11.18
Recently, I have heard so many of your love stories, and they are all in line with the book "Why We Are Married and Why We Are Unfaithful". As a rigorous scientific work, it tells us:
1. We prefer ordinary people, too good or too bad, will make us discouraged.
2. It's not that the people we like look like first love, but that we have already drawn a love map in our heads, and we are looking for the ideal partner in our minds. (In fact, this is a bit like intimacy, or it also coincides with some writings about the original family.) ）
(3) In economically independent societies where men and women are economically independent, the divorce rate is much higher than in societies where men and women are interdependent.
![Found in the Yangliu Youth Painting; "Boya Wrestling Qin Xie Zhiyin" (see figure left), for which I read again: "Bo Ya Wrestling Qin Xie Zhiyin" in the "Cautionary Tales" compiled by Feng Menglong in the Ming Dynasty[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)