The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
Although from the beginning, Lily knew that her boyfriend had some characteristics of a phoenix man, Lily's yearning for love has never been broken, and she believes that through her own efforts, she can slowly change the quality of her boyfriend. However, unexpectedly, on the eve of marriage, the boyfriend showed off in the circle of friends that "my daughter-in-law posted me upside down", which Lily saw from her friend's mobile phone.
Lily could not have imagined in any way that her family did not ask for a bride price from her boyfriend's family for the sake of her boyfriend's family, which actually became the capital for her boyfriend to show off to outsiders, for this reason, Lily felt very angry, and she was completely disappointed in her boyfriend, and her feelings for many years were ruined.
He is Lily's first love, as the saying goes, in everyone's heart, for their first love, there is an inexplicable attachment, and for Lily, he has always been the support of faith in his heart, even if he is useless, but in Lily's heart, it is so bright.
Lily and her boyfriend met at a very early age, when the two were still just classmates, classmates plus the same table, adolescent ignorance and friendship continued until graduation, and finally the night before graduation, the two confided in each other.
After officially becoming a couple, Lily and her boyfriend faced the pain of four years of long-distance love, but fortunately, Lily and her boyfriend insisted, so after graduating from college, at the urging of the family, Lily and her boyfriend confirmed the marriage.
After several years of getting along, Lily thinks that she knows her boyfriend very thoroughly, and in her usual bits and pieces of life, Lily can also obviously feel her boyfriend's love for herself, so when the two families discuss marriage matters, because Lily has discussed with her parents in advance, she does not want the bride price of her boyfriend's family, so the "kissing banquet" has progressed very smoothly.
As Lily's parents are still very worried about this, from the beginning, Lily's parents are planning to symbolically receive some bride price, and then when Lily gets married, as a dowry to accompany the in-laws, after all, the family is also this baby daughter, as Lily's parents, naturally will put all their energy into Lily's body.
But the daughter's opinion had to be taken seriously, and after several thoughts by Lily's parents, coupled with Lily's assurances, the parents finally agreed with Lily's opinion.
However, lily's parents do not know that all this is lily's boyfriend negotiated with lily in advance, that is, lily's boyfriend relied on Lily's love for himself to avoid the bride price.
Of course, as Lily, she is not stupid, and it is precisely because of her love for her boyfriend, coupled with the fact that the conditions of her boyfriend's family at that time were really not very good, that she agreed to lobby her parents without mentioning the bride price.
It can be said that Lily's love is unreserved in her boyfriend, but the boyfriend seems to be somewhat "unauthentic" to Lily.
After meeting his parents with her boyfriend, Lily had an illusion in her mind that her boyfriend was somewhat overly obedient to his parents.
In order to test her own ideas, Lily deliberately offered to disagree with his parents and wanted to test her boyfriend's approach. Sure enough, after the boyfriend learned about this matter, he came to Lily's side and bitterly admonished Lily, and in general, he said, "My parents are elders, we should listen to him."
The deliberate action of many things makes Lily clearly understand that the boyfriend himself is a phoenix man.
But Lily firmly believes that her love for him is enough to change this characteristic of him.
But the development of things is somewhat unexpected by Lily, since his family promised her boyfriend not to pay the bride price, the boyfriend did not pay as much attention to himself as before, and he did not have too much warm hospitality every time he would be in his mother-in-law's house.
Lily also reflected on whether there was anything wrong with her.
Until one day, a friend sent himself a screenshot of his boyfriend's circle of friends: my daughter-in-law does not want a bride price, she pastes me upside down.
After Lily saw this picture, she was almost angry and fainted, she opened her circle of friends, but did not see this one sent by her boyfriend, Lily understood that this is the boyfriend shielding himself.
She saved the picture and sent it directly to her boyfriend.
Not long after, the boyfriend called lily to explain, and Lily was completely disappointed in her boyfriend, she did not expect that she understood her boyfriend's family and did not ask for a bride price from his family, which would become the capital for the boyfriend to show off to outsiders.
No matter what her boyfriend explained, Lily seemed to turn a deaf ear.
The boyfriend saw that things were powerless to return to heaven, and could not help but confide the truth, it turned out that the boyfriend was also influenced by his parents, and his parents thought that since Lily's family did not want a bride price, it meant that she was upside down, and she was also under a momentary impulse to send a circle of friends.
After Lily listened to her boyfriend's words, she couldn't help but feel a little lucky, she was fortunate not to marry, otherwise what awaited her after marriage would be an abyss.
It is precisely because the boyfriend shows off in the circle of friends that the relationship is ruined.
Today's topic: When getting married, whether the bride price is necessary or not, welcome to discuss in the message.