My cousin invited me to dinner, and he asked me to borrow money for 100,000. I took a bank card out of my bag and handed it to him, telling him that it had $80,000 on it. Half an hour later, he called me and asked me

My cousin invited me to dinner, and he asked me to borrow money for 100,000. I took a bank card out of my bag and handed it to him, telling him that it had $80,000 on it. Half an hour later, he called me and asked me why I was playing with him. What I said made him feel ashamed.

My name is Liu Yu. I'm 35 years old. I am the hostess of a clothing store. I'm married. My husband is a civil servant. My in-laws have now retired from the company. They helped me with my kids at home so I could do my business with peace of mind.

Just three days ago, my cousin called and invited me to dinner. I hesitated, went, and let the clerk look after the store. After I arrived, my cousin was very enthusiastic about me. Give me the menu and let me feel free. But I knew he was trying to make money, so I ordered some cheap dishes.

On the way to dinner, my cousin kept paying attention to me, saying that I could become beautiful and make money. I thought to myself, he was wrong, it was good for me.

My cousin hesitated for a moment and said to me, "Cousin, now my daughter-in-law has a child again." Taking the children out to play is very inconvenient and very hard for me, so I discussed with my wife to buy a car, but you know that my salary is not high, and the money I earn is only enough for family expenses, so I want to borrow 100,000 yuan from you to buy a car. ”

I said to him, "My business is not particularly good, and I want to buy goods, so I may not be able to borrow money for you." You'd better find another way out. ”

At this time, my cousin said to me, "Cousin, lend it to me." The others were moonlight men like me. I couldn't borrow money at all. Rest assured, I promise to pay you back within a year. ”

Speaking of this, I took a bank card out of my bag and said to him: "There is 80,000 yuan in this card, you take it." The password is the same as last time. ”

The cousin immediately laughed. I said, thank you, cousin, I will definitely pay you back on time, otherwise you will be the best for me. "

I smiled, didn't say a word, and went home. As soon as I got home, I got a call from my cousin, who said to me angrily, "Cousin, what are you kidding?" Cary had no money at all. Did you mean it? "

I pretended not to know and said to him, "Didn't you pay me back before?" Three years ago, you borrowed 80,000 yuan from me and said you would pay me back in two years. I thought you gave it back to me, so I thought there was $80,000 in it. ”

My cousin said to me angrily, "Cousin, you are too ungrateful. When you went to college, my parents sold all the chickens, ducks and cows in the family to feed you with tuition and help you go to college. I never thought you'd borrow $100,000 from you. You're also deliberately playing me. ”

Not to be outdone, I said, "Am I not good enough for you?" Don't forget who bought you a wedding house. Just to buy you a house, I borrowed 300,000. Your house is a million in total. I've bought it all for you. What more could you want? Three years ago, you borrowed 80,000 yuan from me, but you didn't pay it back. Now you want to borrow $100,000 from me. Do you think I run a bank? Don't you think you're really going too far? ”

The year I went to college coincided with my mother's cancer. My father sold everything of value in my house. In addition, I borrowed a little money from relatives and friends to make up for my mother's surgery, but I couldn't borrow my tuition anymore, so I had to go to my uncle. But my uncle also lent all the money in the family to my dad. He said he had no money. After thinking about it, he had to sell all the chickens, ducks and cows in the family. Then he borrowed a little money from a friend to cover my tuition and helped me finish college.

After graduating from college, I worked for a company, but the salary was not high. In order to help me go to college, my uncle and my aunt had a lot of conflicts and quarrels, so I thought I had to repay my uncle's kindness as soon as possible, otherwise my uncle was embarrassed, so I resigned from the company and went to a clothing store to do business with others.

I try to get out early and come home late, and I also have some skills to match clothes. Later, I felt that the preparation was almost complete, so I found a shop to renovate and opened my first clothing store. Fortunately, good things grind a lot. I succeeded and earned the first pot of gold in my life.

After earning money, I first gave my uncle 200,000 yuan to repay his kindness.

When my aunt saw me giving them money, she smiled happily. After that, my aunt often came to my shop to pick up clothes, and I confiscated her money.

Just three years ago, my cousin was getting married, and the woman asked to buy a marriage house. There are also a dowry of 100,000. My aunt came to my shop and asked me to buy my cousin a $1 million house. Originally I just wanted to give him a down payment, but my aunt said that if they hadn't funded me that year, I wouldn't have been able to finish college, let alone open a clothing store, so she asked me to give my cousin the full amount.

Later, I went home to discuss this matter with my husband, who still said that he understood me, but he only helped me this time and would not give me money in the future.

Then I agreed. Later, however, there was still not enough money to pay for their wedding bride price. My uncle had no choice but to call me and ask me to borrow another 80,000 yuan to my cousin to get married. My cousin also promised to pay me back within two years. In the end, I can only say yes.

So when I say that, my cousin is ashamed.

Are my ideas and practices right?

The bystander said: I think you did the right thing. Your cousin is too greedy. It turned out that you bought him a house with full money and lent him 80,000 yuan to get married. But I didn't expect him to borrow 100,000 from you to buy a car, completely using you as a cash machine.

This is the way to treat ungrateful people. You're doing it right. I support you.