When it comes to marriage, it should be a happy and sweet expectation, when it comes to divorce, it should be dispersed if it can't go on, but now, the family-destroyed marriage makes men afraid of marriage, and they are more afraid of it.
Ten miles of different roads, a hundred miles of different customs, in my coordinates, marriage is a burden for men, for women is picky, really respond to the sentence "a family has a hundred women to ask for" words.
After picking and choosing, meeting the requirements to agree to marry, once unsatisfactory, find various excuses to refuse, realistic and material helplessness, not to mention how men are, just like the parents are bitter hair loss, just like the aunt said "raising children when they are sad, growing up more worried."
After seeing the facts many times, I found that the sheer demands of women make more and more men unable to get married and dare not divorce.
An aunt in the community complained to my mother, saying that the daughter-in-law who had emptied the family the year before had run away with all the family's property.
At first, I was ashamed that people did not dare to call the police to find it in my family, and then I had to call the police, but after three months, the woman returned to her mother's house by herself.
It is reasonable to sue for divorce to compensate for losses, but the family's one-year-old children, the cost of marrying relatives, let the man's family retreat, the man is hard to resist the woman's infidelity and uncleanness, said to come back to live a good life and forgive, who knows that women are not happy.
She hated that men could not make much money in January, and they had to repay the mortgage, which made her unable to live a good life, so she insisted on divorce, and the mother's family held the idea of "daughter remarried and still receive a bride price", which ended the family affair between the two families.
The aunt said that it was not that they were shameless, but that they could not afford to get married. Less than three years after marriage, at that time the bride price was 180,000, the house and marriage all kinds of things added up, until now the account has not been paid off, where is the ability to marry a second time.
Now, ordinary people marry wives and are poor for two generations.
The reality that the cost of marriage is getting higher and higher year by year, this kind of thing has been common, to say a word that is not exaggerated, similar plots listen to the ears of the cocoon, the only difference is that some women have a bottom line, and some women such as a bottomless pit, greedy and unsatisfied.
Perhaps in the eyes of the woman, she only made the minimum requirements, not harsh at all, and even felt that there was no house, no car, no savings, and she should be single if she could not marry, so as not to let the good girl of the Hoho people suffer with you.
A female classmate recently went on a blind date, in just half a month she saw ten objects, such a high frequency, not only did not have a look at the eyes, but also in the circle of friends angry spit: "No money to kiss, what marriage, they have no ability to blame others for high requirements, the dowry car room deposit is less like that." ”
In the eyes of such people, you can't afford to give her a request and are not eligible to fall in love and get married, but at the same age, they receive three thousand salaries a month, but they require men to have everything, which in itself is unbalanced.
Not to mention whether women have the courage to raise their requirements, after all, there is a certain material foundation to ensure the quality of life, otherwise there is no home for marriage, there is no money to give birth to a child, there is indeed no place to complain, there is no place to shed tears.
Poor couples Pepsi lament is not just talking.
But as a man, he should bear the corresponding money, as a woman, can you keep your duty? Do you marry a man, Qinser and Ming, and never abandon him?
If you can, why bother marrying you with the strength of the whole family, but I am afraid that I am afraid that you will not be able to settle down.
When enjoying the privilege of getting used to it, once it encountered a small friction in the in-laws' home, it began to make a fuss and not agree, no matter what happened, the divorce was used as an excuse, and the tried and tested fox fake tiger Wei laid the foundation at the beginning.
Whether it is a blind date or a marriage in love, this kind of situation has long been commonplace, to say a word that often ridicules my mother, after 60 and 70, when I was angry with my mother-in-law, now I look at my daughter-in-law's face, a miserable generation.
Jokes come from life, not so much ridicule as bitter pleasure, who let the high threshold of marrying a daughter-in-law, pressing on the parents and sons for two generations.
Saying so much, there is no sense of accusing women of utilitarianism, just want to express that marriage is not to make a fortune, and since men have done their best to give you the greatest sincerity, they should know how to cherish, rather than blindly gaining inches and not being satisfied.
After all, when you hate him for not being good at anything, you may wish to think about your own value, how big a bowl to eat, and don't have unrealistic princess dreams all day.
And men before getting married, first of all, to consider the other party's character, if it is the kind of greedy, insatiable satisfaction does not know gratitude, under the guise of love lion opens his mouth to want everything, everything is picky, then he should consider whether to get married in the end.
Some of the conditions on the side are really irrelevant, because no matter how beautiful the appearance, the character can not marry home and can not be peaceful, especially as ordinary people, we do not have too much money to squander, we should be cautious and careful.
Otherwise, before getting married, you are worried that you can't get married, after marriage, you can't bear to divorce, the lack of warmth in the family, two people are separated from the heart, the bitterness of life, the torture is a lifetime.
Here I would like to advise women not to ask a man to have thirty-year-old achievements when he is in his twenties, let alone to love the rich and abandon the family, to know the cycle of cause and effect, the pit you dig today will have to be filled tomorrow.