
Zhou's father finally waited for his son to return in the middle of the night, and he waited for his son to apologize to himself first, but he did not expect that his son was still so grumpy.
In the end, it was Zhou's father who compromised and sent out the grievances and his own faults that he had accumulated in his heart to his son. Bingkun said, you are a father, have you considered my feelings? The same father and mother were born and raised, and I did not show up the most, I just wanted to make you and my mother satisfied. But what about you? Sprinkle salt on the wound and poke you where it hurts.
Father Zhou said, then what I said is not the truth? Bingkun said, even if it is a fact, you can't say that?
Just when the father and son were getting more and more excited the more they talked, Zhou Father started to beat Bingkun, and Congcong outside the room rushed in, shouting loudly to Zhou Father, "Don't beat my father."
Father Zhou's sentence "He doesn't know me is okay, he knows how good it hurts you", Father Zhou's words are too sad, his father envies his son, I don't know what Zhou Bingkun thinks...
And Bingkun's sentence "All become a father, and your father beats you, isn't this happiness?" That's a really good thing to say. We ordinary people, don't we just want our parents to live a long and healthy life, no matter how old they are, and their parents beat themselves, isn't this the simplest happiness!
Father Zhou said in front of Zheng Juan that Bingkun was the most fierce child of the three children, because of this, every time he came home, he would beat him once. Father Zhou said that he had lost much to Bingkun all these years, but he was beaten because of this sharpness.
Bingkun replied with a particularly warm sentence: I will change, but you should still fight. Zheng Juan was amused at once, and through this quarrel, the heart knot of the Zhou family's father and son for many years was opened.
There is nothing wrong with the quarrel between the father and son of the Zhou family, just two people take advantage of this heat to suppress so many years in their hearts, the words of grievance, resentment, and regret.
The Zhou family has become so good, so that many people in the photon film envy, this is the old knot and Zheng Juan's dedication to pay, the old father lost some face and nothing to be wronged.
Father Zhou's praise for the eldest son and his pampering of his daughter are obvious to everyone, so take advantage of the present to give a big affirmation to the old knot and Zheng Juan who have paid the most.
Father Zhou, as the head of the family, is particularly sensible. Although he has a unique thinking mode of that era, the essence of human beings is still kind and kind!
In fact, the children in life are willing to be held in the palm of their hands by their parents, and they will not care about the efforts between brothers and sisters. The biggest fear is that his efforts are taken for granted by his parents and other siblings, plus he despises them.
Everyone has their own strengths, it can't be the same, the most annoying parents who are children always compare their children, so that the children's hearts produce a disharmonious factor, but it is the source of the parents' late desolation.
That special era caused the lack of communication and opportunities between father and son, and the gap became deeper and deeper! But in the silver screen, two people are angry, both people are crying, tears are full of eyes, quarrels are full of red faces, very real!
This is the most real life in the world, not only the estrangement between parents and children, but also the tears and love after untying each other's knots.
In life, many parents do not give their children the opportunity to explain in this way, and always release their resentment in the form of quarrels, and in the end, parents are angry, their children are cold, and no one's life is good.
It is hoped that all parents in the world can calm down and slowly listen to the voices of their children, which is the most sincere affection and love in the world.
Author: Hua Gui Zen Heart
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have stories, I have tea, and we talk about the rest of our lives together.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.