Many people have experienced unfortunate marriages to find that in fact, the arranged marriages in the past were quite good, at least the door was right, even if they lost, they would not lose too badly, and now they are free to love and free to marry, and the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. It seems that marriage is too free and there is no sense of responsibility, but the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. The marriage of the older generation is more about living together and hugging the group for warmth, and now it is not only necessary to feel spiritually but also to enjoy materially, and now people have higher requirements for marriage, not only to love deeply, but also to be pampered. Statistics show that the divorce rate has risen for more than a decade in a row! The high divorce rate has become a common problem of social nature. Is marriage really the graveyard of love?
The divorce rate in the mainland is rising year by year, and most of the marriage breakdowns cannot escape these eight reasons, which is regrettable!
First, with the development of social economy, women's employment rate increases, there is income to support themselves, no longer dependent on men, men and women tend to be equal, marriage is no longer a necessary option for women, dare to say "no" to marriage, often mention divorce, it is reported that more than 70% of divorce is first proposed by women.
Second, the traditional feudal social habit of mother-in-law managing daughter-in-law to suppress daughter-in-law still remains in the hearts of the older generation, and now women are more independent and stronger, so there are many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. There are still many families of mothers and men in society, who obey their mothers, on the one hand, the mother and the wife, in the face of two strong women but can not come up with a way to resolve the contradiction, over time, eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
Third, most of the young people now are only children, spoiled by their parents to grow up, more willful, no tolerance, and will not communicate, marriage is based on communication management, no communication and communication of couples, their feelings can not be better. There will be a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings between husband and wife without communication, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, the freshness of marriage for several years has passed, and eventually become a familiar stranger, when the couple's feelings are weakest, it is also the easiest to be taken advantage of by the opposite sex, which eventually leads to the breakdown of the marriage.
Fourth, love, as long as the wind and snow are enough, marriage is realistic, need to consider the rice oil and salt and children's upbringing and parents' pension and other issues. Now many girls want to marry a rich man, just don't want their marriage to be troubled by financial reasons in the future, many women will always complain that men do not let her live a worry-free life. The so-called poor couple Pepsi lament, as long as they have experienced an embarrassing life without money, they will make people deeply appreciate the meaning of this sentence. Without money, children cannot receive a good education, parents cannot enjoy their old age, and they cannot live a quality life themselves. Women often don't blame themselves, she just blames men for not letting her live a carefree life. Economic constraints and life pressures and other small and large trivialities in the family also affect the feelings of husband and wife to a certain extent, which in turn leads to frequent quarrels affecting the feelings of husband and wife. It is not uncommon to argue about the eventual breakdown of a marriage.
Fifth, there are some young people who are easy to be impulsive, because of a few months of hot love and ignore the decades of life after marriage, and some older young people who are urged to marry and get married hastily, the other party has bad habits and three views of discord will be exposed in the real family, and some shortcomings, is unacceptable, such as a woman with serious cleanliness, a husband who is unwilling to take a bath for a year, she really can't live with each other. An avant-garde mind, a very traditional concept, how to live together? Since it seems to be in harmony with God, it is better to part ways as soon as possible, so as not to avoid pain. In life, due to the incompatibility of the three views, the contradictions have intensified, and there are not a few who will eventually lead to the disintegration of marriage.
Sixth, now is the Internet era, people's communication is wider, more temptations, many people like to find stimulation betrayal feelings do not feel ashamed, the pursuit of some Western rich class, film and television entertainment class of the decadent lifestyle, they pay more attention to material more greedy enjoyment, can not resist the temptation, this is currently the biggest cause of divorce, according to statistics more than half of divorced couples, their divorce is the other party's cheating, intervening and so on.
Seventh, domestic violence, whether verbal or physical, can easily lead to the breakdown of marriage, because now is a civilized society, men and women are equal, marriage is also free, and certainly can't stand the insults of the other party.
Marriage is like a tug-of-war, a person is futile to work harder, when another person let go, marriage is difficult to manage, marriage needs to be managed with heart, marriage is not difficult, a hundred years of good union is not difficult, the difficulty is whether you are willing to pay time and energy for this, manage marriage, manage feelings, manage lovers. Many marriages are lost to the trivial life after marriage, and the end of marriage is not an overnight thing, most of them are caused by the above seven reasons, you say yes? (The picture comes from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact the must delete). This article is original by Youtaobang, welcome to pay attention, take you along with long knowledge! Xiaobian throws bricks and leads jade, welcome everyone to express their opinions in the comment area, thank you!