This... The North American Era is here again
Selena and Hailey's horse-catching plot has developed a new story line, starting from Selena uploading a swimming photo, and many people began to humiliate her.
Meanwhile, Hayley and her little sisters shot the video with the same BGM as this video.
Netizens thought that Hailey was secretly satirizing Selena and was dissatisfied with Selena, after reading the comments of netizens, Hailey quickly deleted the video and explained that this was just a random selection of music by the sisters taking the video, and did not target anyone.
Under the video of the fan discussion, Selena responded, "It's okay, everyone be friendly, I won't be affected by these things."
Wave after wave, Selena posted a video, complaining that she accidentally spent her eyebrows too much.
After that, Hailey's friend Kelly sent a selfie with text marked on her eyebrows, which was accidental?
also posted a screenshot of the video with Hailey, and the camera zoomed in and enlarged the eyebrows.
NETIZENS ATTACKED AGAIN, THINKING THAT KELLY WAS INSINUATING SELENA, THIS TIME DIRECTLY DETONATING THE TIKTOK TOPIC LIST.
Kelly explained under the video, I haven't seen her video at all, you are all making up the facts, this is stupid.
Selena also came out to help Kelly speak, there is no need for everyone to do this, I am a fan of Kelly.
It's not enough to progress here... Netizens began to archaeology the video of Haley's unfriendly friends before Selena, and after the melee, Selena became the person with the most fans on IG.
But she was not happy about it, she watched things go more and more out of control, and decided to temporarily withdraw from the Internet.
In this melee, it is inevitable that some people will comment that this is a trick often played between girls, who love to engage in internal strife and are jealous.
Brush casually, the first hot comment and see that some people say that beautiful women have arrogance, but they are easy to be jealous and planted by the same sex??
Immediately after seeing the following hot search, I really rolled my eyes...
Why is it called the jealous moment of female friendship? Is it because this is next to the female word, it will evolve into a female noun?
Men have never lacked vicious competition and jealousy of each other for a long time, so why do you rarely hear people say that men are jealous?
In fact, it is not that men do not have this phenomenon, but they beautify this emotion...
Turn jealousy into a woman's exclusive label
It is a sin of desire
The hot search for this topic #Jealous Moments in Female Friendship# originated from a video of a blogger Quan Xixi and his friends.
Put the theme directly in the title, 16 years of friendship, hoping that the other party can live well, but not better than yourself.
Quan Xixi is honest, and she shows that in getting along with friends, it is inevitable to compare with each other.
For example, during college, because her friend's boyfriend was defined in the mainstream as rich and handsome, her vanity at that moment was faintly at work.
She found and acknowledged that she was in this emotion, oh, I do jealous of her now.
Although it is common for people to have jealousy, why should the word jealousy be regarded as an exclusive label in female friendship?
In fact, the stigma surrounding female friendships has long been ingrained in the minds of the general public.
From the stereotype of "three women in one play" in the proverbial, to the ridiculous rumor that has been circulating for a long time in modern times, six girls in the girls' dormitory and seven groups.
Also, the presentation of female friendship in film and television dramas even gave birth to the ridiculous proverb of "fire, burglary, and girlfriends".
In the interview program, the host will directly point out that women are very careful with each other, because the other party will not like to listen, implying that women are jealous.
Going back to the past history, in the Wei and Jin Dynasties, female jealousy became the prevailing custom at that time, and there were many "jealous women" in "The World Speaks New Words".
For example, Guo Huai, wife of Jia Chong, Princess Nankang Chang, wife of Huan Wen, and wife of Xie Xuan, these wives were jealous because their husbands took new concubines.
But! Please don't ignore the follow-up to this story.
When Hengwen's wife, Princess Nankang Chang, learned that her husband had a new concubine, she took dozens of maids with knives and prepared to kill each other.
When she went to the new concubine's accommodation, she saw that the other party was dressing up unhurriedly, completely unmoved by her momentum, and said with a sad expression: "The country is broken, there is no intention to come here, if you can kill today, it is the essence." ”
The eldest princess pity the other party's experience, thinking that in the chaotic world, it is difficult to protect herself, and it is even more difficult to have a way out, so why bother to embarrass a woman in this situation who cannot control her own life? Then flick his sleeves away.
Sheep do not advocate forgiveness of third parties, but in historical records, women are often characterized as jealous because of such heavy records.
What's more disgusting is that sometimes jealousy is used to classify women, saying that it is a good thing to be jealous of other women, because they are better, high-level women, yue...
It is clear that women have more moments to help each other, like several groups of female condensation perspectives that have recently become popular in the circle, women are facing tolerance and kindness of other people of the same sex.
Kate and Michelle Yeoh praised each other's performance and personal charm, "You have great energy from head to toe" "You have your own aura as soon as you appear".
When Kate Winslet learned that the other party's female reporter was interviewing for the first time, she sat forward with a smile, looked into the other party's eyes and said sincerely:
"Trust me, this is going to be the best interview ever, you can ask me any questions."
Why is there so much beauty among women, but it is always magnified by some of the shortcomings of humanity, thus blaming this entire female group.
Aren't men jealous? Of course not, it's just that their jealousy is sublimated and glorified...
Glorification of male jealousy
Same narrative, different definition
In the history books, the courtiers liked by the emperor, fought openly and secretly, did not care about the deep brotherhood, could not tolerate the promotion of the same window, and were very jealous in their hearts.
The story of the nine sons of Kangxi seizing the cannibalism and the seven sons of Sun Quan competing for favor are not uncommon in film and television dramas.
Yang takes two more classic examples, "Langya List" and "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the main line is revenge and fighting.
It's all essentially the same narrative, but it's defined differently because of gender.
The throne in "Langya List" has a grand narrative of national hatred and family feud, and the backyard infighting in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" is a group of women who have nothing to do all day and fight blindly for pets.
So, it's not that jealousy doesn't exist in men, but that men's jealousy is glorified.
And now, it's the same.
The jealousy of modern men has been upgraded to a high-level competition and business war that is deceitful, strategic.
Their jealousy is packaged in their careers as falling in love with themselves and becoming competitive among their peers.
In short, it is positive, and anyone who mentions it is the kind of praise.
Let's look at the struggle of women's workplace dramas.
Because he saw that the other party was more liked by the leader, he tripped over each other and stepped on each other by throwing the pot, portraying women as vitriol, jealous and virtuous.
However, in the workplace, the starting point of the infighting between men and women in the workplace is the same, wanting to prove that they are stronger than each other.
Also, men who become superior without a look are the stratagems of the city, while women become scheming women with derogatory meanings.
It is not enough to put negative filters on women, but also to defile and interpret words about beauty.
Ladies and princesses, who originally had a distinguished status in ancient times, have now become synonymous with sex workers, and many people use such adjectives to slander girls.
嫖 is a common pseudonym, and its other meaning means light appearance, and it also became the name of the princess, the daughter of Emperor Wen of Han.
The most classic rhetoric is, why are these bad words next to women?
Demon,,, suspect, prostitute, prostitute, slave, greedy, adultererous, jealous, jealous...
Chen Di's conceptual dictionary mentioned that the most ironic thing is the "adulterer" of a traitor, in ancient times women did not even have the opportunity to become a courtier, so why talk about traitor?
Intervention language is a way to change thinking, and it is important to be alert to this subtle gender cognitive behavior.
I hope more people know that these negative profanities are definitely not proper nouns for women, and the act of splashing dirty water on women should have stopped a long time ago.
Stop making these stigmatized terms a feminine label, and human nature should not be imposed on one gender.