Many men have a prejudice against divorced women, saying that divorced women are people with stories and stay away from them. In fact, there are many reasons for divorce, and you can't blame all the mistakes on women. As the saying goes, a slap does not make a sound, and both people have problems when they go to divorce, so when they encounter divorced women, they should also be treated rationally, do not hold prejudices, treat them well, learn to accept and take the relationship seriously, and life is still very happy. If it feels like this woman is not suitable to be a wife by getting along, then it is best to stay away and not let yourself marry the wrong person and feel regrets.
Fang Liang (pseudonym) 35 years old (unmarried) raises chickens in rural areas
After the divorce, Lily returned to her parents' home, but in the countryside with her parents and brothers-in-law to stay in the same home, there will be contradictions over time, after all, the female eldest is not left. Besides, her parents and sister-in-law also wanted her to remarry, and Lily struggled for a long time to enter the road of remarriage. Fang Liang is an elderly bachelor, there is not much money, in recent years, the girls in the village have felt that he is poor and unwilling to marry him, so he will delay to more than 30 years old, to know that in the countryside this age is indeed not small.
Lily and Fang felt ok after they appeared to kiss, so they directly discussed marriage, and Lily asked for 88,000 and said she wanted a guarantee. Fang Liang also understood that she was insecure, so he snuggled up to her and bought her jewelry, and Lily happily married Fang Liang. After marriage, in addition to raising chickens, the husband and wife also built a vegetable greenhouse, and the little life was flourishing. But because Of the shadow left by Lily in her previous marriage, she always didn't let Fang Liang go out to talk about business, sell chickens and vegetables, afraid that Fang Liang would fall in love with someone else and cheat. In order to reassure Lily, Fang Liang handed over the family's money to her for safekeeping, took her with him when talking about business, and Lily also let down her guard and began to invest in Fang Liang. Fang Liang felt that Lily had been hurt after all, and if he wanted to live with her for a lifetime, he must have enough patience.
Li Ming (pseudonym) is a 40-year-old (divorced) department manager
Li Ming and his current wife Xiao (pseudonym) are both divorced, Li Ming has a daughter, and his wife brings a son. Before getting married, Less said that after marriage, she would go to work to earn money, let Li Ming's parents help take care of the two children, for the stability of this marriage, Li Ming agreed. After getting married, Less said that he was reluctant to live with Li Ming's parents for fear of contradictions, and Li Ming's parents once again gave in to another community in order to remarry their son's family stability. But less than did not go out to work as said before marriage, but chose to be a full-time wife at home, all of which Li Ming made concessions, after all, it is still necessary to have patience in remarriage.
But the next less than what Li Ming did made Li Ming a little unacceptable, less than spending money on his son is a big spending, buying clothes are brand-name, snacks do not leave the mouth, and Li Ming's daughter wants to eat her favorite fruit less than never to buy, clothes are not to mention the stalls, or it is a seasonal discount. To this end, Li Minghe said many times, let her be fair to the two children, do not make the children feel uncomfortable. But every time Li Ming finished speaking, less than spending money more energetically, feeling like desperate consumption, pushing himself and his son bright and beautiful, Li Ming's daughter is always gray-headed and gray-faced.
For this reason, Li Ming's daughter is very aggrieved, after countless grievances, her daughter proposed to live with her grandparents, Li Ming is very sad, and she has an opinion on her wife. In order to make her spend less money, Li Ming gave less money to less, and Less talked to Li Ming every day, saying that Li Ming was not sincere to her. Li Ming said that he was his wife's cash machine, less than did not love him at all, and was with him for money. The wife is less than to say that the man is the one who raises the family and the wife, and thinks that Li Ming is too preoccupied with not enough men, and now Li Ming regrets remarrying, because this day is too boring.
Liu Bin (pseudonym) 36 years old (unmarried) freelance
Liu Bin had a girlfriend who had talked for 5 years before, but the girl hated Liu Bin for not having a house, and directly chose the rich man to leave Liu Bin, and Liu Bin, who was hurt by love, did not talk about his girlfriend for several years. A flash of age to 36, the children of friends around can play soy sauce, everyone advised Liu Bin to lower the standard of mate selection and quickly find someone to end single.
Classmates introduced a divorced woman Nana (pseudonym) to Liu Bin, Nana has a daughter, but after the birth of the daughter has never seen her husband again, Nana said that she does not want to stay widowed for a lifetime, and wants to find a man with love and righteousness to marry. Liu Bin only confirmed one point, that is, Nana's divorce was her ex-husband's problem.
After the exchange, Liu Bin felt that Nana was good and serious about righteousness, so they soon got married, Nana did not mention any conditions to Liu Bin, everything let Liu Bin feel free. But how can Liu Bin be casual, after all, he is married, he bought a house and gave Nana a 50,000 bride price, for which Nana was very moved. She said that if she could have known Liu Bin earlier, she would not have had that dark experience, and promised to live a good life with Liu Bin. Now that Liu Bin and Nana's son is 3 years old, Liu Bin said that although his wife is remarried, the marriage is very happy.
I would like to say:
In fact, marrying a divorced woman and living well is not a one-sided problem, but a matter of two people. A lot of men think that women who were hurt in their previous marriage will definitely cherish it in the next one. But it depends on the person, if a woman was injured in the last marriage and did not lose the ability to love, then she knows how to cherish the person who is good to her. At this time, the man marries this kind of woman who will love, as long as he is sincerely good to her, life will not be bad.
The most frightening thing is that women do not come out of the last marriage, do not realize how to run the marriage, but blindly want to grasp a life-saving straw, remarried life will often live a chicken feather.
So when a man wants to marry a divorced woman, be sure to ask her what the reason for the divorce is, and then look at what she said about the previous marriage. After all, divorce is because of marital problems, and if a person never feels that she is wrong after divorce, then she will make the same mistake when she remarries. Marriage is not a child's play, no matter how many marriages, we must know how to cherish.
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