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I am 61 years old and my wife has been dead for half a year. I married 50-year-old Huang Xue a week ago, but after a month of marriage I couldn't stand her because some of her behaviors really made me unacceptable

author:Sprinkle wisdom on the mountain

I am 61 years old and my wife has been dead for half a year. I married 50-year-old Huang Xue a week ago, but after a month of marriage I couldn't stand her because some of her behaviors really made me unacceptable. Every night, it always keeps me from falling asleep and feels like a pair of eyes are staring at me. This morning, I finally made the right decision. But Huang Xue's behavior surprised me

I am 61 years old and have just retired for a year. Now I can get a retirement salary of more than 6,000 yuan per month. I am satisfied. Six months ago, after my wife died of illness, I lived alone. There is a house of 120 square meters, empty. I was lonely. Although my daughter is not far from married, she can't come home very often.

In order to find some fun for my life, I often find people in the downstairs community to play chess and make a group of chess friends. One day, I played chess with my chess buddy Lao Zhang. I hit him three times in a row. He was very unconvinced, so he and I discussed continuing to participate in the community chess tournament the next day. Unexpectedly, I didn't see Lao Zhang's shadow in the next few days.

Later, Lao Liu told me that Lao Zhang died of a heart attack. Lao Zhang's sudden death gave me a heavy blow and a wake-up call. Because Lao Zhang, like me, lived alone after his wife died. So I think when Lao Zhang had a heart attack, if there were people around him, he wouldn't die suddenly like this.

Since then, I've had the idea of finding another wife because I also have high blood pressure and my heart isn't very good. Just want to find a wife to take care of each other.

Later, under the introduction of Lao Liu, a community chess friend, I met Huang Xue. Huang Xue is the younger sister of Old Liu's daughter-in-law. Like me, she was a widow. Her husband died of illness a year ago.

When I first met Huang Xue, I thought she must be a gentle person. No matter what she said or did, she wasn't the kind of romantic person she was, but a slow and meticulous person. Her clothes and shoes were clean on and off. Moreover, she is not tall and has a small face. She looked much younger than she really was.

I am very satisfied with her physical condition, and Huang Xue is also a person with a retirement salary. Although she only has more than 3,000 yuan, I think this is enough. After we were together for more than two months, we decided to be together.

When we invited the kids to dinner, we were already married. Huang Xue also moved from her house to my house. When I helped her pack her bags that day, I saw some of the men's old clothes in a suitcase that looked like pajamas. I don't care much.

Unexpectedly, later, she brought me these pajamas and asked me to put them on to sleep. I don't think pajamas are new. Some people don't want to wear it, but Huang Xue said: The clothes belong to her ex-husband. Good quality. You can sleep with them on so I feel safe. This is mainly my first day at your house. I made a bed. If you can put on this nightgown, I'll get a good night's sleep. After much deliberation, I finally put it on.

That night, Huang Xue slept soundly, but I was so confused that I couldn't sleep. I didn't sleep for a while until dawn.

But at noon the next day, Huang Xue said she was going home to get something. I wanted to go with her, but she refused. Unexpectedly, she brought a photo of her and her ex-husband to my house and hung it at the head of my bed.

I'm very angry about that. I said: I put away all the things I used to be with my wife. Unexpectedly, you deliberately hung a photo of your ex-husband at my house. What do you mean?

But Huang Xue smiled and said: I didn't hang it on purpose, I'm really used to looking at this picture. I didn't see it every night and I found it hard to fall asleep. As a man, you should be generous. Why compete with the dead?

Huang Xue's words made me unable to refute them, but my heart was repelled to the extreme. For several consecutive days, I often dreamed that Huang Xue's ex-husband came to me and said that I had robbed his wife. Every time I woke up, I would sweat profusely and feel that my home was dark, while Huang Xue still slept soundly.

Although I was very unhappy, I felt that Huang Xue had just come to my house and everything was following her. After all, I still wanted to start a new life with her, so I chose to compromise anyway. Until last night, Huang Xue suddenly discussed it with me before going to bed. She said: "I want to bring a portrait of my ex-husband to our house. Now I live with you and leave him there alone, I can't stand it. I put his portrait photo in your house. Let him also see the happy life I am living now, and he will feel at ease.

When I heard about it, I was stunned. I didn't expect Huang Xue to say this. I've been putting up with what's ahead of me, but she's standing up and saying more and more. I really couldn't stand it this time. I said to her: Since you can't forget him in your heart, why live with me. Have you thought about how I feel? What do you think I'll think?

Huang Xue didn't expect me to be so angry, so she had to apologize to me. But I don't want to hear it. This morning, I had a showdown with Huang Xue. I asked her to take back her ex-husband's pictures and clothes. Don't put it in my house anymore, let alone the last picture.

Huang Xue didn't expect me to say that. She stomped her feet in anger. In the end, she took everything away and said that even if she begged her, she would never come to my house in the future.

Just like that, Huang Xue and I broke up, but now I'm starting to regret it. I want Huang Xue to come back. Do you think I'm going to go too far #Emotion# #情感情感 #

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